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tinytimmy
1 week ago
Bisexual Male, 62
Bi-curious Female, 55
0 miles · Northamptonshire
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We enjoy MMF threesomes, however although I as the fem seem to end up in charge, we meet bi men for the guys to have bi fun and that is the main part of our play on these occasions.
We only soft swap so the guy knows he won't get penetration with me, however we usually start with the two guys playing with each other and I assist as I choose and then whilst they recover from their exertions, I get the attention of both of them which is great.
Then it just continues as a tangle of bodies with us all touching whatever we can reach until we are all knackered and very happy.
Two couples playing also works the same way for us.
Good Luck and let the fun begin x x
We only soft swap so the guy knows he won't get penetration with me, however we usually start with the two guys playing with each other and I assist as I choose and then whilst they recover from their exertions, I get the attention of both of them which is great.
Then it just continues as a tangle of bodies with us all touching whatever we can reach until we are all knackered and very happy.
Two couples playing also works the same way for us.
Good Luck and let the fun begin x x
If those asking about socials are going to the same social, maybe you could meet in a pub before, so you can arrive together and not feel alone.
Everyone says socials are friendly, however at our first we tried to chat to people but found it very cliquey and even people we had chatted with in rooms only wanted to sit, chat and eat with people they had met before.
We went to the same area social a second time as first impressions can be wrong, however we found it much the same and only enjoyed it because we talked to a nervous couple who were alone and looked like they were about to leave after less than an hour and as we all got on really well, we all stayed longer and had a good laugh, but again hardly anyone else spoke to us, even when we started a conversation.
Good Luck
Everyone says socials are friendly, however at our first we tried to chat to people but found it very cliquey and even people we had chatted with in rooms only wanted to sit, chat and eat with people they had met before.
We went to the same area social a second time as first impressions can be wrong, however we found it much the same and only enjoyed it because we talked to a nervous couple who were alone and looked like they were about to leave after less than an hour and as we all got on really well, we all stayed longer and had a good laugh, but again hardly anyone else spoke to us, even when we started a conversation.
Good Luck
Well said pebble.
From my point of view as the fem half of a long term couple but not actually married, the best bit is that it reminds me of how great my love life is with my partner. The guys pleasuring me do their best but they are never as good as tiny, This maybe due to lack of an emotional connection with playmates or that tiny knows my body so well and how to stimulate it that I am guaranteed a pleasurable time or most likely a bit of both.
From my point of view as the fem half of a long term couple but not actually married, the best bit is that it reminds me of how great my love life is with my partner. The guys pleasuring me do their best but they are never as good as tiny, This maybe due to lack of an emotional connection with playmates or that tiny knows my body so well and how to stimulate it that I am guaranteed a pleasurable time or most likely a bit of both.
Hi, Unfortunately we can't make it tomorrow or we would have met you for a drink and shown you around, we are going Monday.
It isn't the smartest club around, but it is relaxed and friendly and not clicky. The bar area is large with lots of seating which encourages chat with others. The seats at the top of the first flight of stairs are great for people watching and getting your bearings. The fun doesn't really get going until about 10pm, until then it is just lots of chat and some play in the smaller areas like the cinema.
At chams, you can just stay in the bar, wander round, just watch, chat, play between yourselves or join in with others. Rarely been hassled there and no means NO, so it is easy to put the over keen off.
Have fun and as Toots says, please tell us how it goes.
T and J xx
It isn't the smartest club around, but it is relaxed and friendly and not clicky. The bar area is large with lots of seating which encourages chat with others. The seats at the top of the first flight of stairs are great for people watching and getting your bearings. The fun doesn't really get going until about 10pm, until then it is just lots of chat and some play in the smaller areas like the cinema.
At chams, you can just stay in the bar, wander round, just watch, chat, play between yourselves or join in with others. Rarely been hassled there and no means NO, so it is easy to put the over keen off.
Have fun and as Toots says, please tell us how it goes.
T and J xx
Hi and welcome to SH,
Its difficult to know how to answer your post as you don't ask any actual questions and most of the info we can give you is on Chams website.
We have found it to be a good club, where as you go straight to the changing rooms and change into underwear or towels before having a drink and wandering round, it feels more relaxed as everyone is dressed much the same.
The main etiquette point is no means NO and there is not any debate on this.
There are several different social areas, several public areas to play, including two large hot tubs and some private rooms.
The main downside we have found is that it gets very hot at all times of the year, they have heating but not aircon.
Let us know if there is anything else you would like to know.
Have fun, keep safe and hope to chat when the chat rooms are up and running again, its a great way to get an into into the site and lifestyle.
T and J xx
Its difficult to know how to answer your post as you don't ask any actual questions and most of the info we can give you is on Chams website.
We have found it to be a good club, where as you go straight to the changing rooms and change into underwear or towels before having a drink and wandering round, it feels more relaxed as everyone is dressed much the same.
The main etiquette point is no means NO and there is not any debate on this.
There are several different social areas, several public areas to play, including two large hot tubs and some private rooms.
The main downside we have found is that it gets very hot at all times of the year, they have heating but not aircon.
Let us know if there is anything else you would like to know.
Have fun, keep safe and hope to chat when the chat rooms are up and running again, its a great way to get an into into the site and lifestyle.
T and J xx
Hi, We love trips to chams, however there is no air conditioning in any of the playrooms or the bar and it does get far to warm in the summer and winter months. They do open windows in the summer but as room doors are usually shut there is no air circulation. They also have a roof terrace which in nice weather is great to lay naked on the beds and cool off, but then it just feels hotter once you go back in.
