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There's a great article in today's Grauniad G2 bit, in the women's section, about cunnilingus, my all-time favourite activity:
A new sex manual is taking America by storm and its message is simple: cunnilingus is the best way to please a woman.

In a way it doesn't tell us anything we don't already know, but it's still worth a read anyway. See
Puts me in mind of a fantasy I had at my last place of work, where all my team were women. I fantasised about being summoned to their office to find them all standing there, naked from the waist down, then being ordered to get on my knees and pleasure each of them in turn with my tongue until each had come at least twice. Hmm-mm - yummy smile
Mr Licks
Ah, at last the Guardianists have caught up with the rest of the world. :shock:
It had to happen one day lol
Well some men absolutely love giving oral......and I love the men that do!!! wink
to me oral is great probably the best part of foreplay giving oral to the lady i meen love to give oral for hours most ladys find this very pleasurable and i have a tounge that can scramble eggs lol, wink
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Well some men absolutely love giving oral......and I love the men that do!!! wink

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Not all women - my girlfriend enjoys it, but it's not what floats her boat.
they call me tia maria lol a good lquor llol lol
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Not all women - my girlfriend enjoys it, but it's not what floats her boat.

I know how she feels - I enjoy it and would miss it if it was left out - but it doesn't make my legs shake - if you know what I mean wink
Now in a goup situation I really enjoy it and also I do like the feel of a slighly stubbley chin rubbing over my clit. I am partial to some clit sucking and nibbling, but it still remains an unmastered challenge to make me orgasm from just a tongue. sad
I love going down on a woman :happy: receiving is great but i'm happily a giver n bed
miss ocky
well polo lady hunni i have the stubbly chin and have been known to m make the lady orgasm with the tounge there is a technic to it you havent tried me yet lol lol
I'm a bit like you PoloLady......it takes a very skilled man to make me come with his tongue....so far only one has managed it......and he's amazing!!! wink
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they call me tia maria lol a good lquor llol lol

As in the ancient joke:
How does a woman hold her liquor? By the ears smile
I'll get me coat...
Mr Licks
Glad to see this important subject is getting the debate going in the broadsheets - I absolutely adore giving head and nothing I like better than the taste of a womans cum on my tongue
Glad to see this important subject is getting the debate going in the broadsheets - I absolutely adore giving head and nothing I like better than the taste of a womans cum on my tongue
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Glad to see this important subject is getting the debate going in the broadsheets - I absolutely adore giving head and nothing I like better than the taste of a womans cum on my tongue

helllllloooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo biggrin
Someone on SH (sorry, can't remember who!)) recently made the point that whilst it's good that guys are taking their oral skills seriously and making a concerted effort to be a pussy pleaser it's becoming something of a holy grail subject and that their "thrusting" skills need equal attention! I would agree totally with whoever said that, and add that they also need to hone their finger skills too ............ good oral is fantastic, but a man who knows how to fingerf*** well is just as desirable imo wink
I think "greater than the sum of its parts" was probably first said about sex!
Serendipty>>>>totally agree with you - good head should be combined with gentle stroking of the g-spot with ones finger, or perhaps some sensual ass play??
Serendipty>>>>totally agree with you - good head should be combined with gentle stroking of the g-spot with ones finger, or perhaps some sensual ass play??
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Someone on SH (sorry, can't remember who!)) recently made the point that whilst it's good that guys are taking their oral skills seriously and making a concerted effort to be a pussy pleaser it's becoming something of a holy grail subject and that their "thrusting" skills need equal attention! I would agree totally with whoever said that, and add that they also need to hone their finger skills too ............ good oral is fantastic, but a man who knows how to fingerf*** well is just as desirable imo wink
I think "greater than the sum of its parts" was probably first said about sex!

Finger skills are often neglected and yet are so important - good fingers beat a good tongue hands down everytime for me - you can do so much more with fingers :twisted:
ok i love giving oral and have not had any complaints as yyet and can normally get the woman to orgasm with the tounge but i agree fingers are usefull tools aswell finding that gspot is most important as this helps a lot but if you use both your tounge and fingers at the same time this is even better for the lady now the the thrusting skills if you position yourself right position you can tweak the clit with your penis while thrusting this is very nice ladys lol i told you my name is tia maria lol lol :P
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Finger skills are often neglected and yet are so important - good fingers beat a good tongue hands down everytime for me - you can do so much more with fingers :twisted:

I tend to find I can do both! I'm a Grade 8 woodwind musician... I never realised how useful 14 years of bassoon playing could be until I got my first girlfriend... and I can get my fingers in rhythm too...
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ok i love giving oral and have not had any complaints as yyet and can normally get the woman to orgasm with the tounge but i agree fingers are usefull tools aswell finding that gspot is most important as this helps a lot but if you use both your tounge and fingers at the same time this is even better for the lady now the the thrusting skills if you position yourself right position you can tweak the clit with your penis while thrusting this is very nice ladys lol i told you my name is tia maria lol lol :P

yummmmmmm! whole heartedly agree!! :love: :love:
start out with a good finger technique... switch to the tongue...then add back in the fingers. Hands down the best... well, it's a tie along with "oral w/ toys" mmmmm. Fun to do an fun to have done to you. :love: :love:
ms. o.
ockysweeties i agree with you hunni its so much fun when you do it all xx wink
I find, its not the motion of oral sex, its the person giving the pleasure and the ability to read their partners responses.
Hell know, there's thousands of people out there that think their technique is so fantastic and yet perform oral sex the same way they lick the gravy off their plate when no ones looking.
Silky xxx
I must agree, I've always given the best pleasure and felt the best leg shakes from a combination of fingers and tongue or fingers and penis (the tongue just ain't long enough, and when they want it - what're ya gonna do!). I guess you need a 3-some and open-minded people, maybe even a bit of contortion to manage a combination of penis and tongue but I suspect that has pretty good possibilities too.
One of the porn clips I can remember well has a 3-some going on with the lady being penetrated with a penis and pleasured by another lady's tongue at the same time - the bloke gets quite a bit extra from the tongue too. Don't know what movie it's from.
hi Silk and Big G i can assure you i dont lik like im liking gravy of a plate you know what your doing is right by the way a lady responds and you act accordingly if your getting no response your doing something wrong its allin the way you use your tounge and reading the way people respond told you im tia maria lol wink
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Hell know, there's thousands of people out there that think their technique is so fantastic and yet perform oral sex the same way they lick the gravy off their plate when no ones looking.
Silky xxx

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
maybe we should have an oral sex masterclass? or some diagrams in the help section with advice on general locations of clitoris's and g-spots, and appropriate use of tippy tongues, lips and nibbles? dunno
n x x x ;)
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hi Silk and Big G i can assure you i dont lik like im liking gravy of a plate you know what your doing is right by the way a lady responds and you act accordingly if your getting no response your doing something wrong its allin the way you use your tounge and reading the way people respond told you im tia maria lol wink

I was just making a general comment!! :shock:
sorry Silk and Big G if you thought it personal wasnt meant to be forgive me redface
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well polo lady hunni i have the stubbly chin and have been known to m make the lady orgasm with the tounge there is a technic to it you havent tried me yet lol lol

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