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macman_uk
3 days ago
Bisexual Male, 55
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Trouble is, the genuine doggers will be sat in front of the footy too! Like me for instance.....
blimey no... given half the chance (if I was single!) I would much rather be out and about than sitting in front of the telly.. as much as I love footy. These opportunities are few and far between!
When we beat Germany 5-1 I was just walking up the 18th hole and heard all the cheering from the clubhouse completely oblivious!
Unfortunately foxylady is no more I believe, not amongst these forums anyway.
If you check the date of her post it was over 12 months ago. The lovely foxy started up her own forum for the northants area but it got very, very nasty with people moaning on the forums about how things were run (TOTALLY UNREASONABLE) so she packed up and I have not heard or seen anything of her since.
A real shame because she was lovely - and local to me too!
If you check the date of her post it was over 12 months ago. The lovely foxy started up her own forum for the northants area but it got very, very nasty with people moaning on the forums about how things were run (TOTALLY UNREASONABLE) so she packed up and I have not heard or seen anything of her since.
A real shame because she was lovely - and local to me too!
Hi all,
There have been many discussions going on regarding the problems surrounding dogging lately and it is a real shame it is happening - however....
With England playing (at least) two more games it strikes me as a great opportunity to get out there on match days and enjoy yourselves.
All the boy racers
and moaners :x that have been spoiling your fun will be in the pubs watching the game :shock: and all available police will be there with them to arrest them when they fight afterwards... a great opportunity if you ask me 
Although no-one did 
macman
There have been many discussions going on regarding the problems surrounding dogging lately and it is a real shame it is happening - however....
With England playing (at least) two more games it strikes me as a great opportunity to get out there on match days and enjoy yourselves.
All the boy racers
and moaners :x that have been spoiling your fun will be in the pubs watching the game :shock: and all available police will be there with them to arrest them when they fight afterwards... a great opportunity if you ask me Although no-one did macman
I have just patented a mobile, go anywhere glory hole that folds neatly into the boot of a car for total discretion and I am working on a handbag friendly version for the ladies out there
When required you just whip it out, along with the glory hole stick you willy in the end and hey presto - one glory hole.
They come in several sizes from one that just covers up to your belly button to the all-singing all dancing lux edition that is the actual size of a toilet cubicle - although I can't work out how to get that into a handbag! :shock:
All versions come with a handy toilet roll holder and disinfectant bottle.
When required you just whip it out, along with the glory hole
stick you willy in the end and hey presto - one glory hole.They come in several sizes from one that just covers up to your belly button to the all-singing all dancing lux edition that is the actual size of a toilet cubicle - although I can't work out how to get that into a handbag! :shock:
All versions come with a handy toilet roll holder and disinfectant bottle.
I missed it the first time around, but WOW, what a great thread!
A superbly put point to begin with by Mandy, great replies by all, especially Mark (you put my mind at ease and I wasn't even going to a club), and a really well written ending, again by mandy.
Not a swinger myself (I'm a potential watcher - still!) and it seems the after-the-event mind thoughts were as strong as I would expect them to be if I was in your situation.
Thanks for the update Mandy.
Oh, and by the way, larger ladies give me the 'orn too!!!! :twisted: :twisted: :lol:
A superbly put point to begin with by Mandy, great replies by all, especially Mark (you put my mind at ease and I wasn't even going to a club
), and a really well written ending, again by mandy.Not a swinger myself (I'm a potential watcher - still!) and it seems the after-the-event mind thoughts were as strong as I would expect them to be if I was in your situation.
Thanks for the update Mandy.
Oh, and by the way, larger ladies give me the 'orn too!!!! :twisted: :twisted: :lol:
np bluexxx.
Of course, that said, anywhere you read will state it is theoretically possible to contract thru oral, but VERY, VERY unlikely. I mean, imagine all the stuff that goes in San Francisco alone. It is a shame that 47% are infected though :cry:
We all know what is TOTALLY safe, but that's boring!
Of course, that said, anywhere you read will state it is theoretically possible to contract thru oral, but VERY, VERY unlikely. I mean, imagine all the stuff that goes in San Francisco alone. It is a shame that 47% are infected though :cry:
We all know what is TOTALLY safe, but that's boring!
According to research I have read (which was carried out over many years in the San Francisco area, where 47% of gay/bi men are HIV+), there has been only 3 reported cases of HIV infection through oral sex.
The research only dealt with male to male oral sex but the theory still applies.
The three reported cases were: where one guy had deep oral sex with a chap that apparently was over 12ins and the tender area of the back of the throat was damaged. It is recomended not to have deep throat with a large penised guy.
Second, and a little more sharp-in-take of breath, was the guys foreskin got caught in the teeth of the other guy and obviously blood was then present.
Can't remember the third reason!
In each case it was the GIVER, rather than the receiver, who contracted the virus, and obviously the HIV virus has to be present in the receiver. There have been no reported cases of the virus being passed on to the RECEIVER if the giver is infected.
Swallowing is apparently safer, as the virus cannot survive in the stomach with all the acids we have. But it still has to pass into the mouth and down so I can't work that one out. Precum has been known to contain the virus.
But, only 3 cases in San Francisco since the virus was first known about in the 80s - the risk is small I would say.
Ta!
The research only dealt with male to male oral sex but the theory still applies.
The three reported cases were: where one guy had deep oral sex with a chap that apparently was over 12ins and the tender area of the back of the throat was damaged. It is recomended not to have deep throat with a large penised guy.
Second, and a little more sharp-in-take of breath, was the guys foreskin got caught in the teeth of the other guy and obviously blood was then present.
Can't remember the third reason!
In each case it was the GIVER, rather than the receiver, who contracted the virus, and obviously the HIV virus has to be present in the receiver. There have been no reported cases of the virus being passed on to the RECEIVER if the giver is infected.
Swallowing is apparently safer, as the virus cannot survive in the stomach with all the acids we have. But it still has to pass into the mouth and down so I can't work that one out. Precum has been known to contain the virus.
But, only 3 cases in San Francisco since the virus was first known about in the 80s - the risk is small I would say.
Ta!
Hi all,
Been a while since I could get online to write. This is an interesting discussion. KitKat you said that :
Not necessarily always the case. This "single" bloke here is married doing things he wouldn't want his wife knowing about
(I never hide the fact I am married in any correspondence) - and I am willing to bet I am not the only married one.
Our risk is for our partner/wife finding out what we are REALLY doing at night, whereas your partners are with you (mostly anyway!)
Obviously the risk is 'thru choice - but just wanted to comment that's all. If the police take note of our number plates and post a warning letter to your house you will just laugh - I will just die :shock:
Been a while since I could get online to write. This is an interesting discussion. KitKat you said that :
Perhaps that really explains why there are so many more single blokes. They are not the ones taking the risks.
Not necessarily always the case. This "single" bloke here is married doing things he wouldn't want his wife knowing about
(I never hide the fact I am married in any correspondence) - and I am willing to bet I am not the only married one.Our risk is for our partner/wife finding out what we are REALLY doing at night, whereas your partners are with you (mostly anyway!)
Obviously the risk is 'thru choice - but just wanted to comment that's all. If the police take note of our number plates and post a warning letter to your house you will just laugh - I will just die :shock:
Macman -are you saying that stories depicting and are any more acceptable if they are written by women, or have I missed the point there?
I did wonder when I mentioned "all written by women" that it may lead to people thinking the wrong thing. But no. Of course it doesn't make it right.
The point I was making that this book is sold on the fact that all the fantasies are written entirely by women and for women.
It does mention in that book that a big fantasy for many women is that of being . Now obviously, it needs to stay a fantasy but nonetheless that is what the book states.
You really need to get the book to see the context in how its all written. I was just illustrating the point that these things, which are obviously illegal in videos and the like, are freely written about in books that can be purchased in all good book shops (and some rubbish ones too!)
Hope that clears it up!
No probs Heather.
I can totally see your point if you kind of do the reading thing for a living.
I have always loved reading erotic stories, especially real ones, so I would not like peple to stop posting that's all.
Regarding the original query of offensive matieral - "Women on Top" by Nancy Friday (I think) is an amazingly erotic book, of which I have read from cover to cover several times, with most stories being fantasy (but with real stuff along the way).
There are an awful lot of stories in that book that describe activities that are illegal, stories involving animals, and yes, underrage stuff too, all you can think of - but it is all contained in a book freely available - and all contributed by women.
Those stories that may offend, you don't read... simple!
It usually doesn't take too long into the story to see which way it is going. I must admit though, that the story mentioned involving , was not my cup of tea at all, but I do believe it does go on.
But, this is a swinging and dogging site, so maybe that story does not really have a place here.
I can totally see your point if you kind of do the reading thing for a living.
I have always loved reading erotic stories, especially real ones, so I would not like peple to stop posting that's all.
Regarding the original query of offensive matieral - "Women on Top" by Nancy Friday (I think) is an amazingly erotic book, of which I have read from cover to cover several times, with most stories being fantasy (but with real stuff along the way).
There are an awful lot of stories in that book that describe activities that are illegal, stories involving animals, and yes, underrage stuff too, all you can think of - but it is all contained in a book freely available - and all contributed by women.
Those stories that may offend, you don't read... simple!
It usually doesn't take too long into the story to see which way it is going. I must admit though, that the story mentioned involving , was not my cup of tea at all, but I do believe it does go on.
But, this is a swinging and dogging site, so maybe that story does not really have a place here.
Heather...
I know I am new to all this, and I don't want to sound out of order, but that kind of comment will stop any stories being posted at all!
Surely the whole theme of this site, with people posting piccies of themselves (btw Heather... you are HOT), and arranging meets, is all about self indulgence and the indulgence of others?
The stories get hundreds of hits so someone likes 'em!
mac
Personally, I don't look at the Stories section that often.... mostly because they are on the whole complete self indulgent semi-literate tosh.
I know I am new to all this, and I don't want to sound out of order, but that kind of comment will stop any stories being posted at all!
Surely the whole theme of this site, with people posting piccies of themselves (btw Heather... you are HOT
), and arranging meets, is all about self indulgence and the indulgence of others?The stories get hundreds of hits so someone likes 'em!
mac
ooooooohhhh god its been sooooo long since I had a decent kiss. wife HATES it :cry: :cry: :cry:
So, if someone tried to kiss me :shock: :shock: :shock: they would have to remove me with some kind of kiss-removing implement :lol: :lol: cus I ain't never letting go :!:
(Don't ask why she won't kiss - I personally think I am gorgeous!)
So, if someone tried to kiss me :shock: :shock: :shock: they would have to remove me with some kind of kiss-removing implement
:lol: :lol: cus I ain't never letting go :!:(Don't ask why she won't kiss - I personally think I am gorgeous!)
Arthur,
is this a sexual term I don't know about?
But, just like dogging from the things I have read, well worth the trouble! I almost feel as though I am there
I like the idea of most popular, although that will have no bearing for me, but its nice for the author to see the popularity (or not) of their story.
I would pretty much guarentee that all the reality stories contain a fair bit of "artistic licence" anyway I am just talking about the obvious ones like "The other night Kylie popped round to give me a BJ...."
By the way, can you tell I have just discovered how to quote?
I took a gal up to the Peak District for a picnic on a hill
is this a sexual term I don't know about?
Shirl's very good as well macman but the trouble is you need to take half a day of work to find them and then another half day to read em!!
But, just like dogging from the things I have read, well worth the trouble! I almost feel as though I am there
I like the idea of most popular, although that will have no bearing for me, but its nice for the author to see the popularity (or not) of their story.
I'm not sure the "fantasy"/"reality" distinction would work, I mean I'm thinking of writing one based on reality but a little bit of fantasy might creep in there as well if I get carried away.....
I would pretty much guarentee that all the reality stories contain a fair bit of "artistic licence" anyway
I am just talking about the obvious ones like "The other night Kylie popped round to give me a BJ...."By the way, can you tell I have just discovered how to quote?
:twisted:
:wink: :cry:
Hi Petelhk,
You want hot.... read the postings from Shirl. You will need time but well worth it
One thing I do find hard (Mark this is for you) is when the author never puts any line endings in. Maybe, at the very least, you could just add the odd carriage return here and there. It doesn't necessarily have to be in the right places (which would mean you reading all the stories thoroughly!) but it helps to break up the long lines.
Maybe a little helpful sentence at the top of the screen to this end would help posters?
I read most of the stories at work when no-one is around which means that I need to keep my mouse on the collapse window button (just in case :!
and when I do have to collapse it's hard to find where I got to.. its a hard life eh?
I really don't think it needs any other categorising than what I said before. With the story names and the first few lines showing people can soon see if its something they want to read. I do, however, tend to avoid those that are fantasy.
You only have to see the number of views the stories are getting, even only after a short while after posting, to see how popular the section is.
Maybe I could put together a book..... :idea: :wink:
You want hot.... read the postings from Shirl. You will need time but well worth it
One thing I do find hard (Mark this is for you) is when the author never puts any line endings in. Maybe, at the very least, you could just add the odd carriage return here and there. It doesn't necessarily have to be in the right places (which would mean you reading all the stories thoroughly!) but it helps to break up the long lines.
Maybe a little helpful sentence at the top of the screen to this end would help posters?
I read most of the stories at work when no-one is around
which means that I need to keep my mouse on the collapse window button (just in case :! and when I do have to collapse it's hard to find where I got to.. its a hard life eh?I really don't think it needs any other categorising than what I said before. With the story names and the first few lines showing people can soon see if its something they want to read. I do, however, tend to avoid those that are fantasy.
You only have to see the number of views the stories are getting, even only after a short while after posting, to see how popular the section is.
Maybe I could put together a book..... :idea: :wink:
It was scary that we posted at same time, not once but twice! do do do do do do. (that was the X-Files music btw!)
The only reason we didn't post at the same time again was because I was reading the toilet sex story! That was hot! Shame it was in caps! (Still, a quick copy and paste into the appropriate utility on your part and you could soon re-post it in lower case eh Mark? )
There are are few extra postings from Louise that could do with a tidy up though... dunno what happened there!
Jags... having read all your posts recently I wouldn't EVER criticise you!
Nice to speak to you both!
The only reason we didn't post at the same time again was because I was reading the toilet sex story! That was hot! Shame it was in caps! (Still, a quick copy and paste into the appropriate utility on your part and you could soon re-post it in lower case eh Mark?
)There are are few extra postings from Louise that could do with a tidy up though... dunno what happened there!
Jags... having read all your posts recently I wouldn't EVER criticise you!
Nice to speak to you both!
awww... I don't think it is fair to criticise people for badly written stories and grammar. Most of the stories are pretty long and it must have taken the author some time to put them together. I would imagine that the vast majority of people are one-finger typists who probably know how to spell but can't be bothered to go back and correct their mistakes. It stems the creative flow somewhat! (and writing from memory is tricky)
It's not the spelling and grammar that matters but the content. I don't know if it's just me but I find almost all of them pretty sexy! Not so much the fantasy stories but the true ones.
My problem is, I am a touch typist with nimble fingers but bugger all to write about!
But I do enjoy visiting the site and reading postings and especially the stories. I just wish more happened to me so I could contribute instead of read :(
The postings from Shirl about her dogging stories are superb I think. Thanks Shirl :!:
:!: Hi Heather,
I think its much wiser to post meet details and the like off-list, although it still wouldn't stop someone joining and posing as genuine but is really just someone to spoil the fun.
It must have been HORRIBLE for those involved to have their names taken. Not so much the couples there, after all they are doing it with each others consent (well unless they are lovers), but the single people, some married like me, with so much to lose.
I am, however, amazed at the number of people who post on here, requesting to be mailed off list for venues, only to receive replies on list stating just when and where stuff is going on. The people replying need to read my carefully.
Another point, though... just what will the police charge these people with? Unless someone actually there, where it was all going on, obejcted and reported what was going on do they have a case?
mac
I think its much wiser to post meet details and the like off-list, although it still wouldn't stop someone joining and posing as genuine but is really just someone to spoil the fun.
It must have been HORRIBLE for those involved to have their names taken. Not so much the couples there, after all they are doing it with each others consent (well unless they are lovers), but the single people, some married like me, with so much to lose.
I am, however, amazed at the number of people who post on here, requesting to be mailed off list for venues, only to receive replies on list stating just when and where stuff is going on. The people replying need to read my carefully.
Another point, though... just what will the police charge these people with? Unless someone actually there, where it was all going on, obejcted and reported what was going on do they have a case?
mac
Hi,
I was wondering if there was any possibility of me watching an outdoor couple one afternoon this week in the Northampton (ish) area. I don't know of any locations but I would prefer it to be just the 3 of us!
email me at macman_ and we can discuss further and exchange phone numbers.
Thanks!
I was wondering if there was any possibility of me watching an outdoor couple one afternoon this week in the Northampton (ish) area. I don't know of any locations but I would prefer it to be just the 3 of us!
email me at macman_ and we can discuss further and exchange phone numbers.
Thanks!
: been so long since I saw one :? 