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kcshaggers
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 56
Straight Male, 59
0 miles · Kingston upon Hull
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well for one - I would like to say thanks to Judy for that info - v - intersting - you are a veritable fountain of information!
Well hailing from the east riding of yorks I find many words different from the rest of the country.
Peopel seem to be atlking about bread so . . . .I know down south some area call breadcakes - fadge cake! My goodness, you wud get your face slapped for that up here - fadge being part of a ladies anatomy. We also call breadckaes - stotties depends how they are cooked.
So here's some phrases from my part of the world
bags foggy - go first
bool - to push something with wheels
tansad- fold up pram
chow - tell someone off
k -lie - sherbert
siling - raining
rhoaring - crying
lug- knots in hair
croggy - lift on bike handlebars
nithered - cold
nunty - old fashioned
I believe nithered is actually a hull word that has permeated downwards thru the country and is used in LOndon now - however a report I read somewhere re dilaiects etc claim it is a humber estuary word - dunno how tru that is tho!
Well hailing from the east riding of yorks I find many words different from the rest of the country.
Peopel seem to be atlking about bread so . . . .I know down south some area call breadcakes - fadge cake! My goodness, you wud get your face slapped for that up here - fadge being part of a ladies anatomy. We also call breadckaes - stotties depends how they are cooked.
So here's some phrases from my part of the world
bags foggy - go first
bool - to push something with wheels
tansad- fold up pram
chow - tell someone off
k -lie - sherbert
siling - raining
rhoaring - crying
lug- knots in hair
croggy - lift on bike handlebars
nithered - cold
nunty - old fashioned
I believe nithered is actually a hull word that has permeated downwards thru the country and is used in LOndon now - however a report I read somewhere re dilaiects etc claim it is a humber estuary word - dunno how tru that is tho!
Quote by constance
I don't thnik peopewere really berating u to begin with.
some great advice was given from lots of different people for you to consider and hopefully use some to help you out. Some advice you were ok with and others not. But that's what happens when so many people with different experinces use a forum.
you're not going to like everything offered and others aren't going to like what u have offered.
It makes the world go around. Some peeps here do things I wouldn't shake a stick at but so what? Advice is freely given and can be freely rejected.
I don't agree with everything said but some of the stuff was really good - it's up to you to decide what u want for yourself and your wife.
But next time u want an answer to a question and head it up with the info that u did give - expect replies, expect sum peeps to agree and oters to knock you, others not to give two hoots.
The problem whenwe ask for advice is oftenwe keeplooking until we meet sonmeone with the same ideas as ourselves therefore reinforcing our own judgement and making us feel safe in that judgement. Yes I know you didn't specifically ask for advice but you kinda invited it.
Next time - just say thanks to anyone who responds to you if you don't want to get into anything to deep or just don't post back
x x x
Did he actually ask for advice? As I recall all he wanted to know was how many times a week we all shag!!
macman_uk I think you have shown us all how to behave with dignity when being pre judged by those who have no experience about your situation. In my eyes you are head and shoulders above those that set themselves abouve you.
Whoah!!!!!!!!!! I did say that he didn't ask for advice. And If u have read the thread then I'll think u will find that I did post earlier which Macman said he appreciated.
So if you want to knock me for not seemimgly reading posts then I suggest you do eaxctly the same
x
I don't thnik peopewere really berating u to begin with.
some great advice was given from lots of different people for you to consider and hopefully use some to help you out. Some advice you were ok with and others not. But that's what happens when so many people with different experinces use a forum.
you're not going to like everything offered and others aren't going to like what u have offered.
It makes the world go around. Some peeps here do things I wouldn't shake a stick at but so what? Advice is freely given and can be freely rejected.
I don't agree with everything said but some of the stuff was really good - it's up to you to decide what u want for yourself and your wife.
But next time u want an answer to a question and head it up with the info that u did give - expect replies, expect sum peeps to agree and oters to knock you, others not to give two hoots.
The problem whenwe ask for advice is oftenwe keeplooking until we meet sonmeone with the same ideas as ourselves therefore reinforcing our own judgement and making us feel safe in that judgement. Yes I know you didn't specifically ask for advice but you kinda invited it.
Next time - just say thanks to anyone who responds to you if you don't want to get into anything to deep or just don't post back
x x x
some great advice was given from lots of different people for you to consider and hopefully use some to help you out. Some advice you were ok with and others not. But that's what happens when so many people with different experinces use a forum.
you're not going to like everything offered and others aren't going to like what u have offered.
It makes the world go around. Some peeps here do things I wouldn't shake a stick at but so what? Advice is freely given and can be freely rejected.
I don't agree with everything said but some of the stuff was really good - it's up to you to decide what u want for yourself and your wife.
But next time u want an answer to a question and head it up with the info that u did give - expect replies, expect sum peeps to agree and oters to knock you, others not to give two hoots.
The problem whenwe ask for advice is oftenwe keeplooking until we meet sonmeone with the same ideas as ourselves therefore reinforcing our own judgement and making us feel safe in that judgement. Yes I know you didn't specifically ask for advice but you kinda invited it.
Next time - just say thanks to anyone who responds to you if you don't want to get into anything to deep or just don't post back
x x x
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Oh, poor you. That's life, deal with it. Nothing else you can do, unless you know somewhere else to go.
I do genuinely mean this in a friendly way and I have not been around much to get to know you frecklebird, but how long does it take for you to be nice to people? All other replies to this very reasonable query were fair and constructive.
I have just had a quick zoom through some of your past posts and it seems you don't show a great deal of warmth or respect for newbies here but are fine with your obvious buddies- just so I know. 1000 posts perhaps?
You seem a nice bloke, regularly contributing - I don't know why you need to be abrupt to some people and not others? Maybe with the number of posts you have done that you are fed up with the same questions week after week?
I personally find the site fine and dandy without noticing too much of a change in overall look and speed. But this kind of site is generally only as good as its members....
erm can't say she's ever been abrupt to me . . .. feeling left out now! I want my rite of passage to be a real memeber of this site and if it menas bing abused by Freckled Bird then so be it!
C'mon - I can take - give it to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quote by macman_uk
Hi all,
Long time no post.
This is probably the wrong website to post this question given the nature of the placebut how often do you married couples have sex during the week? (WITH EACH OTHER :lol
My wife has no idea of my membership of this place but we are averaging sex about once every 6-7 weeks - and when it happens it is naff! :shock: An even more shocking figure is when you work out that it is only 6.5 times a freaking year! OH MY GOD:x
She doesn't want to know and simply won't discuss it and doesn't see a problem!
Just interested to know what I am missing :cry: :cry:
so I've read all the posts and there is some excelent advice out there. Loving Judy's commenst baout cheating.
But u keep asking people to answer your question so here goes form our perspective a sa couple.
We don't keep count how many times we make love or have sex during a wekk - varies quite a lots depending on other commitments, sociallife, work or just plain can't be arsed. And sometimes we're like the two poeple that have met each other again - shagging for England.
I don't believe that there are any guidleines for this or an acceptable quota that needs filling. All gets a bit too clinical then - and where's the fun,the anticipation?
If u believe that sex when you do actually do it is "naff" - what the hell r u doing to her or not doing? And if she knows that u thinks it naff it ain't gonna inspire to get her kit off u any more than what she already does. And I don't know if it's her or you with the real problem but u could just start romancing her again - not in the anticipation of anything but just cos u love her and she.
And romancing does not mean having to take her away for weekends etc - a touch, a look, a smile - anything that will regain her trust in yuou not to jump on her bones - or make her believe that's all u wnat to do. It may take months to reaaly understand that your "loving" ways are not a prelude to bed.
One thing is for certian tho - I'm pretty damn sure you ain't gonna get anything any time if she finds out u been here and not told her. That is abuse of your relationship together. It's one thing for a partner to know, give consent but not want to be involved - but for her not to know at all?
I'm with Judy on this one - it is cheating - you are witholding information from her that could potentially cripple her emotionally - and believe me - you say u love her - you think she's gonna believe that if she finds out? And it doesn't nmatter who u beeen with or not, or just here to read the forums etc - she's gonna hurt
The flip side - she doesn't see a problem . Fair enuff - she's got a low sex drive - some people do - isn't a crime tho-
anyway - my thoughts after a hard nite at work
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thera re genuine people out there - but nmost of themaren't justafter a quick fuck. You wil meet people but don't rush it - get to know people first on forums
and as Lissa said - read the advert clearly - it is so damned annoying for people when they haven't been read. After a few , people tend to get a tad pissed off.
and as Lissa said - read the advert clearly - it is so damned annoying for people when they haven't been read. After a few , people tend to get a tad pissed off.
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Just to let everyone know, this munch coincides with the birthdays of susiebabes (11th march), and mr muttley (14th march), and we will be after loads of birthday snogs.
Pressies are welcome, although we are both willing to recieve our gifts in kind. :shock:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO US !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
We've got friends with birthdays in March. Does that count - can we borrow theirs?
Please?
we have webcam and are happy to share - but we never show our faces on cam. That is for meets only. We used to send pic via email with face on but we don't anymore - rude people not sending back thanks but no thanks after we had chatted for a time on email.
There are no sure fie ways of ensuring initial contacts are genuine. Some back out cos of genuine reasons and some yes are just after the pics etc.
We just have to hope that there are other people who are out there who are as genuine as us - not everyone is.
Genuine will always reply with some answer - yes or no - offence is never taken or given by those who really do want to enjoy this lifestyle.
So simple advice is - for all the disappointments - the true meets and friendships will outweigh x x x
There are no sure fie ways of ensuring initial contacts are genuine. Some back out cos of genuine reasons and some yes are just after the pics etc.
We just have to hope that there are other people who are out there who are as genuine as us - not everyone is.
Genuine will always reply with some answer - yes or no - offence is never taken or given by those who really do want to enjoy this lifestyle.
So simple advice is - for all the disappointments - the true meets and friendships will outweigh x x x
