Thanks, Alex & Blue for your comments. My thoughts were, really, that if dogging is getting difficult, this may be a way out. My thinking was that the activity would take place in the usual way, car park, car, etc, the difference would be that this would be by invite only and not in one of the usual dogging places. That way, people like Clare could go along safe int he knowledge that she would be among people she could trust. the couple would still have control. In fact, even it was done indoors, my idea was exactly that - couple retain control, merely because the group are invited and the rules are laid out in advance, with the obvious stipulation that these could change as the session progresses.
However, as I said, I'm new, so it was just a thought. Hope you don't mind the suggestion. I'll just keep looking and learning!
Regards to all
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orinoco
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 67
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I'm totally new to this scene but it seems that dogging it getting to be an unpleasant passtime, with nasty behaviour from some, and possible prosecution from the boys in blue. Is it time, I wonder, to make a variation on the theme and have invitation only sex parties, instead? Perhaps local sex groups who invite a couple to a venue, indoor or outdoor, to perform for a number of pre-invited wachers. the couple could stipulate how many, whether they allow participation, etc.
What do you think?
What do you think?
Just a thought from a newbie: having a quick shag with someone you have only just met is, well, just sex, isn't it? If that's all that is wanted, it would be quicker, easier and less complicated to just go and pay for it - there are plenty of 'lady offers massage' adverts in my local paper.
Whereas, MAKING LOVE, with some you know reasonably well (or very well) is an altogether more pleasureable and meaningful experience, isn't it? Or am I missing the point?
Whereas, MAKING LOVE, with some you know reasonably well (or very well) is an altogether more pleasureable and meaningful experience, isn't it? Or am I missing the point?
The idea of a web-cam section on here sounds great. As a complete newbie on here and the whole scene generally, it would be a nice, easy and safe way of exploring things. Sort of 'toe in the water' as it were: can't swim either! Might actually give me the incentive to go and buy a web-cam (might be useful, hey?)!
Have tried and got totally confused! (perhaps I'm just thick!
Certainly gets my vote
Have tried and got totally confused! (perhaps I'm just thick!
Certainly gets my vote
This is my first posting of any kind so I hope I don't mess it up! I have been looking at postings and chats for a while and had started to come to the conclusion that it was mostly couples for couples, or single females, so wasn't sure if it was worth registering. This forum has at least sorted that one out. Thanks. I agree with the general sentiment - hopefully it doesn't matter what you are, so long as you are honest and genuine. The munch seems like a nice way to meet people and gently get involved, hope I can make it. At least that way you make friends first, then, who knows? Sex with friends has to be more pleasurable than with strangers, doesn't it?
Wow - that's my site virginity gone.
Wow - that's my site virginity gone.
