It is there in my profile Bloke2005. But with the forums as they used to be a large part of it was the banter and chatting that went on... and I love the swingers stories too.
It is a swingers site I know - but back in the old days dogging and meet ups were my original points of interest.
Again I do appreciate the advice migsymalone and without knowing inside details about me and my marriage it is hard to explain - and pointless really. The points you make are valid but there is nothing there I don't attempt or wish to achieve.
How many ladies do you know who go to the bother and expense of booking a surprise weekend away for an anniversary and then after spending the night in the hotel bar and returning to our room actually decline sex - even though it was approached in a sensitive and loving manner. The response I got was "Don't spoil a lovely evening...."
Great guide there PoloLady - I do appreciate the time and thought you put into that. I didn't originally ask for advice but appreciated nonetheless!
I am not sure what responses I should have expected from the good people here - but I certainly wasn't expecting what most have said.
The original question was just an enquiry as to what the sex life is like of the married couples that frequent this site - I know it is not the best place to ask but hey, I am a member and wanted to post!
Very quickly inrelation to the points you make:
Why would wife want a lover when she knows there is nothing she can't get from me - apart from the obvious one about just being a different person!
Suppressed lesbian to the point of thumping one in the mouth who mistook my wifes friendly chatter as a come on!
When I try and push her buttons she just stops me - and yes - I know where they are! Really!
As far as finding out I am using a swinging site - made me chuckle - but the reason I joined here in the first place was lack of fun at home.
I do intend to keep opening up the channels of communcation.
Advice and comments appreciated - but still in the dark about how often the married membes of this site have sex!
Hi northamptoncpl,
Do you have much success in finding what you are after from this site? Like me, I notice you have re-activated your profile after a break. Were you fed up with the lack of replies or just wanted a rest?
I am an orally bi married male (wife has no idea) and had the odd contact with a couple on here a couple of years ago but never saw anything through to an actual meet and I was just wondering if the site still brings the chance of meets.
macman
Hi all - long time no post - boy have things changed around here!
Anyway - as a married man I rediscovered my bi tendancies about 4 years ago and became actively orally bi with a married chap I met online. As I say, only orally bi, but the strange thing is I can't stand to see two guys kissing (which I also do) and giving/receiving BJs in films or on the web.
Just my little input into the thread.
Any clues as to around the time this all happened date wise so I can check back and look through the threads?
Thanks
First time back for me for yonks and yonks and I am sorry to see what has happened. I am sure enough money can be made from discrete advertising without having to resort to forcing people to pay for membership... if indeed that is what is happening/going to happen.
Have all the old names gone then?
Hi all,
Forgive me if this is an OLD OLD question but I have just logged on after many, many months away. Has the site changed hands with all this talk of a site rejig?
I hope it hasn't/won't lose its pesonal touch. Can anyone fill me in on what has gone on?
Again, sorry if this is old ground.
macman
Firstly... how great to see so many fellow Mac users!
The problem is that at home, on both my laptop and and desktop Macs, I can no longer access this site apart from the Photo Ads section which, I believe, is because it runs from http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk rather than www.swingingheaven.co.uk.
Both Macs will hang for a minute or so and the browser will return a connection time out error. There is something to do with my configuration at home that has changed and prevents me from enjoying all your chatting - even though I don't contribute myself nowadays.
I am hoping that the webmaster will see this thread and drop me an email. The difficulty is I can't check my config at home and then post what is wrong - as I can't see the site at home!
mac
Hi.. thanks for the responses.
Work Mac is Tiger 10.4.1 and it works fine. In fact it works under 10.2.8 at work too.
At home 10.3.8 doesn't work.. it just hangs and then says connection time out.. or something like that.
Puzzling as it used to work I am sure.
macman
Hi all,
I have sent an email or two to support but without any luck.
Does anyone else have problems accessing this site from Apple Macs?
I can access it OK at work (not the best thing to be doing!) but not at home (nightmare!)
Any pointers would help and it may be best to send me an email - which I think is in my profile.
macman
Hi all,
Loooong time since I was here...
Off to Fuerteventura this week and I was wondering if anyone had any experiences of places to have male mutual masturbation fun while the wife takes a nap :twisted:
Staying in Corralejo from Weds 10th for a week and help and advice would be great!
I can't really comment on what this particular guy was doing and whether he was breaking any laws - but he does have the right to be there the same as you.
Without being offensive it was a daft suggestion, as was the partial number plates part.
However annoying these people are, please don't forget that there are any number of people equally offended by what this site promotes - in the same way that you find what this guy was doing as offensive.
Would you like the more straight-laced people of your community to start sending your number plate to the local press to try and stop what they deem as unacceptable behaviour in car parks which "spoils things for most others" as far as they are concerned?
Just my comments
mac
This is a real shame as I have had a few PM conversations with Jaffaman and he seems a real genuine chap - from my area too.
I can't work out the police stance - on the one hand they are going in all guns blazing - the next they are posting on here reassuring everyone that they don't want to lock all swingers and doggers up!
It is probably a good thing that Jaffaman has taken this as a prompt to realise that this is not really what he wants and I wish him luck in finding what he does want. I thought I had - but then the sex stopped! (but the love is still there - difficult situation)
All the best Jaffa
I sent this lady an email to which she replied together with another pic the very next day. Maybe she is struggling to confirm meets like most people seem to be.
:lol:
Although the child/baby seats in the back of the car are usually a dead give away :?
:x
