Well said Woohoo. Tiny and I met on here and have been together over 16 years.
I love chatting and join the bigger rooms, however even when i join the chat and comment, as we aren't on here weekly, let alone nightly and don't get to many socials, our involvement peters out quickly.
I prefer rooms where you can't post pictures, so a conversation can get going, but admit I join the picture rooms and post pics, so I can get a response and start a genuine conversation. I don't fish for compliments, I know my boobs are amazing, so aren't looking to be told so, just use the pics to start a conversation.
Unfortunately for every person who I chat with in the room, I get five private messages and rarely does anyone ask to whisper. Then the private chats take over and I stop chatting in the rooms.