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8 Feb 2006

Quote by jomu
He was probably a perfectly normal dogger.....just wanted to watch...if you don't like being watched, don't shag at a dogging site.
I should remind you that dogging is watching, most couples go out to have sex and be watched by others and don't want anyone to grope/fuck/suck them.

Hi Jomu
I take your point, however these guys we even less educated than me in the tactful art of dogging.
I understand the principles behind dogging and I am sure you agree that every couple has a different take on what doggin is to them. In this instance the guys were would come up to the car and asking what he was into and even after being told he was not interested and them walking away they still came back to the car to find out if he had changed his mind!!!
I can assure you that these guys were not at all interested in what was going on in the back, only in the 6.5 foot guy in the front!!!
I wish I could say that they were interested in me but alas lol they were not.
I have no problem being watched by men or women but I have to say that normally I am really relaxed but in this case it was a little unerving.
My play times are limited due to having a little boy so I have to pre arrange meets at locations to maximise time, but you are right perhaps I should chose quiter less know locations for my adventures.
I appreceiate your comments mate.
Dave

7 Feb 2006

Quote by youngcouplelondon/kent
hi, 18 f 23m. if u are under 28 if single m, or under 35 if a couple and can get out tonight pm us... if not don't reply... wait for our next post! thanks. s xx

Damn I always miss your posts by a few hours, oh well hope you guys had a good time. I will log on a bit earlier next time.
Dave

7 Feb 2006

Quote by KISSING K
uppy i know how you feel hun my husband has been apprached twice by gays while ive been sat next to him in the car the mind boggles,so the only advice i would ask them is i would ask please everyone no matter what you are looking for take your brains out with you. k+c

I quite agree. I had a similar experience whilst in the back of a car with a couple a few weeks aga locally in essex. The mind does bogal, why do they think it is ok to charge up to carrs waving their tool around like they are an extra in star wars!!!
It got so bad that the husband was that peed off with it all that we had to move to another location which cut down the play time.
This guy was bi and was thinking about getting involved but with a situation like that we could have been swamped, at least now I can really appreceiate how the ladies feel when swamped by loads of guys, allthough the attention is a confidence booster I can safely say thats it!!!!
Dave

23 Jan 2006

Quote by daisy saisy
Isn't petts wood better for day meets?
I am looking for something in the day and bickley is more a nightime bet option

Hey Daisy
I too am looking for daytime meets, Im in essex will travel for you!!! You name the place and time and I will be there.
Sorry to steal the thread guys, hey perhaps we should all meet up!!!!!
Dave

23 Jan 2006

Quote by Londcpl4meet
We are out and about this week during the day and were looking for fun with any bi cpls or cute singles ,possible dogging fun too,,mainly in the north or east london area
Any white van man out there that has a very clean van most welcome , as she likes the idea of been used in the back !!!
Londcplxxx

I have sent you pm guys, let me know if you fancy it.
Dave

23 Jan 2006

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
treat it like 'what's the time mister wolf'

:giggle:
That's actually bloody good advice!!!
And to pick up on Outlaws' comment on invitations, I should clarify that my comment about couples letting you know to come closer doesn't necessarily mean a verbal invitation as they rightly say wink

wink

That as got to be the best description I have ever heard and spot on advice!
We dont normally signal with lights or anything (well, not intentionally) but do let it known we are playing (possibly from the noise with the window being left slightly open) redface

redface

but if someone came straight over and stood by our car before we had started we would not play, if they waited till we had started, then great, watch all you like lol

lol

We also find it hard to start anything if the doggers come and talk to us before we are playing. Somehow it loses the anonymity and just does not feel right (another reason why we dont do pre-arranged meets). Dont mind sharing a few pleasantaries afterwards, but not before, it just does not feel right :lol:

23 Jan 2006

Quote by essex-couple
married couple looking 4 a sexy encounter on 23rd. please get back if interesed.

I have pm'd you guys, the time now is 13:35 on 23/01/2006. Hope i can help.
Dave

23 Jan 2006

Quote by essex-couple
sexy wife looking 4 some fun with a clean,young guy this 21 please south essex.

Hi Guys
Im under 28 if that helps and I am availiable this afternoon and I am in essex. Let me know if you dont find what your after. I have pm 'd you.
Dave

20 Jan 2006

Can anyone suggest how to arrange safe meets for singles to singles in essex area or indeed any area?
Dave

20 Jan 2006

Quote by 8thsinner
Sgt bilko, If I have trouble with people I will then PM a moderator.
You have a very good point.
As for the mixed messages I am sorry.
I am not intentionally suggesting that any one is sex mad, and likely to start shagging in the place.
The reason I said that the place will allow undressing. is....
I am trying to put across how open and comfortable the place is. It is not a sleezy place and I would be genuinely surprised if after going there people didn't go back because of that comfort level. And how nice the place actually is.
The reason I am trying to limit the types of people is probably two fold......
When we played in the fetish scene were got so sick of single guys, coming up in clubs and gropping my GF. So we avoided place with tons of single guys. For us that was extremely uncomfortable.
I am not suggesting that it happens in the swing side of things, I don't know what to expect yet.
I am trying to make sure the meet is comfortable.
Apart from the people who I said might be able to make it there are no women there at all.
And yes my partner and myself would like to meet more women,
But is there actually any point in 15 single guys who probably are looking for women going to a place to chat and relax with one couple?
This is my reasoning for limiting things to a certain number.
Is that the wrong attitude? I don't know.......
Oh almost forgot.
Serendipity
If you want to check out the place I am talking about why don't you join us there at the weekend. I think you would be surprised.
Or if you want the address I could PM it to you and you can check it out yourself. Having over fifteen hundred posts you probably know a hell of a lot more about this than I do.
But if you do decide to join us we can talk to the owners about the meet, and give the owners a more experienced opinion of what is what.
Just a thought.

Hi There
I have to say that I am little confused, I would love to come along and meet some guys, girls and couples etc but am I to think that I can now not come as I am a single guy from Essex?
I was really looking forward to having a drink and a laugh with likeminded people. I have to agree with fabio that I am still being excluded for being new and single. Please dont see this as a begging expression to come along but the initial post did seem to look really good for me and all the other single males who are new. However now looks like I am still at the back of the ever increasing queue.
Ok rant over, hope you have a great time guys and do post up how things went etc.
Dave

19 Jan 2006

Quote by essex-couple
wanted tonight for sexy fun ...must be under 21 and in or please cum

Hi Guys
Shame I missed the deadline!!!
I am free whenever you want me to be, always willing to help out a couple in need lol.
If you dont find what your looking for then please let get in touch.
Dave

19 Jan 2006

Quote by 8thsinner
As relative newbies to the swing scene and having met no one on the forum yet who can verify us, Is it possible to meet someone just for a drink/lunch or even a coffee, We know a great little coffee place in convent garden.
We are in north london but would prefer to meet in central london preferably some weekend or tuesday,
Mornings may be possible other days.
We would be perfectly happy to try and organise something like a small meet but with more than one or two attendees, but here are a few problems I see
Newbs usually aren't highly regarded in any forum until they have proven themselves.
So who is realistically going to show up? Besides we wouldn't have the first clue on how to go about it, and yes I know there is a guide to it but there is surely an awful lot of info which only going to a munch can offer.
At the same time newbs aren't invited to larger munches until they have been proven.
Isn't this a catch 22? We think so.
We have allready met ppl but were informed through PM by a mod that it must be somone on the forum who is also known.
So please anyone preferably a CPL with Bi fem, cause we might like to take it further as a group.
We are very nice people and young, intelligent etc. And basically good company
So please don't hold the newb thing against us, and help us to get to more of you.
For anyone who chooses to meet and verify us thank you.

Hi Guys have sent you PM and I too think its a great idea, for a social and a good laugh.
Dave

19 Jan 2006

Quote by P1p38
Hi all,
yes, yet another newbie.
Just learning how to use the site to its full potential.
Advise gladly received on how to use the site to the max.
Living in South Wales so if anyone interested in meeting up please get in touch! Yes someone has to live here!!
looking forward to hearing from you all,
Pip.
x

Hi There
I too am a newbie, this site is great mate and all peeps that I have spoken with have been really helpful and really very nice. As mentioned adhere to the rules and all will be well. I hope you get on ok and have some great experiences.
Dave

13 Jan 2006

Quote by bigfella010
i have been there quite a few times and had my first and only experience so far , i was parked next to a car with a couple in , she was giving him a bj and they had window open , at the time i was a bit unsure what to do i so wanted to get out of car and stand by window but did not want to break any rules so i sat and watched , they carried on for a while and did not seem to mind me watching , i really regret not getting out of car ! should i have got out or did i do the "right thing " and just watch from my car ?

Hi Big fella
Sounds to me like they did want you to get out and have a good look as the window was open, however you probably did the right thing mate. I can never get it right does the window open mean come close or are they just hot!!!!!

6 Jan 2006

Quote by cheekyfun1975
Hi I'm new to Swinging Heaven, recently back single and was wondering if there are any couples or females around in the Essex area tonight for some fun . I know this may be a little presumptuous and I'm sure you are already fixed up for this evening. But thought I'd ask on the off chance. Let me know if you want some more info about myself. Have a good weekend everyone. Jake.

Hi Jake
Im dave also from essex.
I am still to have my first dogging experience mate, im straight and hopeful lol.
Perhaps we could chat because there is a couple that I have been talking with that want a few guys to have some hotel fun with. Not tonight though mate (i should be so lucky lol) let me know what you think.
Dave
and good luck on your search

4 Jan 2006

Quote by younghrnycple04
No but we are out on the 4 and 5th of jan at romford, anyone wanna join us?

Hi Guys
I would love to join you guys at the venue but what time are you guys getting there?
Count me in, if all arrive then there should be plenty of fun to be had and a great eveneing for all.
Drop me a line for the time please guys
Dave

4 Jan 2006

Quote by anna_steve_essex
Hi,
Any single guys or couples going out tonight in the Essex & surrounding areas? We're looking for some New Year fun out tonight.
PM us if you know any good locations where we could meet.
Anna & Steve
x

Hi Guys
I know a few good places in and around essex so guys if you two are still looking for a meet, we could meet tonight if you fancy it.
Let me know guys I caqn send you pics if you need, there is a pic on my profile.
Hope to hear from you soon
Dave