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As a newbie, and hopefully a sensible one at that, would it not be possible to steal an idea from a site many people should be familiar with - eBay?
eBay allows a purchaser to rate his experience in dealing with a seller. Whilst I appreciate this forum houses only a fraction of the people out there engaging in "dogging", it makes sense (in my warped brain anyway), to perhaps allowing some form of rating system?
An example may help explain. Anyone using the forum has PM facilities and of course their email address from which the account has to be authorised in the first place.
Let's say Couple A arrange to meet Single Guy A and Single Guy B. A happy experience had by all. Single Guy A leaves a calling card with their forum username. After the event he PM's Couple A since only the real Single Guy can do this (this prevents people using other people's ID's)...Couple A can then rate the experience on the site for all to see.
This doesn't stop the deluge of crappy posts although newbie's posting just to watch I think is somewhat better than those expecting a free shag...BUT....what it would do is inspire a little confidence. For couples, they can judge single guys based on previous ratings. For the guys, their behaviour has an onward impact...
Probably a totally shit idea, but thought I'd mention it anyway....
eBay allows a purchaser to rate his experience in dealing with a seller. Whilst I appreciate this forum houses only a fraction of the people out there engaging in "dogging", it makes sense (in my warped brain anyway), to perhaps allowing some form of rating system?
An example may help explain. Anyone using the forum has PM facilities and of course their email address from which the account has to be authorised in the first place.
Let's say Couple A arrange to meet Single Guy A and Single Guy B. A happy experience had by all. Single Guy A leaves a calling card with their forum username. After the event he PM's Couple A since only the real Single Guy can do this (this prevents people using other people's ID's)...Couple A can then rate the experience on the site for all to see.
This doesn't stop the deluge of crappy posts although newbie's posting just to watch I think is somewhat better than those expecting a free shag...BUT....what it would do is inspire a little confidence. For couples, they can judge single guys based on previous ratings. For the guys, their behaviour has an onward impact...
Probably a totally shit idea, but thought I'd mention it anyway....
Thank you DirtyDoggers 
A sensible answer to what I hoped was a sensible question & I appreciate it took sometime to put together. Saying there are no hard and fast rules is one thing...explaining why in a little more detail certainly helps.
Shame the signals couldn't be a little easier :)
Anyway, thanks for the time put into the reply.
A sensible answer to what I hoped was a sensible question & I appreciate it took sometime to put together. Saying there are no hard and fast rules is one thing...explaining why in a little more detail certainly helps.
Shame the signals couldn't be a little easier :)
Anyway, thanks for the time put into the reply.
Every newbie has to start somewhere right....
I have read various bits and pieces, but some questions remain unanswered for me. As safe play and etiquette are critical (plus a desparate longing not to look/feel a pratt), anyone willing to provide a little further education to a newbie would be greatly appreciated!
I envisage two scenarios. First is pulling up at a local meeting point (unarranged) with no one in the car park. Let's say a couple pull into car park and park further away. Practical issues of darkness and the horrible embarassment of an innocent couple selecting the wrong car park to get all hot and sweaty, what are the signals to approach the car? I know I have repeatedly read the flashing of interior lights etc. but unless I have misread, this is a signal to draw closer, not necessarily one to get the ball rolling so to speak? What do doggers do? Just get out of the car and slowly start to walk over? Wait for a signal of somekind? How do things usually get started?
Second scenario is I am slightly confused about is if there are many doggers there! Am I actually reading this right that some couples may have many males, all strangers to each other, outside the car watching?
Apologies in advance for the ignorance...
I have read various bits and pieces, but some questions remain unanswered for me. As safe play and etiquette are critical (plus a desparate longing not to look/feel a pratt), anyone willing to provide a little further education to a newbie would be greatly appreciated!
I envisage two scenarios. First is pulling up at a local meeting point (unarranged) with no one in the car park. Let's say a couple pull into car park and park further away. Practical issues of darkness and the horrible embarassment of an innocent couple selecting the wrong car park to get all hot and sweaty, what are the signals to approach the car? I know I have repeatedly read the flashing of interior lights etc. but unless I have misread, this is a signal to draw closer, not necessarily one to get the ball rolling so to speak? What do doggers do? Just get out of the car and slowly start to walk over? Wait for a signal of somekind? How do things usually get started?
Second scenario is I am slightly confused about is if there are many doggers there! Am I actually reading this right that some couples may have many males, all strangers to each other, outside the car watching?
Apologies in advance for the ignorance...
Hi, totally new to this, 33 year old male, very clean, slim but wouldn't go as far as atheletic, would love (as all men!) to meet up with experienced couple to break me in gently!
Anyone out in colchester area (can travel) anytime after midnight tonight would be totally great.
A little nervous, descreteness essential....just watching would bring gentle relief!
Anyone out in colchester area (can travel) anytime after midnight tonight would be totally great.
A little nervous, descreteness essential....just watching would bring gentle relief!
