by all means pm me for the five best derby locations(all have been quiet for the last few weeks), but if you are totally new and want busy/hectic as a starting point i would suggest that nottingham is the choice.
look on the list for the 'b' location
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mattius
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 62
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location to be advised by pm,email or text previous or same day (this coming sunday night at 10pm)
the key elements to this meet are....no information as to who specifically will be attending will be given out...it is meant to be a spontaneous and sexy
max ten couples & four singles....quiet non-dogging location...directions supplied on day
pm for details. proff of couples required
the key elements to this meet are....no information as to who specifically will be attending will be given out...it is meant to be a spontaneous and sexy
max ten couples & four singles....quiet non-dogging location...directions supplied on day
pm for details. proff of couples required
Sexpert
well harlot...your opinion was that it is 'NOT' gauranteed...my opinion is that it is 'fairly' gauranteed...two differences of opinion..thats all!
And naughty...i can see where you are coming from and having reread the thread maybe i didnt make myself clear...perhaps due to not totally knowing what i had in mind or how to put it...it certainly wasnt a suggestion of a meet alone with another couple...in a remote dark location without anyone else there...as you said...that would be a tad scary for most i presume...all i am doing is trying to gauge opinion...the suggestion is that i post a thread and find out...and that is what i will do...
The basis will be (let me think this thro)...a location away from reg dogging sites free of police and b/racers...an open well lit car parking spot from where it is possible to walk to somewhere slightly less visible...presumably a corner of a park..whatever...and up to a dozen couples invited...and some singles....each told in advance the day and time but the actual location kept secret till last minute
the object being....the combination of '...the unknown'...will people be there?...wont they?...
but also the knowledge that it will be free from dozens of singles cars or police or boy racers.
Im smiling...i hope someone out there understands me
All i am doing is gauging peoples reactions...some will say that this is just a pre planned 'meet'...like any other...but from reading others threads...many meets appear to involve people who know each other and meet regularly
And naughty...i can see where you are coming from and having reread the thread maybe i didnt make myself clear...perhaps due to not totally knowing what i had in mind or how to put it...it certainly wasnt a suggestion of a meet alone with another couple...in a remote dark location without anyone else there...as you said...that would be a tad scary for most i presume...all i am doing is trying to gauge opinion...the suggestion is that i post a thread and find out...and that is what i will do...
The basis will be (let me think this thro)...a location away from reg dogging sites free of police and b/racers...an open well lit car parking spot from where it is possible to walk to somewhere slightly less visible...presumably a corner of a park..whatever...and up to a dozen couples invited...and some singles....each told in advance the day and time but the actual location kept secret till last minute
the object being....the combination of '...the unknown'...will people be there?...wont they?...
but also the knowledge that it will be free from dozens of singles cars or police or boy racers.
Im smiling...i hope someone out there understands me
All i am doing is gauging peoples reactions...some will say that this is just a pre planned 'meet'...like any other...but from reading others threads...many meets appear to involve people who know each other and meet regularly
Sexpert
ok...so i think i am right in saying that clubs are upfront and open and 'fairly' guaranteed to have action on saturday nights...sigh
whereas dogging at known locations is likely to have some certainty of action but the thrill is probably not knowing who or how many will be there...and this unknown factor is what makes it fun...or not!
sooooooooooo....(getting back to my question)....if i for example contacted (say) a dozen couples and a few singles and suggested a certain location free from known doggers, police,boy racers at a cetrtain time on a certain night with no prior knowledge of whom would be there....how many would actually think about turning up?...and if not...why not
whereas dogging at known locations is likely to have some certainty of action but the thrill is probably not knowing who or how many will be there...and this unknown factor is what makes it fun...or not!
sooooooooooo....(getting back to my question)....if i for example contacted (say) a dozen couples and a few singles and suggested a certain location free from known doggers, police,boy racers at a cetrtain time on a certain night with no prior knowledge of whom would be there....how many would actually think about turning up?...and if not...why not
Sexpert
ahaa....getting somewhere
i agree with your analogy regarding 'illicit'....and perhaps it isnt the correct word for the situation...tho im still on the fence on that one
what i am driving at is exactly as you said...'not necessarily safe'....the meeting of total strangers as opposed to turning up at a regular dogging site and knowing who is likely to be there beforehand.
combining the excitement of a possible 'sexual' experience at a pre planned location...without having met or vetted the other couples or singles
i agree with your analogy regarding 'illicit'....and perhaps it isnt the correct word for the situation...tho im still on the fence on that one
what i am driving at is exactly as you said...'not necessarily safe'....the meeting of total strangers as opposed to turning up at a regular dogging site and knowing who is likely to be there beforehand.
combining the excitement of a possible 'sexual' experience at a pre planned location...without having met or vetted the other couples or singles
Sexpert
not sure which section this should go so shall leave that to the mods
anyway...i talk to a lot of singles and couples...especially doggers
some like clubs as its so up front and open and guaranteed....some prefer dogging as it feels more illicit but runs the risk of police and boy racers..or too many turning up
the question i would like comments on is...has anyone mixed the two scenes...arranged a local meet with numerous couples and singles at a non dogging location...for example at a wood or area that is walkable...no police....no boy racers....but the illicit feel of not knowing who will be there
seems to me it could be easily organised....ten couples and five singles..all invited last minute to a private location
any comments on the pros and cons?...and what do i call it?..'Matting?'
anyway...i talk to a lot of singles and couples...especially doggers
some like clubs as its so up front and open and guaranteed....some prefer dogging as it feels more illicit but runs the risk of police and boy racers..or too many turning up
the question i would like comments on is...has anyone mixed the two scenes...arranged a local meet with numerous couples and singles at a non dogging location...for example at a wood or area that is walkable...no police....no boy racers....but the illicit feel of not knowing who will be there
seems to me it could be easily organised....ten couples and five singles..all invited last minute to a private location
any comments on the pros and cons?...and what do i call it?..'Matting?'
Sexpert
a tad late, but single straight guy would like a liason later...ideally a brand new couple where the female is an sex crazed or virginal amazonian goddess and wants to be watched and possibly participated with (that doesnt sound right)...however as i am late on here tonight, sigh... i will happily consider any normal mortal couples.....and willing to only watch...any pms in the next hour will recieve my mobile number if reqd
go on....be illicit and daring...make my night
go on....be illicit and daring...make my night
Sexpert
it all seems to have changed over the last six months.
when i started as a single guy dogging most or everyone put their internal light on, just to let you know who they were. Nowadays it is the rarity!
A recent thread asked couples what they wanted the guys to do and the vast majority said they preffered the guys getting out and to walk past the car or standing near to their own so they can see who they are. this i do always.
but every situation is different and i tend to find that couples just seem to start when they want and dont give signals or lower the window, so whats a guy to do?. we walk a little nearer...still uncertain...still unsure if we are about to get some angry guy leaping out his car...and to date its not been a problem.
obviously there is always the odd moron who parks right next to the couple and stares or goes straight up to the window within seconds...this will always happen...word of mouth helps ...ie tell then to f*** off
my advice is stick with it....discuss what you really want...and prearrange meets at relatively unused car parks
when i started as a single guy dogging most or everyone put their internal light on, just to let you know who they were. Nowadays it is the rarity!
A recent thread asked couples what they wanted the guys to do and the vast majority said they preffered the guys getting out and to walk past the car or standing near to their own so they can see who they are. this i do always.
but every situation is different and i tend to find that couples just seem to start when they want and dont give signals or lower the window, so whats a guy to do?. we walk a little nearer...still uncertain...still unsure if we are about to get some angry guy leaping out his car...and to date its not been a problem.
obviously there is always the odd moron who parks right next to the couple and stares or goes straight up to the window within seconds...this will always happen...word of mouth helps ...ie tell then to f*** off
my advice is stick with it....discuss what you really want...and prearrange meets at relatively unused car parks
Sexpert
Everyone seems to be in a rush...tonight... tomorrow
my request is this...
wanted(by a mid forties straight guy)...a couple or female....friendship first and foremost...ok...shag central secondmost....someone to text when in the mood...with no pressure or strange requests...longterm preferably...at your pace....that says pace...not place
when?...pref tonight or tommorrow (smirk)
is that such an outlandish request?
my request is this...
wanted(by a mid forties straight guy)...a couple or female....friendship first and foremost...ok...shag central secondmost....someone to text when in the mood...with no pressure or strange requests...longterm preferably...at your pace....that says pace...not place
when?...pref tonight or tommorrow (smirk)
is that such an outlandish request?
Sexpert
arrested??
so maybe that is why when i popped into the area on tuesday night late having not been there for two months, everywhere cept one was empty (all five car parks)
and whilst on the subject (minor rant)...one solitary couple twenty yards from me....i stood by my car and waited for a signal and when it came, i walked over...they were really friendly but one dic****d decided that driving up full lights on and parking a good three inches away was the way to dog...and when the male driver of the couple looked at me and whispered that he was going...the idiot in the other car shouted out 'where are ya going?'....surprise surprise...they didnt answer.
arrested?....maybe shooting some on sight would be better!!
ahem...rant over
so maybe that is why when i popped into the area on tuesday night late having not been there for two months, everywhere cept one was empty (all five car parks)
and whilst on the subject (minor rant)...one solitary couple twenty yards from me....i stood by my car and waited for a signal and when it came, i walked over...they were really friendly but one dic****d decided that driving up full lights on and parking a good three inches away was the way to dog...and when the male driver of the couple looked at me and whispered that he was going...the idiot in the other car shouted out 'where are ya going?'....surprise surprise...they didnt answer.
arrested?....maybe shooting some on sight would be better!!
ahem...rant over
Sexpert
single male
a sexy erotic one off meet with a single female or couple at a place of their choice and a scenario of thier choice. dont care about age,size,married ,single etc. ....just want an erotic discreet one off... want to turn up and get rampant and be sucked .... preferably tonight or this weekend
pm with details and i will reply with my mobile number
a sexy erotic one off meet with a single female or couple at a place of their choice and a scenario of thier choice. dont care about age,size,married ,single etc. ....just want an erotic discreet one off... want to turn up and get rampant and be sucked .... preferably tonight or this weekend
pm with details and i will reply with my mobile number
Sexpert
first time female (52) and reg dogger (42) wish to meet similar for late night mutual watching..perhaps a little participation but not guaranteed .
this will prob be a one off thing as she is slightly cautious but very turned on by the thought of performing next for another couple and then watching them
plz pm with as much detail as poss and in return our mobile number. will only check this thread for the next hour.
(not quite sure if this should be on the dogging threads)
this will prob be a one off thing as she is slightly cautious but very turned on by the thought of performing next for another couple and then watching them
plz pm with as much detail as poss and in return our mobile number. will only check this thread for the next hour.
(not quite sure if this should be on the dogging threads)
