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sianddaisy
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sianddaisy
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Quote by da69ve
quote="simonnw"]
1) Tell free members their advert is worthless before they post it. They cant reply to full members and they cant see attached pics. So we have to con the system with disguised email addies. Just tell them they cant post until they are premium members.
Hope thats something your not admitting to has it breaks the AUP
Why not, it goes on all the time, you know as wel as i do smartie pants
3) Kill all adverts more than 2 weeks old. If they don’t up-date, they are not interested. Make it real, really interested swingers, not adverts from people that have not been in since 1927.
Why should ads be killed off after two weeks,there could be many reasons they are not updated.
nope, swinger you be, or swinger your not,, far too many pissed up wanna be guys at 2 in the morning suggesting that their wives are sleepin in bed dreading their hubby has said,, you do summit to my wife that I fantisise about but she would never entertain. I've been there and been conned. grow up
9) Ban willy pics from single men seeking anything, face or bum, make it civilised.
Well are you going to be the first then?
At last you have a few body pics of my worthless body,, and a willy pic for those that want. the point is a willy pic alone is patetic, ask a grl.
10) Advise everyone, that one persons perfection is another persons dogs dinner. My wife hubby etc is wonderful, is bollox, he/she is to you, they are a donkey to someone else.
Why can't people say what they want,to that person their wife/husband is wonderful.

We are all gloriously attractive,,, why moan on about it, one womans long cock is anothers sore cervix, grow up ffs. All the adds for big pricks are genereally written by men. Prat men, Read a real ladies advert. get a grip on your own cock and toss it off son. Yourn not good shag.
Have you ever shagged more thanone woman.
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Quote by Jas-Tim
Noooooooooooooo, not another call to ban willy pics. I like them.
Please leave them alone. :twisted:
I don't search the ads for meets so I can't comment on the changes for there but I can see your point about inactive ads being removed.
A couple of weeks might be a bit premature though. Last time I did advertise it was over a month before the event was due and I only updated it once I think during that time.
Parties and club meets are often arranged well in advance too, I think a longer period of inactivity before removal would be fairer.
Jas
XXX

I respect your view, thank you for your comments.
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Quote by couple_ne2000

2) Kick anyone (non-premium members) that hasn’t been online for 1 month, they are no longer interested, and they wont pay. It bulks up the numbers, but it doesn’t help active members searching.
I love the site, it’s a great site, lets make it better. I certainly don’t know it all, but my comments are only here to promote discussion and ultimately help the serious members.
Regards Simon

The problem with that idea, is that not every member has constant internet access. Kicking members after a months absence means we would lose the contributions of those who spend periods of time working abroad, travelling, and those who do not have home internet access, but manage to get online periodically.
Les x
fair comment,,
if you know you are overseas etc, delete your add, delete your profile and come back when you are avaliable, you are wasteing everybodies time if you are not avaliable.
If you are a premium member add not to your profile,,, not avaliable till 2009
how many defunct adds are out there, a huge amount. Look at them and the uggers not been in for 26 weeks, they aint bovvered,, boot them
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no probs with premium members, just loose the wannabies that advertise at 2 in the morning and never come back
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I’d like to make some suggestions regarding this site. I would also like to premise my comments with the fact that I think it’s a great site and I do very nicely from it ty very much.
1) Tell free members their advert is worthless before they post it. They cant reply to full members and they cant see attached pics. So we have to con the system with disguised email addies. Just tell them they cant post until they are premium members.
2) Kick anyone (non-premium members) that hasn’t been online for 1 month, they are no longer interested, and they wont pay. It bulks up the numbers, but it doesn’t help active members searching.
3) Kill all adverts more than 2 weeks old. If they don’t up-date, they are not interested. Make it real, really interested swingers, not adverts from people that have not been in since 1927.
4) Alter the search features on profiles, so we can “my search” people looking for couples or single males or single females or whatever. I do a search for S & M for example, and I get a huge list,,, many inactive for over 6 months, and many not wanting my group.
5) Smoking, simplify it ffs, you either mind smokers or you dont, but 5 catagories of smokers messes up any search. You either mind smoking or you don’t, but 5 qualifications reduces the search to a waste of time.
6) Personal one this, but applicable to any category,,,, allow a search for single men welcome,,, or bi-women welcome, or so straight in their advert and profile they are totally homophobic and would projectile vomit at the sight of same sex genitals. It so immature bos to say you are totally straight, and totally the he man, if you want another guy to shag your wife, you WILL see his willy.
7) Design the advert template to include age required, travel or accommodate, smoking or not, shaved nether regions or not, age required, gusset strength, how many tenner ladies needed on the drive to meet..
8) No point in letting free members advertse if they cant see our pics.
9) Ban willy pics from single men seeking anything, face or bum, make it civilised.
10) Advise everyone, that one persons perfection is another persons dogs dinner. My wife hubby etc is wonderful, is bollox, he/she is to you, they are a donkey to someone else.
I love the site, it’s a great site, lets make it better. I certainly don’t know it all, but my comments are only here to promote discussion and ultimately help the serious members.
Regards Simon
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Quote by Scumbellina
is it just me or is anyone else getting a message flashing but no mail in their box? confused:

Mine does that ocassionally, my legs quiver, I feel faint,
I summon up the courage to take a peek,
Then zilch sad and it's change underwear again time.
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Quote by Babe-n-a-biker
Not forgetting:
Travel Inn
Premier Travel Inn
Holiday Inn Express
Days Inn
Sleep Inn
They all look pretty much the same - as a friend of mine says ..."same room, different biscuits".

And Fuck Inn of course biggrin
Don't they offer spit-roasts in the beer garden sunday lunch times, I'm sure that's what the deceptionist was trying to say. but her mouth was full of bell boy at the time. :D
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Quote by cuddly-catlin
just a thought, and this is a bit of an open question. do you think men, women and couples back out at the last minute because they like the idea and not the reality? would like to hear views on this, could be quite intresting!

Hello, I am new to the forum but ot to the site.
I think the site is brilliant, it's changed my life so much for the better. I dont get lucky all the time, but I do get luky often enough and from time to time this can move into regular meetings, even better from my point of view
I think too many single men play like naughty little boys on the site. I' sure some pretend to be couples just to receive naughty pics etc. I am sure loads of men reply with no intention of ever actually meeting up, just a wind up. I'm sure some boys pretend to be single 18 year old nymphomaniac females, just to get a reaction.
Lots of free members place adverts, then add to their ad, please send pics, we will not reply without. Well, I don' think free members can see pics attached to emails. I'm sure that's very frustrating for them, but have they been informed, no pay no pics in emails, I don't know.
Adds over a month old on the system are frustrating, as are people that havn't been on the site for over 3 months, especially free members who have just given up. If you wor on the site, you soon learn who are regular swingers in yor area, who don't fancy you (and fair enough) and others who seem compatable.
If you read all the forum advise, and it doesn't take too long, follow that advise, work hard at it, then tis is a wonderful site that is very good for me. I havn't poted much in the forums, I don't attend munches, I don't travel, but I still have a good amount of fun from the site.
I apologise if I have framed this too much as a single man. Swinging is my hobby, and call me an old transpotter if you will, but I work at it, lots of reseach and then lots of effort into retention, ie, pting my new friends preferencebefore my own. Gawd hope that doesnt sound too clinical.
i'll shurrup now
Regards Simon
well put smile not the "i'll shurrup now" bit lol
biggrin :D :D :D :D
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http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/67211.html
Writing ads doesn work for me, replying to ads, works rather better.
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Biggest like, finding someone tastie in my stockings
Biggest hate, only finding a couple of stale nuts in my stockings
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Quote by marcus123
just a thought, and this is a bit of an open question. do you think men, women and couples back out at the last minute because they like the idea and not the reality? would like to hear views on this, could be quite intresting!

Hello, I am new to the forum but ot to the site.
I think the site is brilliant, it's changed my life so much for the better. I dont get lucky all the time, but I do get luky often enough and from time to time this can move into regular meetings, even better from my point of view
I think too many single men play like naughty little boys on the site. I' sure some pretend to be couples just to receive naughty pics etc. I am sure loads of men reply with no intention of ever actually meeting up, just a wind up. I'm sure some boys pretend to be single 18 year old nymphomaniac females, just to get a reaction.
Lots of free members place adverts, then add to their ad, please send pics, we will not reply without. Well, I don' think free members can see pics attached to emails. I'm sure that's very frustrating for them, but have they been informed, no pay no pics in emails, I don't know.
Adds over a month old on the system are frustrating, as are people that havn't been on the site for over 3 months, especially free members who have just given up. If you wor on the site, you soon learn who are regular swingers in yor area, who don't fancy you (and fair enough) and others who seem compatable.
If you read all the forum advise, and it doesn't take too long, follow that advise, work hard at it, then tis is a wonderful site that is very good for me. I havn't poted much in the forums, I don't attend munches, I don't travel, but I still have a good amount of fun from the site.
I apologise if I have framed this too much as a single man. Swinging is my hobby, and call me an old transpotter if you will, but I work at it, lots of reseach and then lots of effort into retention, ie, pting my new friends preferencebefore my own. Gawd hope that doesnt sound too clinical.
i'll shurrup now
Regards Simon
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Hello Everyone
We hope to get up to some nonsense this weekend, on Friday and Saturday chez nous, near Preston.
One session will be newbies, very gentle and caring and the other more seasoned ha ha.
S & S
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