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Onlyme
Just make sure that Tatty and you have a good map
Chesterfield is NORTH of Essex
xx
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Not done it in a car for about 9 months now though... must get back on track!
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Jack Black
(i'll get my coat
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I've given out the flirt divert number to people I've met on a vanilla night out before now and theyve twigged on just hearing the number, which prompted a good laugh and two months of dating!
I'd not give it out to swingers cos I'd like to think I'm a bit more grown up and able to say no thanks I'm not interested.
It's all done tongue in cheek and yeah I've laughed heartily at some of the messages left in the past, because I've left messages that are equally as poor in the past... so in some twisted way I'm laughing at myself... if that makes sense?
I'm not quite sure what the huge rage is with the whole thing Sheddy.I've heard much worse pranks on the radio than flirt divert.
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I think a lot of people are having similar thoughts and are slowly coming back into the fold.
It can only be a good thing.... the community is becoming less fragmented.
I only just realised who Essex34m is. Quote by dambuster
I think a lot of people ran away from what they thought SH would become after and because of the change of ownership. I also think a lot of those people – and I include myself – were mistaken, and are beginning to see that they haven’t found the swinging nirvana or utopia they seek. I include ALL the beakaway sites in that statement, not just the one I refer to as “over the roadâ€
It saddens me to accept that some, maybe all, will not return to the fold here, due to human nature and face saving issues.
In the café at the moment, there are more than enough “woe is me†type threads about the “state†of the forum, plus the added problem of technical glitches.
But I really do think that things aren’t as bad as many of us thought they would be.
Yes – there’s a bigger element of wanna shag/quick shag brigade and the things “we“ didn’t and don’t want, but is it really that bad ?
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bolox, does this mean i've got to bookmark this till it is her birthday then
Oh and I do NOT have wonky listen to gobshite and the old git! Thanks for the chat and drinks Thanks or the text at some silly time in the morning – I tried replying but didn’t get round to actually sending it! Great to see you, as ever. ... hope you had a fab time! 
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As soon as i win the lottery so i can give up work and invent the teleporter, i plan on doing a whole lot more than i do now. but RL and the fact most of my favourite ladies live bloody miles away buggers up my plans for an increase in horizontal encounters.
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Mike48 thank you for your best wishes we will all try to have fun.
Dlep believe you me a munch IS a miltiary operation, especially if you are arranging it!!
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The TnH is officially going... and really excited now
If only I could lose this damn headache... blasted hayfever . See you all in a few days .. woo hoo
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Hi i'm a complete newbie and its a git that i can't make april the 8th will there be anymore munch's coming up in the near future? really having trouble getting into the seen and generely just went to meet people with the same interests. DONNYBOY28
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I'm sorry to say this is no longer my favorite swinging site. I agree with Meaty that it is getting better again, which is why I've been popping in more and more. I still much prefer it elsewhere though.
Les x
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it was like that, then someone drove a bloody great big truck through it while delivering some new features i didn't have a need for. although the builders have straightend it out a little, i now prefer my new home and can't see it changing.
still doesn't stop me popping in here sometimes
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I feel light enough thank you, and I get out plenty.
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Due to me being a total prat and also not having the money until now....I can't get a hotel room!
If anyone has space for 2 really, really quiet people (
Thank you!
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I do find it hard at munches/socials though - I never know whether to use someone's real name or their user name, it feels strange calling someone by their user-name but some prefer it that way....
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PMSL - I've just reminded myself of nearly spitting my toys out of the pram one day with a guy (arse) that did it to me
I might go wandering down memory lane to see if I can find it.
There were a couple of good points brought up in the thread about how not to post.
I need to do something or I'm gonna bore you all shitless with a short tale of how Number 1 cat has just brought a live blackbird in, as a gift to his new Mum.
Then promptly let the fecker lose in the lounge
Cue "dad" to have to catch the fucking thing ! ! ! ! ! !
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2. In view of recent press saying "from an official source at swinging heaven" you could find that your opinions on this subject end up in one of the main rags or on TV.
))) yet we choose to make our posts. surely we don't need protecting now from ourselves? ) or if you know of anywhere that has rooms, please let me know! 
