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Like most men I first started browsing this site niavely thinking that it was a ticket for a quick shag. You only have to read some of the ads to realise what an easy mistake that is, particularly when your being led from the waist down. After a few weeks and reading the advice sections I decided to join the forum as a way of getting to know people. I didn't rush in with the usual "big dick, come and get it ladies" sort of post but thought it best to tread carefully, try and get my self known and maybe contribute to popular threads. "Not that I've got very much of interest to say".
I felt I wanted to ask the question regarding views on married men and swinging but was beaten to it by by another married man advertising himself. To say he got castrated would be an understatement, hence my reason for not paticipating on this forum.
The simple fact in my marriage is, I like sex, my wife doesn't. If I try to talk about it or force the issue, then according to her I'm the one who needs help. If I want to experiment, I'm a pervert. I've been married for 20 years and have 4 children. Apart from sex we have a very good relationship. I could do the ultimate selfish act and walk out like so many men do when they don't get what they want. After all there's plenty of room in the world for 4 more fatherless kids.
I always make a point of telling people I reply to that I am Married in the first paragraph so that they can bin it straight away without wasting they're time and have had some fantastic responses from people I have replied to.
Sorry if what I do offends anyone but I am old enough to understand and deal with the consequences. Ultimately I just want to make friends and anything else that happens is a bonus. I am not asking for people to condone what I do, just to be accepted as a person who can hopefully make valid contributions to this site.
I felt I wanted to ask the question regarding views on married men and swinging but was beaten to it by by another married man advertising himself. To say he got castrated would be an understatement, hence my reason for not paticipating on this forum.
The simple fact in my marriage is, I like sex, my wife doesn't. If I try to talk about it or force the issue, then according to her I'm the one who needs help. If I want to experiment, I'm a pervert. I've been married for 20 years and have 4 children. Apart from sex we have a very good relationship. I could do the ultimate selfish act and walk out like so many men do when they don't get what they want. After all there's plenty of room in the world for 4 more fatherless kids.
I always make a point of telling people I reply to that I am Married in the first paragraph so that they can bin it straight away without wasting they're time and have had some fantastic responses from people I have replied to.
Sorry if what I do offends anyone but I am old enough to understand and deal with the consequences. Ultimately I just want to make friends and anything else that happens is a bonus. I am not asking for people to condone what I do, just to be accepted as a person who can hopefully make valid contributions to this site.
Another ad in the womans section looking for 9" and over. Raced to the bathroom yet again with tape measure at the ready. More disapointment as once again fell short. Don't expect I'm alone but I can't see the point on all this exercise I keep giving it...... It just aint working. Isn't it just great the way mirrors make everything look bigger..
In your opinion then would you consider this a good place to start? Is it possible for friendships to be formed in this kind of environment or is the emphasis solely on achieving sexual gratification with no actual connection between the people involed. If for example you were to return to the same venue, with the same people, would the atmosphere be more relaxed because you had met previosly?
Thanks Mike, I've already looked there and I know it does seem a great location for single men. They do advertise gready girls nights, although I get the general idea, I would like to know how an evening like that would go. Do the men just stand around waiting to be chosen or is it as it looks like, one big free for all. My fear is of not being invited to join the fun and just hanging around looking and feeling stupid.
Are there any single males or couples who have visited The Office in Bristol? I have checked out the website and it seems that they are very welcoming of single males. My thoughts are that this may be a good place for a newcomer to start looking.
What is the general rule regarding single males and clubs? Will I be accepted, laughed at or frowned upon or just tucked away in a corner and ignored?
I know what you're thinking.........more questions from another stupid man.
What is the general rule regarding single males and clubs? Will I be accepted, laughed at or frowned upon or just tucked away in a corner and ignored?
I know what you're thinking.........more questions from another stupid man.
I'm also new to this forum but have been repling to ads for a number of weeks. My first impression was that I couldn't fail and all I had to do was ask. You only have to read through the ads to realise that this mistake is easily made if your vision is blinkered, like mine was. I've since learnt that the odds are very much stacked against me and could quite easily see myself throwing my toys out of the pram in frustration, so I do have sympathy.
I for one will keep plodding on in hope that at least I can make some friends along the way, and who knows. .......
: I for one certainly don't
I for one will keep plodding on in hope that at least I can make some friends along the way, and who knows. .......
: I for one certainly don't Hi everyone, found this site about 6 weeks ago and since then have responded to quite a number of ads. Have read all the advice for single males and am putting a lot more of it into practice when creating my replies. So far haven't had any meets but have had some very friendly replies mainly from people who our outside of my local area.
I'm not discouraged and am not under any illusions, but am convinced that the right woman or couple are out there somewhere. I am thinking however of moving up North as that seems to be where most of the fun happens.
I have read some of the posts and seen the way that some single men get caned on here so this is not an advert, just a big thankyou to the people who contribute to this site and make it so interesting to visit.
male, very well endowed Blaa..Blaa...Blaa................only joking
I'm not discouraged and am not under any illusions, but am convinced that the right woman or couple are out there somewhere. I am thinking however of moving up North as that seems to be where most of the fun happens.
I have read some of the posts and seen the way that some single men get caned on here so this is not an advert, just a big thankyou to the people who contribute to this site and make it so interesting to visit.
male, very well endowed Blaa..Blaa...Blaa................only joking
