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i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....
To be honest I'd be surprised.
But I don't have a jealous bone in my body. I'm not thick - I'm quite capable of spotting cheating (I think LOL). But mine is free to play (like it says in our signatures), but I know for certain he would tell me about it.
Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

What would yours be?
Id be flabbergasted :shock:
I havent got a partner lol
Sorry bolt
Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

I dont understand your question sweetie, because your profile says you are single????
Or was it just a topic for discussion?
Discussion:
I would be upset to find myself in a monogomous relationship with my partner carrying condoms. However in a swinging relationship where both people swing with others, then I would be horrified to NOT find condoms :giggle:
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Given that you asked if it was moral or not, wouldn't it depend on whether she was catholic or not? :twisted:
i personally have mixed views about this,because for one i would be glad incase she get carried away then she has protection but also on the other hand ill also question her ability to withstand temptation to a point of carrying condoms.... confused
You're asking swingers if we'd be upset to find our partners with condoms in their pockets??? :shock: I'd be over the moon.
As practising swingers how can anyone in this thread say they'd be mortified?
If there was one missing and you didn't know about it, then yes be shocked :shock:
If you're talking about the vanilla world, yes I would agree I would be gutted.
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As practising swingers how can anyone in this thread say they'd be mortified?

I can lol See earlier post :giggle:
Sorry I just find it a very strange question unless of course, Im not understanding the OP and the gist of the question. dunno
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Sorry I just find it a very strange question unless of course, Im not understanding the OP and the gist of the question. dunno

I am so glad you said that kiss
I was beginning to think it was just me that found it an odd question for a swinging site confused
reading the above posts and the initial post for this topic ...i am somewhat surprised...
perhaps you misread the bit where the original poster said..'secretly' or are you all suggesting that as we are swingers we are allowed to keep secrets from our spouses /partners nah no chance non of you mean that do you...ok on the basis that someone does mean that i would like to point out that not all swingers have the right to fuck all and sundry or the want or need without there partners knowledge.
or have i misread something too?
staggy
Quote by helnheaven

As practising swingers how can anyone in this thread say they'd be mortified?

I can lol See earlier post :giggle:
Sorry I just find it a very strange question unless of course, Im not understanding the OP and the gist of the question. dunno
right miss, over the knee! smackbottom
:lol:
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Id be flabbergasted :shock:
I havent got a partner lol
Sorry bolt

So it would come as an even bigger surprise! :shock:
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Quote by jaymar

As practising swingers how can anyone in this thread say they'd be mortified?

I can lol See earlier post :giggle:
Sorry I just find it a very strange question unless of course, Im not understanding the OP and the gist of the question. dunno
right miss, over the knee! smackbottom
:lol:
redface
:giggle:
After giving this some thought yes, Im capable of little ones.
Maybe the person wasnt keeping any secrets. Some of us have things in our handbags that have been there since Adam were a lad and have simply forgotten they are there
What???? dunno
I still dont understand
as been said how meny times do we clean out handbags wallets so no i would not think out about mr have condoms (secretly got a pack of condoms ). what dose that say confused to me mistrust
Quote by foxylady2209
To be honest I'd be surprised.
But I don't have a jealous bone in my body. I'm not thick - I'm quite capable of spotting cheating (I think LOL). But mine is free to play (like it says in our signatures), but I know for certain he would tell me about it.

Yes i would tell you if i played with any one from the site..
well the signatures says it all..And i would have no reason to cheat on you at all..
And yes i do think it is moral to carry a condom,plus also means you are being senible with your health and not taking any risks....
I think it is a very relevant question.
I think carrying a condom (and my partner doing the same) is very good for morale!
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Quote by helnheaven

As practising swingers how can anyone in this thread say they'd be mortified?

I can lol See earlier post :giggle:
Sorry I just find it a very strange question unless of course, Im not understanding the OP and the gist of the question. dunno
this is your second response to the thread how comes all over sudden you dont understand the question????
Ive actually responded 4 times and I stilldont understand it. So pleased Im not alone in this.
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....
First you posted:
Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

Then you posted:
Quote by Phuckers
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....

So hang on, is the sex with others protected or unprotected? If you're confused, there's no wonder others are!
Quote by Freckledbird
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....

Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

Hang on, is the sex with others protected or unprotected? If you're confused, there's no wonder others are!
those two qoutes are totally different am afraid you are beyond my help
Quote by Phuckers
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....

Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

Hang on, is the sex with others protected or unprotected? If you're confused, there's no wonder others are!
those two qoutes are totally different am afraid you are beyond my help
Exactly. But you posted the second one to illustrate the first for us poor people who didn't understand dunno
I'll ignore the comment about me being beyond your help!
Phuckers, do you mean the unprotected sex is between the couple, who have consentual protected sex with others?
Quote by Freckledbird
to help those who are having a problem understanding the question ill give you a little illustration...
as a swinger in this case you and your partner,have protected sex with other couples ,then you suddenly find out your partner secretly has another pack already opened but different brand from the one you normally use,..how would you feel.....

Quote by Phuckers
i wont go into details why we use condom,but what would your reaction or view be if you find out that your partner has secretly got a pack of condoms on their possesion while you practice mutual unprotected sex....

Hang on, is the sex with others protected or unprotected? If you're confused, there's no wonder others are!
those two qoutes are totally different am afraid you are beyond my help
Exactly. But you posted the second one to illustrate the first for us poor people who didn't understand dunno
I'll ignore the comment about me being beyond your help!
i thought you are the teacher
Quote by Phuckers
i thought you are the teacher

OK, I bow down to your superior intellect. Ask the question in clear English and maybe people won't be confused.
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Phuckers, do you mean the unprotected sex is between the couple, who have consentual protected sex with others?

am afraid i will not spend another minute explaining myself,long term forumist like you should encourage constructive discussion not persistantly asking silly questions....
Quote by Phuckers
Phuckers, do you mean the unprotected sex is between the couple, who have consentual protected sex with others?

am afraid i will not spend another minute explaining myself,long term forumist like you should encourage constructive discussion not persistantly asking silly questions....
There we go.
Quote by Freckledbird

i thought you are the teacher

OK, I bow down to your superior intellect. Ask the question in clear English and maybe people won't be confused.
i dont understand your question