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jollyhockeystick
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 48
Bisexual Female, 32
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Quote by fluff_n_stuff
We have an auto responder? Ooooooooooo tell me more please
Click on 'Settings' under 'My Account' on the left hand side. Select the 'Wink' tab and set the message box with the response you wish to send to winkers. If it says 'none' it means the winks will be delivered to your inbox.
Just tried this very good advice but we don't have the extras upgrade so I guess i'm just gonna have to continue to ignore and delete winks when they come.
Thanks everyone for the feedback & help
Caz xx
Why oh why oh why can't some people read profiles or at least have the decency to send a simple personal message instead of using winks to say "hi".
Our profile clearly states in caps (and I quote) ******* WINKS WILL BE IGNORED****** because I, like so many people here prefer the personal touch so to speak, yet the winks still keep coming.
What's everyone else's view on winks and the fact people have to go onto your profile to send them but don't take the time to read they just view the pics on show?
(ready for my slating now vicar...lol)
Caz x
Our profile clearly states in caps (and I quote) ******* WINKS WILL BE IGNORED****** because I, like so many people here prefer the personal touch so to speak, yet the winks still keep coming.
What's everyone else's view on winks and the fact people have to go onto your profile to send them but don't take the time to read they just view the pics on show?
(ready for my slating now vicar...lol)
Caz x
My heart goes out to you Horny hunni, I can't understand how these peoples mind tick.
Over the years I've had many jobs in many places and have worked with both gay men and women and have not come across such prejudice, maybe i've just been lucky enough not to see it, who knows.
I'd be out of there like a shot for my own sanity rather than classing it as a victory, it's only a victory to you if it's not affecting you and it obviously is so either way they've won.
Hold your head up high and walk tall and hopefully you'll find a new place soon.
Over the years I've had many jobs in many places and have worked with both gay men and women and have not come across such prejudice, maybe i've just been lucky enough not to see it, who knows.
I'd be out of there like a shot for my own sanity rather than classing it as a victory, it's only a victory to you if it's not affecting you and it obviously is so either way they've won.
Hold your head up high and walk tall and hopefully you'll find a new place soon.
Quote by BIoke
Do the women on here think they'd know if there husband or boyfriend was bi? I reckon they would...
Quote by noladreams
I would like to think I would know - but then I would like to think that I would be in a mutually open relationship where bisexuality would not be an issue.
Two very good points here and since I opened this can of worms I feel I should respond to both issiues.
When I 1st met Geoff I had no idea he was Bi curious and it took him a lot of soul searching and a year to tell me be cause he didn't know how I was going to react.
Luckily for him we're in a very steady, open and honest relationship so I took it really well, but I know some don't.
Caz xx
We don't mind sucking cock or eating pussy (either of us...lol) but one of our rules are no kissing as we want to keep something back that's just for us.
Neck, shoulders, back or thighs i suppose is ok but not mouth (note i didn't say lips cos it would've been taken the wrong way)
Caz xx
Neck, shoulders, back or thighs i suppose is ok but not mouth (note i didn't say lips cos it would've been taken the wrong way)
Caz xx
Ooopsie, it appears that i've opened a right can of worms 
As most of you who know us know we're a bi cpl and the amount of straight guys who mails us is rediculous...so I ask them why fib.....once they give us their reason then cool but to answer you Nolan....fibs are not good cos if they can fib about one thing what else are they hiding(ready for even more hate mail to come now)...lol
As most of you who know us know we're a bi cpl and the amount of straight guys who mails us is rediculous...so I ask them why fib.....once they give us their reason then cool but to answer you Nolan....fibs are not good cos if they can fib about one thing what else are they hiding(ready for even more hate mail to come now)...lol
Many thanks to all the ladies, gents and bIoke (lol luv ya really hunni)for the varied replied.
Now we have some insight into why this happens can we not do something about it to make it easier for everyone?
As I said in my 1st post this thread was not a witch hunt or meant to offend but it was meant to do exactly what it has and that's a frank open discussion about why some bi men/women/cpls don't say so on their profiles. :thumbup:
Caz xx
Now we have some insight into why this happens can we not do something about it to make it easier for everyone?
As I said in my 1st post this thread was not a witch hunt or meant to offend but it was meant to do exactly what it has and that's a frank open discussion about why some bi men/women/cpls don't say so on their profiles. :thumbup:
Caz xx
Can I just add that Geoff and I are very open and honest about our sexuality, not only in here but in real life too and if people don't like it then so be it.
We don't see the need to hide who and what we are with people around us and with each other...why are people taking this thread the wrong way?
We don't see the need to hide who and what we are with people around us and with each other...why are people taking this thread the wrong way?
Quote by flower411
Yep ...I get the idea ...
Anybody who holds a preference about not wanting to meet bi guys is a homophobic bigot.
Or isn`t that what you said ??
I don`t really understand ..
Why people can`t have this preference.
Why you immediately assume that the "straight" guys are being truthful.
Erm ok flower the homophobic bit was in response to summat Dave replied and this thread is being taken out of context and i did put a wink after my reply which to me reads as "tongue in cheek".
All I really wanted to know was why do so many bi guys have straight profiles...easy as that....
Oh and kents it's not a bi male typing this if you'd read one of my replies you'd of seen it's the fem half of the bi cpl...so it's Caz not Geoff..does that make it a bit more clear?
Quote by Dave__Notts
Even in this lifestyle, there are some who are homophobic. The bi-guys will then just "forget" to put this on their profile to ensure they appeal to a broader range of potential meets.
Dave_Notts
Very true Dave which I find very sad. Maybe I'm a tad naive but then again I'm not a small minded, homophobic biggott thankfully..
Before the bitching begins, this isn't a witch hunt(just wanted to clear that up.... )
All I want to say is after a few "meet" messages from bi guys I noticed a lot of their profiles said " straight".
When I enquired as to why I got this reply " Because most straight cpls/guys find bi on a profile off putting."
Now what I find hard to believe is that not only in this day and age but more so in this game that some people assume that a bi guy is gonna jump a straight guy...this isn't the case and I speak from experiance as the fem half of a bi cpl.
All comments gratefully recieved and no offence intended.
C xc
)All I want to say is after a few "meet" messages from bi guys I noticed a lot of their profiles said " straight".
When I enquired as to why I got this reply " Because most straight cpls/guys find bi on a profile off putting."
Now what I find hard to believe is that not only in this day and age but more so in this game that some people assume that a bi guy is gonna jump a straight guy...this isn't the case and I speak from experiance as the fem half of a bi cpl.
All comments gratefully recieved and no offence intended.
C xc
