Plenty of replies in respect of vehicles for dogging in, but as most doggers tend to me single males I feel the following should be considered.
Definitely a 4 x 4. I dog all over UK and if you are looking for a dogging site you always know when you've found it because of the narrow muddy lane full of potholes leading to it.
Also gives you extra height for good observation of car park.
Tends to have large battery fitted, so no problem running the coffee maker, portable telly ( so I dont miss Corie) and battery powered foot warmer.
Cheap to run (LPG 35p/litre)
Looks well battered so never receives any agro from boy racers, drug dealers etc.
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Quote by gruntypigBurnie nearly got it right.
so ricochet, i'm intrigued, apart from potential sea sickness and a problem with high spring tides, what's the technical disadvantage ?
Problem is there's nothing to push against. So instead of making mighty thrusts in one direction, the water just moves and you end up going nowhere. Unless you can either hang onto the frame or jam your feet up against it.
Anyone who is my age will remember the problems that we used to have with the old Nylon sheets, this is the same except 100 times worse.
But they are great for sleeping in.
:D :D :D Wow somebody actually looked at my Website ?? Thanks BurnieQuote by wrinkledpruneYou must be joking. Orange have the best network.???? I've been on vodaphone since they invented Moby's and the most anoying thing that I find is the message I get at least 10 times a day that goes like this. 'I'm sorry but the ORANGE subcriber you are trying to call is unavailable at present.' So if you want a network that works don't get Orange.
if you have coverage, three are doing great deals on large numbers of texts. if you travel abroad alot, voda are probably better, but for uk network coverage, orange pretty much have the best network. o2 have some good online deals too. personally i am on voda, at the moment, but i am not happy as on averate my bill has almost tripled since i moved from one of the o2 online tariffs.
handsets? depends what you want it to do really, i have 4 at the moment and chop and change depending on whether i want a tiny phone, one to use for gps in the car, or something so confusing if anyone nicked it they would never be able to use it...
personally i like sony ericsson for generic telephone stuff, the cameras are good on the new ones, but the sharp cameras are probably better, although their bluetooth can be crippled (vodafone for a start) nokia are always a safe bet too. if you want to pm me about anything in particular i might be able to give you more detail, but dont want to bore the world with my telephone geekdom.
Berni your better off getting a water bed.
We've had one now for about 15 years. They are probably cheaper than these fancy things. Theyre heated to blood temperature, so they are warm in winter and cool in summer and they don't wear out.
Just one thing, don't beleive the stories about how great they are for sex. Unfortunately they have a technical disadvantage in this area.
We've had one now for about 15 years. They are probably cheaper than these fancy things. Theyre heated to blood temperature, so they are warm in winter and cool in summer and they don't wear out.
Just one thing, don't beleive the stories about how great they are for sex. Unfortunately they have a technical disadvantage in this area.
I'm very lucky hobbies wise, all my hobbies compliment each other.
Walking
Reading
Dogging
I often go out in the afternoon to anyone of dozens of carparks, park up, put on my boots and set off to walk a few miles. Getting back to the car, get my flask and butties out and sit with my feet up and a book until it goes dark, finally moving into dogging mode.
So if you pull onto a dogging location and see a lonely guy with his nose stuck in a book its probably me, so at least come over and say 'ow do'.
Walking
Reading
Dogging
I often go out in the afternoon to anyone of dozens of carparks, park up, put on my boots and set off to walk a few miles. Getting back to the car, get my flask and butties out and sit with my feet up and a book until it goes dark, finally moving into dogging mode.
So if you pull onto a dogging location and see a lonely guy with his nose stuck in a book its probably me, so at least come over and say 'ow do'.
Just spent 10 mins trying to get my head round that definition of Sexual Addiction.
It appears to me that it really doesn't describe the ADDICTION part.
Surely to become addicted to something it has got to be something that you imagine you can't either mentally (ie smoking) or physically (ie drugs) live without. It has also to a lesser or greater extent cause you to modify your lifestyle in a detrimental way.
I can't see that going out occassionally dogging and having a bit of selfish sexual gratification makes you an addict.
How many times an hour do I have to w**k to become an addict ??
It appears to me that it really doesn't describe the ADDICTION part.
Surely to become addicted to something it has got to be something that you imagine you can't either mentally (ie smoking) or physically (ie drugs) live without. It has also to a lesser or greater extent cause you to modify your lifestyle in a detrimental way.
I can't see that going out occassionally dogging and having a bit of selfish sexual gratification makes you an addict.
How many times an hour do I have to w**k to become an addict ??
Quote by Robert1961
I saw the programme and at first thought he was not a nice person to know and was in it for more than was being stated. but as the programme went on i started to warm to Steve.
Why should he not be allowed to walk around naked if he want to, i seem i was ok with the police in some areas but not others.
why was he let out of prison nake only to get arrested once again, they prison should not have let him out if he was breaking his bail, seems to me someone set him up for that and the system is to blame.
When he was in the pub talking to the lady and she was well against his view but everyone else in the pub agreed with him it was so funny.
and also the old lady who said 'well he was no adonis' did not stop he looking though did it.
I hope he finishes him walk one day on his own away from the film crew and he might get it down.
and finally
DD
i dont mind walking around the flat naked, but with the heating on its cold in london
The governor of the Prison would have no choice but to let him out as he would omly have a warrant to detain him for the 14 days. What actually happened was a Gate Arrest by the police wich is not at all uncommon.
AaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarghQuote by northwest-cpl
We watched the second half. It did seem that a lot of police, court and prison resources have been wasted on the various prosecutions. However, there was an inevitability about it all and we felt that Steve was looking for the role of martyr. We have been naturist for 15 years and have always taken into account the sensibilities of people who may be offended by nudity. Although not shocked by seeing him naked in a busy street or supermarket, we did question the appropriatness of nudity there. He seemed to confirm an image that naturists are at best eccentric.
I totally agree that a lot of what he did was publicity seeking, and often inappropriate (wonder how much he got paid), but the real point is that the great majority of people did not object, wich is entirely contrary to the establishments veiw, and out laws.
Anybody watch the couple on tele walking naked from Lands end to John o' Groats.
It seemed to be so obvious that the majority of people that they came across had no real objections to them. The interviewer had to go out of his way to find a total of 2 people who objected, both of them to my mind purely because they thought that they aught to been seen to object, not because they were really personally offended. They both stated that they were objecting because they thought that somebody else might be offened.
I now come to the point.
I wonder if this documentry could be used as a defence against the new sexual offeces act as it clearly proves that nudity is not offensive to the greater majority of people.
It seemed to be so obvious that the majority of people that they came across had no real objections to them. The interviewer had to go out of his way to find a total of 2 people who objected, both of them to my mind purely because they thought that they aught to been seen to object, not because they were really personally offended. They both stated that they were objecting because they thought that somebody else might be offened.
I now come to the point.
I wonder if this documentry could be used as a defence against the new sexual offeces act as it clearly proves that nudity is not offensive to the greater majority of people.
Quote by wild rose and the stag
guess where we went on the way home and not a dogger in sight, or anyone else for that matter it was three am and raining , still a certain landmark has never looked so good
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staggy
So it was raining there at 3am. I thought it only rained there when I was there.
If they replaced all the signs in that area with ones like your Avatar wouldn't life be so much more interesting. It could solve the female unemployment problem, get a job as part of a sign up on the xxxx
First, thanks to everybody for taking what I said seriously, and not beating me over the head with the 'My wife doesn't understand me' stereotype.
Read your thread Sexysteph and it is exactly the reason I stick strictly to NSA dogging.
BTW I hate to say this but I've been there and got the T shirt 25 years ago, and ended up taking option 4. Never again, and it wasn't me doing the cheating.
I think my wife probably suspects that I get upto something but knows that I would never be stupid enough to get involved in a relationship. We have a great marriage and love each other (and the cat) very much, but my hormones wont let me wither away just yet
Read your thread Sexysteph and it is exactly the reason I stick strictly to NSA dogging.
BTW I hate to say this but I've been there and got the T shirt 25 years ago, and ended up taking option 4. Never again, and it wasn't me doing the cheating.
I think my wife probably suspects that I get upto something but knows that I would never be stupid enough to get involved in a relationship. We have a great marriage and love each other (and the cat) very much, but my hormones wont let me wither away just yet
Quote by burnie
Cheating always eventually ends in disaster. It will catch up with you and somebody always pays. Whether it's hurt spouses, resentful kids, friends who cover for you, girlfriends who decide they want you to themselves, etc.
I've never seen it end differently. Good luck
How right you are, but consider this.
Sometimes you come to a time of life when the sexual side of marriage dies away. You probably still love each other dearly. This is OK if it happens to both of you, however if one of you is left feeling very frustrated, due to the lack of interest of the other, where do you go from there. I would suggest 3 choices if the marriage is to continue.
1) Accept the situation and all the bad feelings and rows that go with it.
2) Find a lover, and that's when Burnies scenario kicks in.
3) My personal choice, go dogging ocasionally, keep it NSA, and keep it to yourself.
Don't always be quick to judge the lone married males, they might just be trying to save there sanity and marriage
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any willing act, in my eyes, is ok even scat, so long as everyone is consenting adults then they are harming noone,
I have to agree as long as everyones adult and willing then let them get on with it. As for the video clip being shown to you on a mobile phone, well i've seen some shocking stuff but that was my choice. Had someone shown me it without let me know what it was about then i'd have gone feckin mad at them and if it had happen at work they be GONE GONE GONE.
I'm with you Rebecca. What I really find shocking is that someone would take it for granted that I would want to see something like that.
What I have really enjoyed is reading this thread and seeing the vast differences of opinion. Some very conservative (small c) some unbeleivably liberal. However the nice thing to see is that this proves that the people in here are at least not hippocrits. I still find it shocking when I spot 'Disgusted of Sniffytown' parked across the car park from me.
Back to the thread. From my own point of veiw it's 'whatever turns you on, as long as it doesn't frighten the horses', and it's concensual.
It's a long, long time since I took the trouble to read this sticky, so Ive just pretty much read it all the way through.
It seems to me that 90% of the warnings fall into one of two categories. Either Police prescence or yobs.
All the way through I only found one sensible suggestion (not sure but I think it came from Bluexxxx). That was to help the Police. In theory this should go some way to solving both problems.
No I haven't totally lost my marbles, just think about this a minute. If every dogger when they turned up at a site took a note of the registrations of any other vehicles there, and the fact that we were doing this was well publicised on the site, it may, and only may make some of the yobs think twice.
If there is then an incident one or other of us is likely to have information that can help. If someones getting threatened, assaulted, or vehicles are being damaged we need to fight back.
This is a simple method of doing it.
It seems to me that 90% of the warnings fall into one of two categories. Either Police prescence or yobs.
All the way through I only found one sensible suggestion (not sure but I think it came from Bluexxxx). That was to help the Police. In theory this should go some way to solving both problems.
No I haven't totally lost my marbles, just think about this a minute. If every dogger when they turned up at a site took a note of the registrations of any other vehicles there, and the fact that we were doing this was well publicised on the site, it may, and only may make some of the yobs think twice.
If there is then an incident one or other of us is likely to have information that can help. If someones getting threatened, assaulted, or vehicles are being damaged we need to fight back.
This is a simple method of doing it.
Going back to the original query in this thread, as many prople above have said, there is no standard procedure. However it is really a matter of making the intentions on both sides as plain as possible. I normally follow the following scenario.
1) Park up and WAIT. and WAIT, and WAIT.
2) If and when a couple pull in WAIT 10 mins or longer. Remember that they are probably watching you as closely as you are watching them. A pair of binoculars is useful at this time.
3) Get out of the car. Make it obvious that you have got out. ie. dont have the interior light disconnected, sneak out of the back door etc. Remember they are watching you.
4) If you are a smoker, stand by the car, light a fag, be relaxed. Remember they are watching you.
5) Stand looking towards their car for a couple of minutes
6) Wander across the car park, not directly towards them, but getting closer.
7) If they are looking to play at this point they will hopefully give some indication. Interior light flash, brake lights etc.
8) Do not rush over, approach gradually.
9) If you have had no encouragement at this point get back in the car and WAIT. Try again in 15 to 20 mins.
10) Remember that a lot of dogging sites are also used by young couples who have never heard of dogging. It is not fair to spoil their fun. (you wouldn't like it) and only gives dogging a bad name.
1) Park up and WAIT. and WAIT, and WAIT.
2) If and when a couple pull in WAIT 10 mins or longer. Remember that they are probably watching you as closely as you are watching them. A pair of binoculars is useful at this time.
3) Get out of the car. Make it obvious that you have got out. ie. dont have the interior light disconnected, sneak out of the back door etc. Remember they are watching you.
4) If you are a smoker, stand by the car, light a fag, be relaxed. Remember they are watching you.
5) Stand looking towards their car for a couple of minutes
6) Wander across the car park, not directly towards them, but getting closer.
7) If they are looking to play at this point they will hopefully give some indication. Interior light flash, brake lights etc.
8) Do not rush over, approach gradually.
9) If you have had no encouragement at this point get back in the car and WAIT. Try again in 15 to 20 mins.
10) Remember that a lot of dogging sites are also used by young couples who have never heard of dogging. It is not fair to spoil their fun. (you wouldn't like it) and only gives dogging a bad name.
It's no good going on about the problem that has started on the chase. the boy racers will only go away when they get fed up of finding noone there to antagonise. As a practical suggestion I would move to the smaller car parks. I can immediately think of 2 suitable ones within 5 mins of Ansons. Not going to publish locations here, anyone that wants them can PM me. The boy racers will not use these car parks as there is only room for about a half dozen cars, and even when empty you have to do a 3 point turn to get out. Consequently they can only enter one at a time and would not have the bottle to do that.
Hi,
I am late 40's male travelling around the Southwest on Wed, Thurs Fri this week. Would love to find couple(s) for some dogging action, or have motel room. Love watching or will participate if requested. Into most things.
Send e-mail for phone no. and we can chat.
When on the road I use a pocket PC for e-mails but unfortunately it will not send pictures.
I am late 40's male travelling around the Southwest on Wed, Thurs Fri this week. Would love to find couple(s) for some dogging action, or have motel room. Love watching or will participate if requested. Into most things.
Send e-mail for phone no. and we can chat.
When on the road I use a pocket PC for e-mails but unfortunately it will not send pictures.
Very strange.
I was there about 4 o'clock the other afternoon, just sitting in the car having a brew from my flask, and reading a book, in between 2 jobs.
The guy from the council had already been round, and cleared off. Suddenly a woman, fiftyish, walks over to the car and tells me that the barrier is now being locked at 4 o'clock. She was with a guy in a land rover. I suspect that they are local residents and have taken it upon themselves to lock the barrier. As I was leaving the car park I noticed a plain white sheet of A4 pinned to the gate post. No council letterhead or anything, saying that the car park would be locked from 4 o'clock.
Any way what I now need to know is where is everyone going now. Send me some info please.
I was there about 4 o'clock the other afternoon, just sitting in the car having a brew from my flask, and reading a book, in between 2 jobs.
The guy from the council had already been round, and cleared off. Suddenly a woman, fiftyish, walks over to the car and tells me that the barrier is now being locked at 4 o'clock. She was with a guy in a land rover. I suspect that they are local residents and have taken it upon themselves to lock the barrier. As I was leaving the car park I noticed a plain white sheet of A4 pinned to the gate post. No council letterhead or anything, saying that the car park would be locked from 4 o'clock.
Any way what I now need to know is where is everyone going now. Send me some info please.
Very strange.
I was there about 4 o'clock the other afternoon, just sitting in the car having a brew from my flask, and reading a book, in between 2 jobs.
The guy from the council had already been round, and cleared off. Suddenly a woman, fiftyish, walks over to the car and tells me that the barrier is now being locked at 4 o'clock. She was with a guy in a land rover. I suspect that they are local residents and have taken it upon themselves to lock the barrier. As I was leaving the car park I noticed a plain white sheet of A4 pinned to the gate post. No council letterhead or anything, saying that the car park would be locked from 4 o'clock.
Any way what I now need to know is where is everyone going now. Send me some info please.
I was there about 4 o'clock the other afternoon, just sitting in the car having a brew from my flask, and reading a book, in between 2 jobs.
The guy from the council had already been round, and cleared off. Suddenly a woman, fiftyish, walks over to the car and tells me that the barrier is now being locked at 4 o'clock. She was with a guy in a land rover. I suspect that they are local residents and have taken it upon themselves to lock the barrier. As I was leaving the car park I noticed a plain white sheet of A4 pinned to the gate post. No council letterhead or anything, saying that the car park would be locked from 4 o'clock.
Any way what I now need to know is where is everyone going now. Send me some info please.
