After Separation, is it a waiting game? Would you hold off before meeting anyone else? Or is there any set time limit?We separated after 31 years I felt well and truly rejected, I couldn't understand why and still don’t know why?As I had no answers I started to assume at one point that there must be something wrong with me. My mind was suggesting only negative thoughts that my hubby of 30 years ! would chose someone 10 years my junior? Was It I'm not a nice person..am I ugly.. etc all these thoughts were silently destroying me.I started thinking I needed a solution, how do I change and make myself perfect to be good enough for him so that he comes back (not so wise, huh?).Now, finally accepted the situation he does not want me therefore I should respect his decision and move on. I guess sometimes some things are just never meant to be and at times it can be a blessing in disguise.
I would be interested in hearing others point of view on the subject.
Lucy
xx
Hope you had a great birthday Paula :rose:
Lucy
xxx
Nope ! what would be the fun in that?