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piccadilly
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 52
0 miles · Greater London

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Hi,
I've been to private parties before so I'm
sure I'd take to this like a duck to water.
I work in the West End so pretty footloose.
I can make it for 7is or most evenings.
Cheers
I went to the couples club/Oasis in Stoke Newington High Rd a few times earlier this year. It can sometimes be good.
I haven't been lately as the area it's in, Dalston Kingsland, is known as 'murder mile'.
Has anyone been recently and if so what was it like ?
Suspicious sex toy panics posties
Bomb squad officers called in to blow up a suspicious package found it contained a packet of chocolate buttons and a vibrator.
There are some positive recent reviews of the Sunset Cinema on the clubs section of this website.
I've been several times over the past year.
Best times are Friday and Saturday nights.
Best to arrive after 9pm. It might not heat up until 11pm so be patient and remember the usual etiquette of not pouncing on couples.
Received a couple of messages from Brian to say that Ian is slowly starting to bring Oasis/ Couples Club/ Club Domina back to life again.
Some Club Domina nights this month will be held in a completely different East End Venue.
Supposed to be a party at the Stoke Newington venue for us non S&M folk this month.

Perhaps the question was asked because some ladies specify vwe in their ads.
Apparently the average size is around 6 inches. Below 5 and a half inches is probably considered modest and above 7 inches ample.
No doubt an internet search would provide statistics on this matter.
Ok, a long winded post I admit.
Basically, what should I do ?.
How long to wait before admiting defeat? Best to just ask out straight, rather than by email
later?
Fingers crossed for Salsa class with 3rd lady.
On Monday morning I email 2 ladies whom I met a normal party on Friday night. I haven't heard back yet. I know, learn to accept rejection, or maybe there just slow on email.
Apologies for long post:
Was at the party on Friday night. I'm 34.
1. Got talking to a hot lady (40's) who caught my eye. She gave me some good kino by
brusing her foot/leg up against mine. I got her email address (took a little effort- gave her
pen and paper). When I clarified address later (she insitited it was
) she didn't seem that interested. Later saw another guy getting
on well with her. I'll send her an email on Mondy morning, following tips on this forum. I
wasn't drunk but perhaps if I'd had less to drink I'd have 'performed better' at e.g affirming
values.
2. Another lady. Spoke to her and her friend in one spot in the middle of the garden. Her
friend a bit of an obstacle. Later I spoke to them somewhere else, with me and her sat
next to oneanother on a low wall by house door.
Good body language. Asked her for her email address and she wrote down her personal
and work email addresses.
3. Met her through her friend whom I'd spoken to at a party 3 weeks ago.
I tried to get her email address or no. but no luck. HOWEVER the 3 of us shared a taxi
home. She mentioned the local salsa class that she goes to and suggested I go along. I of
course said yes.
Strange aside- taxi passed Rios nudist sauna. The ladies giggled and said they'd been
there. I bullshitted complete innocence (I've been there and to proper sex clubs, which
this one isn't). I didn't want to get sleazy sojust hinted that I'd heard of it.
I got off cab first- gave me 1/3 (her suggestion), to her and confirmed I'd see her
Thursday night at the Salsa lessons. I've been to a few salsa lessons and while not
completely useless am still noticeably worse than average- another lady dancing near me
at party said "Are you sure of your sexuality''.
At the party the lady I'm going to the salsa lessons said I had good rythym and could sing.
And she said she'd only had one drink !
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Monday and Tuesday are obviously quiet night. Friday/ Saturday obviously better.
It sounds like you have never been to a swingers club. So when you do go just play it cool. Be friendly and don't hang around like a zombie the way some guys do.
Oasis/ Couples Club in north London has closed for the time being.
''Unforseen circumstances/illness'' mentioned on website.
Anyone know what's going on ?
'' Its all a load of bollocks!! Like anything you read in the Sport its a load of crap.
I'm still making new videos, and intend to stay in this business for a long long time!
Keep getting out your cock and wanking to my photos babe!!!
Linsey
xxx''
Came across stories online that 34gg Linsey Dawn Mckenzie has had a breast reduction to a
32dd. Heart breaking. Picture of said article in Sunday Sport, so it might not be a hoax (yeah I know about Elvis found on moon etc).
Hi I'd love to come along. 33yr swm. I'm sure I've visited the cinema you have in mind.
It's actually pretty nice inside and has a bar for chatting. Please confirm details as I will be in W1on Saturday.
piccadilly
Hi I used to be a regular at the Oasis Club Green Lanes Haringey London.
I've only been sporadically in the last couple of years as it seems quieter and no action
takes place at all.
Anyone seen any improvement?
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