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s1dthesexist
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 45
0 miles · Greater London
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Ok, granted it may have been error to refer to a location and I would seek to raise that the location mentioned is recorded in the guide to dogging sites on here.
Perhaps I was wrong to think that puting the location with the specific issue might allow those people reading it to understand that they are ruining it. This was particularly as Serendity had suggested that moving closer was the right thing to do.
Sorry for any offence caused.
Perhaps I was wrong to think that puting the location with the specific issue might allow those people reading it to understand that they are ruining it. This was particularly as Serendity had suggested that moving closer was the right thing to do.
Sorry for any offence caused.
Serendipity: I agree with most of what you suggest, save for moving your car.
At the (probably the most popular spot in Sussex), the carparks are relatively small compares to some locations (such Wisley). This means that you will not leave yourself as a fem a long way from the safety of your car if decide to leave.
There is something of a problem at the of people (this is mainly single males) moving their cars closer to a couple and preventing them settling.
As ever, happy to hold the hand of a female (or couple) taking their first steps in dogging.
At the (probably the most popular spot in Sussex), the carparks are relatively small compares to some locations (such Wisley). This means that you will not leave yourself as a fem a long way from the safety of your car if decide to leave.
There is something of a problem at the of people (this is mainly single males) moving their cars closer to a couple and preventing them settling.
As ever, happy to hold the hand of a female (or couple) taking their first steps in dogging.
Reading back through the posts of the last year it seems that the police have been pretty busy justifying their budgets. Hopefully the political climate will cause the police to review their activities that are not protecting some part of the community (be that doggers or locals that have an issue).
It may however be time for some clarification on the legal position of dogging...
I am pretty comfortable with where I stand, but it may help others to understand their rights in light of the latest legal views.
It may however be time for some clarification on the legal position of dogging...
I am pretty comfortable with where I stand, but it may help others to understand their rights in light of the latest legal views.
Rupert,
I suspect that you are very right, but then this is also how it was a couple of years ago, but kind of recovered itself.
You are spot on with the "fast moving highly illuminating dogging pack": they are the bane of my time up there. I cannot believe how many people use even dipped beams to search out what they are looking for, and sod everyone else. And you know that they will be back in ten minutes...
The only problem is how do you stop it? Having watched certain people doing the same thing for more than six months, and presumably finding very little, they keep going. It is not like they will be getting out of their cars to see anything as everyone packs up when they show up!
I guess the winners from your last visit were the other couple.
I suspect that you are very right, but then this is also how it was a couple of years ago, but kind of recovered itself.
You are spot on with the "fast moving highly illuminating dogging pack": they are the bane of my time up there. I cannot believe how many people use even dipped beams to search out what they are looking for, and sod everyone else. And you know that they will be back in ten minutes...
The only problem is how do you stop it? Having watched certain people doing the same thing for more than six months, and presumably finding very little, they keep going. It is not like they will be getting out of their cars to see anything as everyone packs up when they show up!
I guess the winners from your last visit were the other couple.
That is pretty shocking. I can only hope that someone fronts up and calls the police the next time those kind of yobs are up there.
I am guessing that these kind of people are not turning up when it is busy otherwise I could see their offer of trouble being met.
It is annoying that the other locatiions for dogging listed on here do not seem to be the most reliable, and are more like where people want dogging to be going on. A couple of the listings that appeared don't look particularly safe...
I am guessing that these kind of people are not turning up when it is busy otherwise I could see their offer of trouble being met.
It is annoying that the other locatiions for dogging listed on here do not seem to be the most reliable, and are more like where people want dogging to be going on. A couple of the listings that appeared don't look particularly safe...
Hi,
Been going up to the for years and had some good times. But in the last couple of months it has got really bad.
The only people still coming up seem to be mainly the guys who drive in with lights on, checking for a woman, and leaving if they cannot find any couples out.
Any clues appreciated.
S.
Been going up to the for years and had some good times. But in the last couple of months it has got really bad.
The only people still coming up seem to be mainly the guys who drive in with lights on, checking for a woman, and leaving if they cannot find any couples out.
Any clues appreciated.
S.
I was up on the Downs just north of Brighton at the normal spot late last week: the travellers are back.
This time they have located themselves just noth of the second carpark as you come from Brighton (i.e. the first of the two better carparks). When I was there one of the travellers was wondering about...
The third carpark is however still good (the grass on the verge is very long giving extra privacy) as is the back carpark on the road down the hill.
I hope that this has helped avoid a nasty shock.
This time they have located themselves just noth of the second carpark as you come from Brighton (i.e. the first of the two better carparks). When I was there one of the travellers was wondering about...
The third carpark is however still good (the grass on the verge is very long giving extra privacy) as is the back carpark on the road down the hill.
I hope that this has helped avoid a nasty shock.
You are right about scrotty: it is the kind of little shit you see hanging around the local shopping centre.
Just to clarify, by fear I mean the apprehension of the event, not the out-and-out fear of greater harm that one might get from, for example, sky diving, or something else where there is a total loss of control.
Just to clarify, by fear I mean the apprehension of the event, not the out-and-out fear of greater harm that one might get from, for example, sky diving, or something else where there is a total loss of control.
The fear: plain and simple.
Fear of getting caught,
Fear of someone recognising you,
Fear of recognising someone you know,
Fear of people telling you to fuck-off,
Fear of scrotty kids causing trouble,
Fear of the police,
Fear of spending a whole night waiting in a car, for nothing to happen,
Fear of what you miss when you could be chatting to people trying to set up a meet,
Fear of your car breaking down or crashing,
Fear of anything that you could fear.
I have never been to a club, and until I know a female that will accompany to couples nights, dogging is for me.
Fear of getting caught,
Fear of someone recognising you,
Fear of recognising someone you know,
Fear of people telling you to fuck-off,
Fear of scrotty kids causing trouble,
Fear of the police,
Fear of spending a whole night waiting in a car, for nothing to happen,
Fear of what you miss when you could be chatting to people trying to set up a meet,
Fear of your car breaking down or crashing,
Fear of anything that you could fear.
I have never been to a club, and until I know a female that will accompany to couples nights, dogging is for me.
Ok, so this might be a massive long-shot, but are there any couples or fems thinging of going our near Brighton?
I know the popular spot, and a few others. I would like to watch or join.
Please let me know if you are looking to have some male company to join you tonight. Text number available by response.
I know the popular spot, and a few others. I would like to watch or join.
Please let me know if you are looking to have some male company to join you tonight. Text number available by response.
Oh yee of little faith.
John: I think that you are saying more about yourself than me.
It is good that some of you are having a good time. Perhaps it is where I am going that is not the best, but I am sure it could be better with a little organisation to sort the wheat from the chaf.
No, the details would not be published: this is essentially an exchange of information, which would only be passed to OK people.
And yes, I do appreciate that this will save me driving around lots, it will also prevent others doing the same, and the contingent risks of people hanging around carparks for ages waiting for something to happen.
The idea is actually appropriated from some friends in London. They advertise as couples looking for groups, and then invite their mates, who have similar interests. It is not rocket science...
John: I think that you are saying more about yourself than me.
It is good that some of you are having a good time. Perhaps it is where I am going that is not the best, but I am sure it could be better with a little organisation to sort the wheat from the chaf.
No, the details would not be published: this is essentially an exchange of information, which would only be passed to OK people.
And yes, I do appreciate that this will save me driving around lots, it will also prevent others doing the same, and the contingent risks of people hanging around carparks for ages waiting for something to happen.
The idea is actually appropriated from some friends in London. They advertise as couples looking for groups, and then invite their mates, who have similar interests. It is not rocket science...
Folks,
It is apparent that dogging in Sussex is in a very poor state at the moment. I see this as being due to a number of factors, some of which can be controlled and other which cannot.
The primary problem is that no one seems to know where it is meant to be taking place, so there is always a lot of movement and impatience. Every time I am out I see couples being put off by this.
There are also a lot of people wandering in on the off chance, and leaving very shortly after as they have not immediately had sex with a random.
So, the solution is that we get a 'group' of contacts together, and share information on times and places of meets. This will allow us to ensure that time spent out is effective, and that everyone gets what they are looking for.
All information received will be in the strictest of confidence. I will have a think about the best way of contacting you, but it is likely to be e-mail or text, or through messaging on here.
Please PM me with any further suggestions.
It would be good to get couples and singles (M and F), and to have ideas about what people are after (i.e. just watch, oral, or full sex: I am just into watching).
I look forward to making contact with many doggers, and ensuring that we all have a good, safe, time.
It is apparent that dogging in Sussex is in a very poor state at the moment. I see this as being due to a number of factors, some of which can be controlled and other which cannot.
The primary problem is that no one seems to know where it is meant to be taking place, so there is always a lot of movement and impatience. Every time I am out I see couples being put off by this.
There are also a lot of people wandering in on the off chance, and leaving very shortly after as they have not immediately had sex with a random.
So, the solution is that we get a 'group' of contacts together, and share information on times and places of meets. This will allow us to ensure that time spent out is effective, and that everyone gets what they are looking for.
All information received will be in the strictest of confidence. I will have a think about the best way of contacting you, but it is likely to be e-mail or text, or through messaging on here.
Please PM me with any further suggestions.
It would be good to get couples and singles (M and F), and to have ideas about what people are after (i.e. just watch, oral, or full sex: I am just into watching).
I look forward to making contact with many doggers, and ensuring that we all have a good, safe, time.
