I have looked thru the search thing but there were hundreds of posts that seemed to match but didnt have anything to do with what i were looking for.. so does anyone know of any place that organises like a swinging holiday camp or something? That sure wud be fun! Cassie x
I know it doesn't vibrate so maybe not quite wot ur looking for but I have a glass dildo.. It really is a feeling out of this world.. and I NEVER need lube with it.. mines got a handle so it makes it easier to use and means John can get a firm hold on it ;) plus u can turn it round use the handle for anal purposes woohoo. Iv also done the making it cold, then hot thing, which is good but often requires too much planning and effort for me lol.. im rather spontaneous!
Cassie x
Ok.. THANKS! Hope its soon!
He is the type of guy to wait to be invited.. this is a result of his already somewhat lack of self confidence.. its now turned into a viscious cycle lol! We've only been to once club.. managed to get the couple who fancied me to take us with them cos we dont own a car at the mo so its hard to get to places. Garden of Eden is very local for me but it says on here that its shut due to a fire.. anyone know when that will be open again? Thanks for all ur advice.. uv really helped me figure it out so i can try and give him some tips.
Cassie
well actually as he is never gonna read this I was hoping people wud be brutally honest.. I mean I have the feeling its the hair u know? or lack of it lol.. ppl get the wrong impression of him from that. I just wanna know wot it is so i can try and sort something out, hopefully short of plastic surgery lol! Please be honest.. he wont read this..
Cassie
yeh it makes sense a lot. you said "mixing with us a bit" u mean like on the forum? I can tell he is really down about it.. he don't say anything but I can tell.. he tells me to go for it.. but I dont want to.. he has low self esteem anyway.. I dunno why.. which is why he works out every day in the gym lol.. but I really wanna find a couple who fancies both of us just to give him that confidence boost u know
Cassie
Hi.. my man and I have been trying to get our swinging sex life off the ground for some time now. We've been to a club, met a few couples but all the time they say they like me.. fancy the fuck out of me and want a threesum with me and not my bf cos they "dont like the look of him" or he isn;t their type. When we went to the club I went with a bloke but John cudnt get more than a cock suck which was by a woman who had about 7 cocks round her at the time and was sucking them all one by one.. so wots wrong with him? Cos I fancy him like the mad.. he's got amazing shoulder and arm muscles.. he makes me wet just to look at him! I will give u our ad link so u can take a look and see wot u think and get back to me.. i wud post some more pics of him in this post except I dunno how to so any tips on that too wud be great. Thanks
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-392109.html
Cassie
Any women fancy some fun in nottingham area on sunday night our ad no. is 392109 and email address is get in touch x
I didnt know where else to try and find out this information, so just wondering if anyone knows when garden of eden club in leicester will re open after their fire.. anyone know or know where i can go to try and find out? thanks
Cassie n John
Iv just had a very liberating experience with my camera phone lol. Its ages since Iv done something like this and now I feel incredibly sexy and very horny. I wanted to do something sexy and a little different from wot iv done before from my bf so I took some advice from someone who posted me on here, I sat on a chair the wrong way if u get me, my legs round the back of the chair and I took a photo of me fully clothed, then I removed my top, took another pic, then I removed my trousers, took another pic, then I removed my bra and knickers and took another pic, all u can see is the chair in the way of the most important bits and then i did a final one of my laying on my bed, with cream squirted round my nipples and some txt saying, fancy licking this off? Iv only just send them and not a got a reply yet, plus he is at work so he might be busy but cant wait for the response! any more suggestions please do post!
Cassie x
Ok.. I used to send lots of sexy pics n little phone vids to my partner of me like fucking my pussy or ass and stuff like this, however I haven't done it in a while cos it got kind of repetitive. Well I wanna do something tonight.. I really wanna get him hott, but wot can I do, any suggestions of something a little different, but very sexy?
Cassie x
Well everyone is different. I dont mind kissing someone at all but my boyfriend finds this hard to deal with. I think he feels that he wants to keep something sacred so to speak and kissing is what he has chosen. I can see your point, surely sex would be seen as more intimate but I can also see it from a different point of view, the way I see it, sex is something you do to get a result, I.E an orgasm whereas kissing alone doesn't really have a result so then at least for my partner, he would think, why is she kissing him, because she isnt going to get an orgasm from it.. do u get me? I love kissing, and it gets me hot but its not essential to turn me on so I am quite happy to not kiss the ppl we swing with. On another note, I am more worried about my other rule, where we only swing with a couple who want to swing with us, no singles sort of thing so neither r left out, but is this gonna be hard to find? Will this hinder us so to speak?
Cassie
ur right.. sorry my bad.. couples n single fems.. its alright in there tho I have nothing to compare it with.. tho I went with my bf was perfectly comfortable around the place on my own. The jacuzzi was ace! U can take ur own towels or buy one for £3 x
Just to let u know I went xtasia on wednesday.. and was told saturday is couples only night.. was I told wrong? Just thought maybe u shud check it out before turning up hunny x
Just wanted to put a little post up about my first ever real swinging experience at club xtasia in birmingham on wednesday. It was absolutely fantastic. if a little quiet. but perfect for our first time. Only fault being, I got lucky but my bf didnt which led to him sitting not far away listening to my moans.. he did get emotional tho didnt show it till we got back to the hotel and after he had gone away for a bit and calmed down he did come back and get sucked off. We had a really long discussion that night and have set some proper rules out. One of our rules being no kissing and the other being we only go with a couple who want to swing with both of us, no singles and that way one isn't left out.. are these unreasonable rules? People keep telling me that swinging cud break us up and that it can become a replacement for our sex lives, however I feel we r stronger than ever, it has helped to form an evern stronger bond between us and as long as we keep communicating well we should be fine. Wot do you guys think?
We are a couple called John, 22, a chef from nottingham and Cassie, 22, a law student from Leicester who is bisexual. We've never done any swinging before but we've spoke about it alot and are both very interested in giving it a go. We're both quite a big couple, but consider ourselves to be fairly good looking. Cassie's got her tongue pierced, Johns got a tattoo on his back. We will send clothed pics. We r looking for a straight couple or couple with bi fem for some fun, we r up for a full swap too. Can travel but cannot accomodate sorry. Get in touch, either add me to msn or just send an email
I just saw the post on how old is too old, and since me n my partner r both pretty young and have found that some ppl feel we r too young to be swinging I thought I would ask around. How old r all of u and wud u not swing with a couple under a certain age?
Cassie n John x
Hi, just thought we'd inroduce ourselves. We are a couple called John, 22, a chef from nottingham and Cassie, 22, a law student from Leicester. We've never done any swinging before but we've spoke about it alot and are both very interested in giving it a go. We've met one proper swinging couple previously, but the attraction wasn't there for all parties involved but it was still great fun and we loved it. Got close to swinging with friends but things got complicated with their relationship so we passed on that one. Now we're on here looking to meet new people and see how it goes, hopefully find a good couple to lose our swinging virginity to. We're both quite a big couple, but consider ourselves to be fairly good looking. Cassie's got her tongue pierced, Johns got a tattoo on his back. Dunno wot else to say, any tips or advice would be great and if anyone wants to add us to msn then go for it, we're very sociable n friendly.
John n Cassie x