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mitzimad
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 65
Bisexual Female, 62
0 miles · Greater London

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definitley use a swingers club youll get to meet many potentials every time nothing scarey about clubs usually theres a safe zone usually the bar area we wasted a couple of years trying to get fun on interenet and after first club never looked back

we swung for 20 years no down side for us or most of the couples we made friends with obviously weve seen couples split but that happens in any cross section of 30 to 50 year olds
if neither of you is the jealous type i would try it sounds like the one experience hasnt put either of you off
they do exist weve found a few over the years but its easier to find another couple who are looking for the same thing and meet and let the girls play as spectator sports go its better than football
if she is finding sex uncomftable wouldnt it be wise for her to see a doctor to rule out anything wrong physically?
we both love to watch each other i particularly like to hold here whilst shes being fucked by another man and kissing her whilst she is orgasming round someone elses cock
im with lost on this one the move to mainstream has removed the dirtyy secret appeal, clubs used to be virtually invite only and definitely very secretive
you can have as much fun and as many partners as you want but each time you soak a bed its one less for everyone else to play on
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note to you squirting girls club owners dont mind the squirting but could you limit it to one bed per night

wheres the fun in that? I likes unlimited fun innocent
theres a few clubs in amsterdam paradise was our favourite the clubs in europe work differently to ours and the entry fee includeds drink and food consequently they start earlier usually around 7
note to you squirting girls club owners dont mind the squirting but could you limit it to one bed per night
shop doorway in regents st, every car weve ever owned, forests and beaches ,
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socks on is so you dont get cold feet if u need to make a sharp exit

i nick all your socks anyway :P
now i know where they all go
not some thing ive ever done like the feel of naked bodies but it does have the advantage of never coming home in odd socks
even worse a friend of ours after a great night at a club realised he had something in his shoe when he got home and removed it he found a used condom
my typing isnt great i admit and im not sure what you mean by shouting all i was trying to say is almost everyclub weve been to if you stay around the bar its no different to any bar/night club
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As nervous newbies it is probably the best place to start, as it is more 'bar' like than a full on swing club and also being in central Amsterdam - language isn't much of an issue either.
Depends on what you are looking for really - if you would like 'male' attention for your good lady that is quite easy, if you are looking for a romantic soft swing with a couple that will be more challenging! ;)

HOWS THAT DIFERENT TO A CLUB HERE WEVE NEVER BEEN FORCED TO JOIN IN ANYTHING ANYWHERE
i would say going all the way to Amsterdam as nervous newbies is not a good idea adding the language problems isnt going to make it any easier weve been to several clubs in holland and belgium but wouldnt say its the perfect place to start
we wouldn't even consider any thing with couples who dont kiss its the first part of intimacy nothing like a big snog to get it all working
its one of my party tricks making women squirt for the first time and yes the reaction can be very different from pure euphoria to very embarrassed ive had a girl run away and hide in the toilets at a club due to being embarrassed anyone need lessons?
our place for fun in north london would be a good place to go as well
tell your partner to get to a doctors immediately intercourse shouldnt cause pain something is wrong and she needs to be examined by someone qualified the internet is not the place to be researching this
swinging was the last tabboo 20 years ago when club after club was getting exposed by the sunday papers when was the last time that happened
we've met lots of obviously Asian people on this scene Ive never felt the need to ask their religion as i don't ask anyone else that question
basicly most religions support the idea of sex being within a relationshipfor the production of children
#however being a cynical non beliver if often think that has a lot to do with keeping the congregation numbers up some one has to keep the church hierarchy in wealth
in the same way the aristocracy in times gone bye needed cheap labour and canon fodder
slaves were encouraged to breed for the same reasons
as a general rule if you cant pull in the real world its unlikely you will in the swinging world women dont suddendly change their expectations of a partner
as someone has already said friendly chatty flirty guys do best
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You also need to bear in mind many clubs are leased, and not owned, so owners are slightly unwilling to plough money into what at the end of the day, is not their building. You also have the over ridding issue of a club being closed down within seconds for any number of reasons, and therefore all money invested in the place is lost.

Spot on.
Its a balance for any business, and adult clubs have to act diligently in the same way or they will close down.
Am waiting for the day for legalised brothels as that will filter down to 'adult' clubs and more money will come in. Imagine Virgin Adult Clubs, they would be lush.
thats exacxtly the problem disorderly house brothel even prostitution and pimpimg laws could at a stretch be leveled at most clubs her its the laws that need to change
our place for fun would be a good start couples only on first thursday of the month
club is muswell hill north london
was this a swingers club or a dodgy sauna management should have slung him straight outi would try a better class club
i suposeit saves geting them mixed up i once came home with one black one brown theresb another bloke out there could tell the same story
worst one ive heard is the guy who on the drive home thought his feet felt peculiar in his shoes and when he got home he had a used durex in the bottom of his shoe