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I'am always putting my mobile phone in the recess of the dashboard of my car(just by the speedo and tachometer) and on deciding I need it i put my hand through the steering wheel to get it, this is normally just after I've turned a corner and the wheel is returning to its central position arhhhhhhhhhh :shock: . I've being do this for years, you'd think I'd learnt by now. Proberly take me to end up in a ditch before it finally sinks in!!!!!! redface
I think we get worse as we get older!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
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No don't go!!!!! Just look at the below and you will actullay understand it!!!!!!! Mad or what.
Just had to share this with you guy's.
:shock: I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdgnieg. The
phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid aoccdrnig to rscheearch at Cmabrigde
Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the
olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit
pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a
porbelm. :shock:
Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but
the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh?
Ain't we just amazing????
best wishes
Tomx
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Not exactly a chat up line I know but I once had a girl and her friend sing to me (Live on karaoke) that Carpenters tune "On the day you were born the angels got together, they decided to create a dream come true" I was slightly crimson to say the least. redface
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Yeah Steph could well be right, sorry to throw so many answers. Some say I love to confuss biggrin hope you sort is xxxx
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further input to my last comments, It could be bloody spyware effecting you machine, in this case they are many "Spyware eliminaters" about to download free. One of these being Noadware. Type into any search engine to be directed. (sorry mods if I have mentioned a product's name, not sure if thats allowed confused )
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Lots of very wise comments... It does sound like you're someone for whom sex and love come as a package.
The only question I'd have is does your wife feel the same? It may be she's quite happy to have love without sex, in which case all your efforts to set the right mood may fail. Is she someone who enjoys physical contact (e.g. hugs) or would she rather have you just as a friend?
Whatever happens, don't beat yourself up about it. No-one could accuse you of not caring.
Reply: Thanks dude, very kind words. Biggest problem my wife has is that stress gets her down big time. She say's that sex is the last thing on her mind and she prefers *hugs* Which I can do, just miss sex being on "Tap" I'm hoping things will turn out right in the end. Once again thanks guy
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My AVG Free Anti Virus won't initialize.
The problem started about a week ago when it refused to download updates. I uninstalled it and re-downloaded it off the internet. It was up to date at the time but subsequently still won't download updates.
Now everytime I boot my laptop I get a message window pops up which says "Could not initialize AVG Anti Virus kernel interface. Application cannot run".
Also I've found that the desktop shortcut will not open AVG when I double click on it (nothing happens).
Has anyone got any idea what the problem is?
Thanks.
ES
Reply: Did your free avg program come with your Laptop as a bundle? If so how long ago? if it was more than 12 months ago it sounds like you "Free subcription" has ended hence you being unable to download updates from the server. My advise is to either buy a new anti virus disk or if you want to be really sneaky re registar your avg with different user details(i.e different e-mail add and name for instance) this will give you another years use. :twisted: wink
hope this helps
Tx
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34fun Posted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 8:06 pm Post subject:
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the last 3 years with my ex wife were hell. i know she had pleasure out of it but i was just thinking of a lovely girl in work.... it was all that kept me going.
so all i can suggest to you is if you can't spice it up yourself maybe your with the wrong woman..
yes I agree, I'am going to try to spice things up(hopefully) and maybe things could work , maybe they won't, goto give it a whirl. Just hard to focus sometimes on more than the sex!!!!!(Although very important it is :twisted: ) thanks
was in exactly the same posistion, not getting enough at home. Months would pass and I would become more and more angry. I tried everything candle lit dinners, going out driving the lot. When your wife scowls everytime you try to touch her enough is enough. I told her if I couldnt get it at home I woud get it else where to which she said fair enough.
Thats now what I do. I dont tell her I just go out. She knows but I dont make a big thing about it. So i live with a woman that I love but only have sex with when she feels she wants to (every two months if I am lucky) and then its poor just going through the motions. I dont ask her if she would like to cause theres always a reason not to. I cant remeber the last time I had a BJ from her or anything except straight missionary.
I think I am lucky I live with an understanding woman who is just not interested in sex unless it suits her. I could not live with my wife if I couldnt play about. I would have been so frustrated and angry all the time it would be no good for either of us or the kids. Yes we have kids it used to be different. Best of luck with your decision I know what your going through.
Yes you are very lucky, I know my partner would be devestated if she got even a wiff of me having sex with anyone but her. This is whats made it so hard to lead a double life. The guilt just cripples me!!!!!! As some-one said earlier in this thread that if you really care for some one you do not cheat. His right because if your anything like me your dick won't let you, (if you know what I mean redface Oh Mr floppy there you are!!!!!)
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{{{ HUGS }}} so sorry to hear of your loss.
Will say a prayer for you tonight at mass.
xxxx tom
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we all need humour blue!!! biggrin and at the moment, I for one need a extra large helping!!!!!!!! :D :D
best wishes
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Happy Birthday wild rose
hope you have a cracking day.
Txxx biggrin :D :D
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biggrin Once again guys thank you. And staggy I do love her alot just lost my way alittle and lost touch of whats important, thank you for your input.
bye for now guys hope maybe to see you in the future, hopefully as a "playing couple" wink xxxxxxxxxxx
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thanks Alex, your right its about the little things. Just feel a little silly that its taken looking like a twerp to make me realise what I have being missing out on with the one that I love.
thanks guys smile
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thanks FB
I knew people were going to tell me what I already know but I suppose that is why I posted. Just to be told for a second time. Sometimes the voice in your head is not quite enough to get the message through, it take another person to say what the F*** are you playing at.
and thanks vix
xxx it has been hard to say that I've been wrong, but on the positive side, I've experienced some great thing and met some great people xxx
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Hi everyone
Will try not to make this sound like a "dear Deidree" But really could do with some good sound advice.
I'm a 30-year-old guy in a relationship with a girl( for the past 5 years, I’ve whom I love a great deal). Problem is that she is not the most interesting person to sleep with. I have suggested on more than on occasion that we perhaps try swinging. Not with another "Girl" but maybe another guy. After many discussions, she has decided that she is a One man girl and that’s the end of that.
Now over the years sex has kind of dwindled to less than once a week and become mundane to say the least rolleyes so I have increasingly become more frustrated and the thoughts of "swinging" has increased the need for cold showers nine fold.
So about a year ago I started dogging after reading a newspaper article. The first few experiences went extremely well as I felt maybe because I was "missing out at home" I deserved to be getting it elsewhere. After a while I progressed to swinging clubs and really enjoyed the sexy feeling I got.
Now getting a "Hard on" with my partner has never been a problem but the last few visits to a said swinging club in Darleston have been quite literally been a "Flop" Last night being one. I just could not believe it!!! I was just sat there in a video room watching a porno and the sexiest girl came over to me and said " Can I play with you” and promptly started to suck my cock. While this is going on I started to think about my partner and wondering what she’s doing for tea and MY God my cocks not getting hard !!!!!! Shit my cocks really not getting hard!!!!!! Oh please cock get hard!!!!!! All these pleads fell on deaf ears redface and I had to say enough’s enough and promptly left a slightly bemused sexy girl and her boyfriend to wonder what they had done to upset me.
Now I'm beginning to think this swinging caper is just not for me and that I have let Fantasy take over into reality and that I better leave well alone. Is there anybody else that can relate to this story??? I would be really nice to here from you all. I know there is properly a lot of people who just say "you should not be cheating on your missus" to these people I totally agree with you but sometimes when us guys get the horn its pretty difficult to ignore the "old Chap" :twisted:
Anyway thanks again wink
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