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zimwolf
Over 90 days ago
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This might be silly and of no use at all but as we are all throwing ideas in, here goes. Have you checked his privacy settings, if hes had a funny bug get in and change any internet settings then maybe its changed his privacy and wont let him sign on because of the adult content.
Hope thats of a little use
Zimee
Hope thats of a little use
Zimee
Quote by lucyuktv2
I'd imagine that most of the people with a full purple bar <<<over there<<< are probably not timewasters, whereas people with a single (short) post, and no info in the profile, no website etc etc possibly are. best way is to get to know people first, that way, if they are a timewaster, then they've spent an awful lot of time building up to it
I was just reading the above post and you reckon that people that have a full blue bar are probably not time wasters, I would have to disagree. The blue bar generally shows how much you post and contribut to the forum, I will be honest with you, there are so many people spaming these forums with absolute crap that their little blue bar will fill up. I wish people wouldnt spam its bloody annoying.
The only way I recken you can weed the timewasters grom the genuine folk is by actually organising meets and seeing who turns up. I think it would be cool to have a link where people can post after a meet, they can post wether it was a waste of time or not. No need for all the gory details, maybe just something to the tune of "We met so and so on Saturday night, had drinks really got on well and fun was had by all" etc. That way peeps know whos a sure thing and who isnt. Nothing necessarily has to have happened as when people meet they might feel that it isnt for them.
I hope that this has been of some use.
Cheers
zim
Hey all its been months since I've been here but its good to be back and see everyone is still around.
Well regarding timewasters, I have always thought that some of the real swingers that have met and do get together should set up a private web site with a list of their names and contact details. Then if someone is really keen to meet they can make it known and, after the meet they can be added to the list. The list can also hold a list of people that are known timewasters so that new people joining the list can get an idea who is serious out there and who isnt.
Just a thought.
zimwolf
Well regarding timewasters, I have always thought that some of the real swingers that have met and do get together should set up a private web site with a list of their names and contact details. Then if someone is really keen to meet they can make it known and, after the meet they can be added to the list. The list can also hold a list of people that are known timewasters so that new people joining the list can get an idea who is serious out there and who isnt.
Just a thought.
zimwolf
Mrs and I have dabled with photography for a while (not the kind you lot are thinking of) did a city and guilds course a while ago. I did get to shoot my sister in law once but it was very rushed and I dont think I did a great job, although wouldnt mind the oppertunity to shoot someone again under better conditions. I prefere black and white shadowy low light pics that just show enough but not too much.
WOLF :taz:
WOLF :taz:
Quote by DreamerHelen
I just had to say something about this one.....
Who defines who is Ugly? I'm just curious because some might say I'm ugly but yet I have had people say that I'm the sexiest woman that they've ever met......so I guess it all depends on who is looking at you.....
My thoughts exactly. I have always felt that I was ugly, but my better half says I'm not and we've been married 11 years so.... Beuty is in the eye of the beholder.
zim :taz:
After reading the thread and then trying to find adult cinemas in London and finding how impossible it is (who said everything is listed on the net), I started to think this could be a good business to go into. There is a cinema here in Croydon that has been closed down for a few months now that could be worth opening. Just a pipe dream I suppose. I would have thought that you guys out there would have evenings where you all go round to someones house and load up the DVD's turn off the lights and hey presto, let nature take its course.
zim
zim
Quote by gilbert
God he is worried after only 16 posts
I am now tearing my hair out!!!!
shit that explains the lack of hirsuteness!!!
Gilbert
Well Gilbert old bud old pal, It helps to learn these tricks now so that when I get 210 like you, I will know where to look to find out what I have said.
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Trying to make an interesting topic for a change, I slept on this one last night, and thought maybe not to post, and then thought why not? Not a dig to anyone, but just to clarify what the mind sees PRIOR to the eye...is it that important in the end?
Before the days of the internet and instant pictures, we had newspaper meets and phonecalls. I pondered on this today because something a friend said yesterday? I think we talk to someone, and get to know them and then it becomes a really interesting two way thing. Talking to the person makes the imagination flow? We wonder what they look like, and sometimes the voice is so very alluring, and we look forward to the meet. However I would like to ask IF you thought from a pm chat AND many laughs on the forum, with NO picture to pass on, would you meet someone and decide that they were NOT for you just by the looks alone? I think if you have gone to the trouble to talk and meet, then to refuse on a sight thing is a little bit sad? I am NOT on about someone who says they are slim and turn out to be HUGE, or someone who says they are well dressed, and turn up like the tramp off the street, but someone YOU really wanted to sleep with before you met? I am talking too about someone who was honest and up front with you from the offset? What many forget is when you talk on here via pm, you talk to the inner person, the one who is keen to screw your brains out, the flirt, the really hot person with few inhibitions. Sometimes the voice is so cool, sexy and makes the hairs on the neck tingle with anticipation, so where then does the meet break down?
I have not had this situation before but know of a few who have been rebuffed after some time talking and after the picture...zilch! I have sent a couple out to those who I class as friends and I do not fit into their categories, just to show WHO I am, and have had nice comments back, but I know some are really hurt by this form of neglect? Would the blind person reject the person who they liked because they were told she/he was ugly?
I think many of you will agree that we are all the same in the dark, but it is FINE to say no if you find them not your type, but just on looks when everything else clicks to me seems a little bit harsh? I sometimes fail to understand people and thought to ask if anyone had EVER been down this path before?
WOW, I thought those were real strong words and they have such meaning. I have a hell of a complex about my size and therefore have always been waery of advertising or really making contact. I fear meeting someone or some people and being turned away. I dont think I would ever turn someone away or change my mind after all the PM's and calls ETC. If I ran an add and someone came to meet me and had lied about questions I asked then it would be a different story, and the only thing that I would request in the add that I wouldnt want to go with a smoker (no offence ment to smokers, I have since a child never been able to kiss a smoker, and I love to kiss).
But thats just my opinion.
zim :taz:
Quote by Jethro
Looking through the photo ads and seeing peoples likes and dislikes I regularly see references to watersports. Living sheltered lives as we do in Somerset I'm intrigued to know what this means ! I assume it's nothing to do with "Muff Diving", but is it the fetish of urinating over each other? Can you experts up North advise ?
Now what about female ejaculation, where does that fit in ?
This amazing experience could be confused with urinating when it happens for the first time which is really sad for those ladies who orgasm like this and hold back in fear off offending and for the guys who might be put off due to ignorance thus missing out on the experience. Any comments from you sexperts out there on this subject?
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Well heres my five cents, I think all unto their own when it comes down to fetishes, we all have at least one, I'm sure. About the female ejeculation, well I read the web link and I personally think its amazing. I would love to meet a woman that ejeculates or gushes or whatever you want to call it. I dont think woman who gush have anything to be ashamed of, infact the total oppasite, I think its something to be proud of.
Oh well thats my bit.
zim :taz:
My favourite experience was the very first one mrs wolf and I had. It was a 3 sum with a girl from her work. We were just married, I was 20 and Mrs was 19 and Georgie Mrs friend was about 24. Goergie had been married and had a messy divorce, she met another married woman, Lorraine who was also going through a bad marriage, and togethere they decided girls were better than guys and they got together. Anyway, Goergie took a liking to Mrs (This was before we new she was Les).
One day at lunch Goergie asked Mrs what she felt about lesbians, Mrs told her she was pretty open and never really thought of it. Then Goergie told her she was a les and she liked Mrs, from that day they hit it off. They never actually did anything but the Mrs would wear reall short skirts and tease Georgie.
The Christmas party came up and Georgie asked if she could crash at our house as we were close to the restruant where the party was to be held. The night came and we all had a bit to drink. After the party we went home, we lived in a small one bedroom flat. We had a spare bed in the living room as we didnt have much furniture. Mrs said to Georgie that she could sleep in the lounge and then joked,"unless you would rather sleep with us?" You can imagine the surprise when she turned to us and said she would rather sleep with us. We made our way to the room and got into bed. It was Goergie, Mrs and then me. I had a pair of shorts on and they were in nighties. After a while I heard Mrs and Goergie start making out, I thought I was going to be left out but then Goergie turned to me and said, "well are you going to just lie there or join in, now lets get those shorts off". I remember it like it was yesterday. It was an absolutly fabulous night but unfortunatly only ever happened once.
WOLF :taz:
P.S. I am not writing too much am I??
One day at lunch Goergie asked Mrs what she felt about lesbians, Mrs told her she was pretty open and never really thought of it. Then Goergie told her she was a les and she liked Mrs, from that day they hit it off. They never actually did anything but the Mrs would wear reall short skirts and tease Georgie.
The Christmas party came up and Georgie asked if she could crash at our house as we were close to the restruant where the party was to be held. The night came and we all had a bit to drink. After the party we went home, we lived in a small one bedroom flat. We had a spare bed in the living room as we didnt have much furniture. Mrs said to Georgie that she could sleep in the lounge and then joked,"unless you would rather sleep with us?" You can imagine the surprise when she turned to us and said she would rather sleep with us. We made our way to the room and got into bed. It was Goergie, Mrs and then me. I had a pair of shorts on and they were in nighties. After a while I heard Mrs and Goergie start making out, I thought I was going to be left out but then Goergie turned to me and said, "well are you going to just lie there or join in, now lets get those shorts off". I remember it like it was yesterday. It was an absolutly fabulous night but unfortunatly only ever happened once.
WOLF :taz:
P.S. I am not writing too much am I??
Well here gos:
1. To lose weight and be back to where I was 11 years ago when I married, (Got a bit of a complex you know)
2. To have enough money to never have to work again.
3. For my wife and I to have a relationship with another couple or so where we are reall great friends aswell as lovers.
4. To be happy.
Well thats all a bit soppy but true.
WOLF
1. To lose weight and be back to where I was 11 years ago when I married, (Got a bit of a complex you know)
2. To have enough money to never have to work again.
3. For my wife and I to have a relationship with another couple or so where we are reall great friends aswell as lovers.
4. To be happy.
Well thats all a bit soppy but true.
WOLF
Hey all,
Well believe it or not I started to reply to this thread this morning and as I got to the end of the story I lost it
, so here gos again.
Our first swinging experience, we came to the UK in 1997 on a 2 year working holiday from Zimbabwe, there isnt a swinging scene there so we were like reall green. We signed up on AOL and spent alot of time in the chatrooms where we got our first exposure to the scene. After a while we met a lady on line and she was great, her partner never really seemed to come online. One day she figured that we werent from UK and asked if she could call and chat as she loved the South African accent. I sent her our phone number but thought that we would never hear from her. At that point I still thought that the swinging scene was a joke and that no one really made contact, all talk you know what I much to my amazement she colled 5 mins later and we chatted. She asked if we had ever been to Bristol and Bath, thats where they were. I said no and she said we should come spend the week end, she chatted to Mrs B for a bit and they made arrangements to go down the next week end.
Well the next week end we took the coach to Bath and her hubby collected us from the terminal. We got to the house and chatted and got to know each other a little better and then that night after the kids had gone to bed we sat with the lights turned down chatting and drinking wine. Next thing my mrs and our new friends were snogging and gropping and I sat there like an idiot still not getting the message. After a bit they moved over to me and started on me. I couldnt believe it, I was in heaven. We spent a few week ends together.
It was great but then we went back to Zim and by the time we came back circumstances had changed. We never had the chance to do it again as My mrs sort of fell out of the scene but recently she has started showing more interest so I am holding thumbs.
Anyway that our story I do hope I havnt bored you all to death.
Zim :taz:
Well believe it or not I started to reply to this thread this morning and as I got to the end of the story I lost it
, so here gos again. Our first swinging experience, we came to the UK in 1997 on a 2 year working holiday from Zimbabwe, there isnt a swinging scene there so we were like reall green. We signed up on AOL and spent alot of time in the chatrooms where we got our first exposure to the scene. After a while we met a lady on line and she was great, her partner never really seemed to come online. One day she figured that we werent from UK and asked if she could call and chat as she loved the South African accent. I sent her our phone number but thought that we would never hear from her. At that point I still thought that the swinging scene was a joke and that no one really made contact, all talk you know what I much to my amazement she colled 5 mins later and we chatted. She asked if we had ever been to Bristol and Bath, thats where they were. I said no and she said we should come spend the week end, she chatted to Mrs B for a bit and they made arrangements to go down the next week end.
Well the next week end we took the coach to Bath and her hubby collected us from the terminal. We got to the house and chatted and got to know each other a little better and then that night after the kids had gone to bed we sat with the lights turned down chatting and drinking wine. Next thing my mrs and our new friends were snogging and gropping and I sat there like an idiot still not getting the message. After a bit they moved over to me and started on me. I couldnt believe it, I was in heaven. We spent a few week ends together.
It was great but then we went back to Zim and by the time we came back circumstances had changed. We never had the chance to do it again as My mrs sort of fell out of the scene but recently she has started showing more interest so I am holding thumbs.
Anyway that our story I do hope I havnt bored you all to death.
Zim :taz:
