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24 Dec 2009

Reading this reminds me why I dont often click submit!
Geographically wrong has been my bug bear.

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on an emotive topic, I think its often easy to rose tint ex relationships. I've twice said lets meet again in five years, and ultimately beat myself up for it as at times I've reminisced on the bits I've missed. A more balanced view reminds me why it wasn't right though. I'm not holding out btw, and it was 10 and 15yrs ago, so I've missed my slots perhaps. Inevitably there'll be another right person and at the right time, or at least a person that occupies my thoughts and energies. I think I've been round a cycle and experienced it.
I think, and it is my two penneth, the perfection fantasy, it cant be reached, and shouldn't be sought or your paths are just narrowed to a point, so right is subjective I think and in any case can become wrong at any time of life.
Brief encounters can be heartbreakingly nice, eg, the girl in front of me in the queue in asda this afternoon, I was insane to not just ask her for a coffee or a snowball fight, it could've been beautiful, but right girl wrong time coz my nose was dew dropping like mad!!! bugger!!
Happy xmas folks

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24 Dec 2009

If I'm on my own, I usually turn the light off.
If I'm with friends, it depends on my timing. But dirty laughs and a cuddle aint a bad thing is it?

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24 Dec 2009

on an emotive topic, I think its often easy to rose tint ex relationships. I've twice said lets meet again in five years, and ultimately beat myself up for it as at times I've reminisced on the bits I've missed. A more balanced view reminds me why it wasn't right though. I'm not holding out btw, and it was 10 and 15yrs ago, so I've missed my slots perhaps. Inevitably there'll be another right person and at the right time, or at least a person that occupies my thoughts and energies. I think I've been round a cycle and experienced it.
I think, and it is my two penneth, the perfection fantasy, it cant be reached, and shouldn't be sought or your paths are just narrowed to a point, so right is subjective I think and in any case can become wrong at any time of life.
Brief encounters can be heartbreakingly nice, eg, the girl in front of me in the queue in asda this afternoon, I was insane to not just ask her for a coffee or a snowball fight, it could've been beautiful, but right girl wrong time coz my nose was dew dropping like mad!!! bugger!!
Happy xmas folks

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23 Dec 2009

Many happy returns!!
Its been aaages! I hope you're on form, x

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18 Nov 2009

you're very kind my dear, I blush!
Its a bit late in the day to mention, but I went and bought Sterophonics greatest hits after you mentioned local boy in a photograph. I'm going to pop it on now.

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18 Nov 2009

Forum post 2, on reflection lol

I just get annoyed with guys pretending to be couples, or pretending to be single, that's not really a fib I suppose, that's just dishonest.
I could become six foot, 8.5", with 25yo female bi playmate.

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18 Nov 2009

I thought I'd pop my forum posting cherry at last. Lies damn lies, I think lots of people put a 'spin' on their profile and its the degree of honesty that differs. Obviously it works if people are having these meets. I met a 5'4" guy who was down as 5'10", his smelly feet were what made me leave tho. I met a couple and never saw the wifes face til I arrived, I was gobsmacked how gorgeous she was, he was 46 and not 36 tho, but we became friends.
Being an honest sort, I wonder whether I should embellish mine a bit to get ahead, unfortunately that's not me, so, with the additional burden of being a single bloke in swingdom, I trudge onwards!

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