Wa advertise a dogging meet we get over 30 replys we get in touch with 6 peolple who interest us then we send them messeges with location and time and all we ask is can you ring or txt to say ure going to be there they all do then only 1 turns up
Why do peolple send several messeges gagging to meet you then when they get the details they carnt be arsed to show up or even ring or txt to say there not going to come wife is starting to think its here
It's the story of this site (and others). I don't understand why people do it either. I have done a few meets but whenever something has happened at the last minute and I've not been able to make it I always text or phone to let people know. It's just common courtesy. There are a lot of timewasters on here unfortunately.
It is simply a case of people being bloody rude. No reason they cannot get a message to you if they are not going to show.
I'd name and shame them!
Steve
hi i,ve had the same problem with a woman were i live n she wanted me to pick her up in the truck and drive round town with her doing things to me but i tryed to tell her i can't just drive around town cos ppl will be asking why is that truck still driving round town and with the weight limits were she live's she couldn't undrestand that a truck can't just drive anywere like a car can she just took the p**s so it's everywere mate i,ve been on here about 2yrs now n still trying 2 break my duck may be 1 day that will come.....................................
Now here is a suggestion :idea: ......the peeps that initiate a thread could end it with a paragraph on how the meet went. We will al be able to spot the time wasters if this was done.
we have met 1 or 2 that have showed up.
there always single guys or couples.
guys that are married but there wife
"doesn't understand me"
are frustrated and looking for an outlet but when it hits the tissue the adrenaline disappears they bottle out until the next time there balls are full.
the best way to get good doggers is to go out to a site and talk to them. you will soon work out whos good or bad. A good start is
dressed in dark cloths,
clean looking ,
smell clean ,
have there own tissues & condoms ,
and dont run up to the car as soon as you have stopped
or dive through the window as you open it.
then ask the good one to bring some mates.
doggers on here are 7/10th's wanabes & dreamers
Oh, the ones with photos are just as bad, trust me! We often advertise on here and get literally hundreds of replies, but to date (around 4years on this site) we have only met 8 people. We once invited and confirmed 70 men (would have been a problem if they had showed up) to a gangbang. We arranged it over a couple of weeks, exchanged all sorts of emails and details.....as we say, 70 positivly confirmed.......NONE turned up!
No....now you're being silly......Swinging heaven has scared off the last of the straight guys!.....Most of them were probably bi but they CLAIM to be straight to make the "appointment" but then don't show!
On this site I bet if my (male) partner wore a dress and advertised for a gangbang they would all turn up!
When they do the next re-vamp of the site they could call it GayBiCdTv Heaven but then it doesn't really trip off the tounge (no pun intended) does it?
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sounds about right for the scene in the last few years it seems swinging has become fasionable and too easy to find so on the most the pple on websites in general esp free ones arnt really swingers they just want to be associated with it cos id seen to be cool crowd lol plus ther is allot that bottle at the last ming that really genuinly want to do it but lose ther nerve at the last minite btw if ur ever up neer yorkshire pls let us know xxxx
maybe a chat over phone would help before meet and stress the importance of letting people know if it a no show ??? would love the chance to turn up ...never been invited .. i know my age may be against me but the older guys would prob turn up ..abeit well wrapped up in this weather lol myself is in favour of naming and shaming .. will never happen though .. 70 meets and no show now that is taking the p**s , just goes to show how many time wasters are on here .
Being a guy, I can't answer fir the ones that don't show. (as I have never arranged to meet another guy). But this that do waste couples time ruin it for the rest of us. I have had a limited number of meets but have always shown....even if just social initially as no one should be scared to say no if they don't click, but without at least meeting you will never know. It gets frustrating when couples won't meet u becouse of previous time wasters. Surely tho, careful selection and telephone/cam chats are the key? Maybe I am naive but surely it's possible to spot a timewaster by their interaction skills over the phone ? Yes, I agree it won't tell you much about their size or stamina....but at least they will turn up when they say and so not be a total waste of evening. (please don't get me wrong...I have no problem with my own size or stamina!!). It will also tell you a lot about the "single" guys who then find they can't get away from their wives.
I have had a number of occasions where I have had my time wasted by a couple, but won't moan or name and shame as I believe the couples (and single fems) on here have the right to be picky and as a single guy consider myself extremely luckky if one in 10 meets actually materializes, they are the nights worth remembering.
I arranged to meet a couple a few weeks ago, and after travelling two hours to theirs had a text that she had come on early...I didn't whinge or call them timewasters but instead offered to meet them for a coffee and a chat.....a few weeks later was rewarded with the most mindblowing night (u know who u are M&j). I guess what I am trying to say is, persevere, be honest and the genuine ones will win through.
Oh, and forgot to say,, even before the new function is introduced. How about couples using the "quickee" message function to let a guy know that their efforts in turning up were appreciated? Again, it's not fool proof but will help.
You should stop doing what you are doing and try dogging. If you go dogging instead of what you are doing the doggers are usually there already.
Interesting comments here. We regularly organise to meet guys and never once have we been stood up. We have contacted at least two people on here who are moaning - and they never even responded, not so much as a sorry - not interested - so make up your own minds. We have a simple rule - we chat with them on msn first - often cam a bit to ensure all is genuine - and then ALWAYS have fun when we meet. We find it is often the couples who think that they can just pick and choose who are unrelaible.
Like i said, instead of doing that .....try dogging
Hi all, I have never had a problem with dogging. As I am married I can only meet in the daytime but every single and couple that I have arranged to meet with has turned up. Maybe I am just lucky.
I don't know but I get the impression that dogging in the UK is on the decline because of the number of time wasters or people who have frightened couples away in the past.
Here in the Midlands they have closed most car parks with barriers after dark and there are fewer and fewer places to meet. A couple of years back it was a doggers paradise but less and less people go out now and when they do it tends to be all single males.
Both alone and with my girlfriend we have responded to several ads but like others who have mentioned it here, they have either not turned up or misrepresented themselves and come up with pathetic excuses. Such a shame for those that are genuine. :cry:
Not really sure, but through experience these guys that let you down are normally the ones that moan all couples are timewasters, yet when they get a couple that actually replies to there email and say yes they shit 3 bricks and run for the hills never to be seen again.
Keep your chin up though, there is loads of genuine people out there, and if its dogging your after it would be a better idea just to visit some known dogging locations as there will be genuine doggers already there.
Welcome to the club always thought it was us single guys that always get blown out or 150 miles once to meet a couple for them not to turn up || if anyones reading this from near me I will turn up
I've been advertising on SH and answering ads for several years and it has got to the stage where I am surprised if someone actually turns up. Maybe years ago before mobile phones there was some excuse if something came up at the last minute but not now. For myself I will always confirm to a new contact on the night and even state a ETA and as for crying off at the last minute, I have never done it so I don't understand why other do.
If you want to meet a reliable guy get in touch, I'm your man.
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