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I've just checked your email address and it has already been verified, so you should be able to post ads now- presuming the email address your using for the photo ads is the same address as you use for the Forums that is
No it's not. I had a problem with accessing that one and decided to go with completely diff service for ad. (which reminds me - how do I go about changing for forum?)
Sorry for being a pain - but is CRAP!!!!!!
I am jealous, i think its to do with the soldier's uniform, hey i had to check out the competion guy's.
He was just checking out which Thunderbird you might be
So - if there's a South/North divide going on here - what happens to those in the Midlands. Looks lke there's a fair few on here.
And yeah - I second all the others - great post there old chap. :color:
Having just attempted to have a hot bath for the third time since some ridiculous hour this morning (and stil not succeeeded)- I think I might just start begging for you to come and sort me out Neil!!! My hot water heater that is. Well - I think that's what I meant. Or did I?
Or am I just becoming as fecking mad as the rest of ya?
Still need a new heating system tho
Or am I just becoming as fecking mad as the rest of ya?
Still need a new heating system tho
Hey, hey - thread rescued from close hijack there!! And to think I was gonna offer you my dvd of the ENTIRE first series of the L Word butters!!!! Tut 
Thanks Angel!! Guess I'm just gonna have to cross each one of those bridges one at a single time.
Now I just gotta find me someone to go to a club with as well.
Thanks Angel!!
Guess I'm just gonna have to cross each one of those bridges one at a single time. Now I just gotta find me someone to go to a club with as well.
:69: to get over herself she wasn’t my type lol
Hey butters
That was exactly the right thing to say. I am lucky in that my friends didn't freak out when I came out (just my folks), but I have had a couple of str8 women at work get a bit edgy. I just tell 'em - "sorry - you're not my type" and they're way cool
. But here I am in the closet about being bi among my gay friends!!
I guess we do what is comfortable at the time - and the main thing is that no-one forces anyone to do anything that they are not comfortable with.
So bi, str8, gay - it's all the same really. There is always going ot be someone who is different to you. And I like that
I guess the thing is that black people have been victimised by white people for so long that people have come to know the word "racism" as only that of hatred/persecution of a wihite person over a black person. It has been that prevalent that in this day and age one needs to make a differentiation between who is persecuting whom! Sad isn't it.
Racism sucks - either way.
Racism sucks - either way.
:bounce:Hi Monty
I can only talk from the single woman side here - and I have to say that I would shy away from meeting a single guy from an ad. There are the obvious things like safety for me to consider that even chatting one on one wouldn't totally alleviate. And on the couple of times I have tried to get to "know" a single guy from an ad, before meeting I have, on both occasions, felt pressurised to "cut the talk and meet fora shag". So I haven't felt at ease and I haven't gone through with it. Since joining this forum I must say that I would recommend to anyone - but most especially single people - that they join the forum and take the time to get to know the people on here first. I am already feeling so much at ease - and so much "safer" already. (how many "already's have I put in there????)
So - I can't answer your actual question becuase I'm a swinging virgin - but I hope I've been able to add a slightly different perspective.
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I can only talk from the single woman side here - and I have to say that I would shy away from meeting a single guy from an ad. There are the obvious things like safety for me to consider that even chatting one on one wouldn't totally alleviate. And on the couple of times I have tried to get to "know" a single guy from an ad, before meeting I have, on both occasions, felt pressurised to "cut the talk and meet fora shag". So I haven't felt at ease and I haven't gone through with it. Since joining this forum I must say that I would recommend to anyone - but most especially single people - that they join the forum and take the time to get to know the people on here first. I am already feeling so much at ease - and so much "safer" already. (how many "already's have I put in there????)
So - I can't answer your actual question becuase I'm a swinging virgin - but I hope I've been able to add a slightly different perspective.
: Hey - thanks to all for your input. It is good to know that I'm not the only one who has these sorts of thoughts. And it's good to have a forum in which to view them. As a person still exploring the possibilities of entering this world - it is important for me to probe and question. And so far I have been interested to note the different exeriences, thoughts and "beliefs" you all have. Bit like the "real" world then
Thanks for your reply Neil.
I see your point and I wonder if that is a more male orientated feeling? Or am I being sexist here?
I don't knwo what you do for a iving - but I'd be interested to know how you would react to me if you had a meeting tomorrow with a large supplier and I walked through your door as part of the supplier project team? Or how about - if you found out that I lived just down the street from you.
Would that change how you would interract with me if I wasn't a member of this forum?
I see your point and I wonder if that is a more male orientated feeling? Or am I being sexist here?
I don't knwo what you do for a iving - but I'd be interested to know how you would react to me if you had a meeting tomorrow with a large supplier and I walked through your door as part of the supplier project team? Or how about - if you found out that I lived just down the street from you.
Would that change how you would interract with me if I wasn't a member of this forum?
Hi Nimbus,
Yeah - it's scary being the single femail, but maybe think about what "scares" you the most? You may find that a lot of those fears have already been bi-passed in your time here? I think you're really lucky to have a friend who at least knows what you're about. At least you have the safety of someone else at least knowing. And I'm with IcePie here too. Bet it wouldn't take him long to want to join in.
Yeah - it's scary being the single femail, but maybe think about what "scares" you the most? You may find that a lot of those fears have already been bi-passed in your time here? I think you're really lucky to have a friend who at least knows what you're about. At least you have the safety of someone else at least knowing. And I'm with IcePie here too. Bet it wouldn't take him long to want to join in.
Hello
First off - just like to say that I am regretting the nick already. Feel very comfie in here and am looking forward to getting to know you all a bit better.
Still got loads of questions though!! I am doing a search before asking them but I may miss one that has been discssed previously - and I won't be offended if you just guide me over to the previous one.
So here'e my question:-
I'm new to "the scene". I'm a single woman. An out lesbian. Closet Bi (not I don't believe in doing things the conventional way!). And professional woman who deals with a lot of customers.
So I enjoy chatting on here and I'll get to know some of you - and maybe one day I'll go on a meet - or maybe a munch. So what happens if i walk into a room - and I find I've been chatting to someone I work with - or is a customer. Or vice versa - I walk into a meeting room one day to see one of you guys there? (Or worse - what if I find out one of you is that annoying account manager that I ignore everytime his name shows on my ringing phone
)
I think I could handle that if it turned out to be someone I had gotten to know very well on here - but you're not going to get to know everyone really well are you?
I think this is one of the things that holds me back at the moment.
Am I over worrying?
What do you guys think?
How would you react if I changed my Atavar to one with my face and you realised you knew me. What would you do?
Would appreciate your thoughts on this.
First off - just like to say that I am regretting the nick already. Feel very comfie in here and am looking forward to getting to know you all a bit better.
Still got loads of questions though!! I am doing a search before asking them but I may miss one that has been discssed previously - and I won't be offended if you just guide me over to the previous one
. So here'e my question:-
I'm new to "the scene". I'm a single woman. An out lesbian. Closet Bi (not I don't believe in doing things the conventional way!). And professional woman who deals with a lot of customers.
So I enjoy chatting on here and I'll get to know some of you - and maybe one day I'll go on a meet - or maybe a munch. So what happens if i walk into a room - and I find I've been chatting to someone I work with - or is a customer. Or vice versa - I walk into a meeting room one day to see one of you guys there? (Or worse - what if I find out one of you is that annoying account manager that I ignore everytime his name shows on my ringing phone
)I think I could handle that if it turned out to be someone I had gotten to know very well on here - but you're not going to get to know everyone really well are you?
I think this is one of the things that holds me back at the moment.
Am I over worrying?
What do you guys think?
How would you react if I changed my Atavar to one with my face and you realised you knew me. What would you do?
Would appreciate your thoughts on this.
