Single/coupled..

7 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven
I have a question.... Is it possible to meet someone from sh.. and have a proper relationship with them... The reason im asking.. is im fed up being single, its no fun anywmore... i want to share the experiences i have with someone instead of just on my own... Im ready after all these years not to be alone.. an now im ready what are my chances.... LOL...?
has anyone met of here an made it work ...?

I know there are quite a few people who have met off here over the years, and some of those are now married and some with children as well. Saying that I am not sure a swinging site is perhaps the ideal place to come looking for a partner.
Saying that I have managed to find a partner on this scene even though I wasn't for a moment looking for one, so maybe that is the best way to do it. confused

Would never have believed I would fall head over heels in love with someone I met through swinging, was always perfectly happy being a single guy and having fun but that is exactly what I have done. And it is the most wonderful thing because there is no need to be ashamed of my past as a swinger or hide anything from her. biggrin

I hope you find exactly what you are looking for FurbyHug. cool

Soft git................ rolleyes

Oi! Behave you smackbottom

Although it does take one to know one innocent

:giggle:
Don't worry, he's completely right and I am completely unashamed at being a soft git. :giggle:

7 Nov 2007

Quote by rogerthedragon
I have a question.... Is it possible to meet someone from sh.. and have a proper relationship with them... The reason im asking.. is im fed up being single, its no fun anywmore... i want to share the experiences i have with someone instead of just on my own... Im ready after all these years not to be alone.. an now im ready what are my chances.... LOL...?
has anyone met of here an made it work ...?

I know there are quite a few people who have met off here over the years, and some of those are now married and some with children as well. Saying that I am not sure a swinging site is perhaps the ideal place to come looking for a partner.
Saying that I have managed to find a partner on this scene even though I wasn't for a moment looking for one, so maybe that is the best way to do it. confused

Would never have believed I would fall head over heels in love with someone I met through swinging, was always perfectly happy being a single guy and having fun but that is exactly what I have done. And it is the most wonderful thing because there is no need to be ashamed of my past as a swinger or hide anything from her. biggrin

I hope you find exactly what you are looking for FurbyHug. cool

Soft git................ rolleyes

Oi! Behave you smackbottom

Although it does take one to know one innocent

:giggle:
Don't worry, he's completely right and I am completely unashamed at being a soft git. :giggle:
awwww bless lol

7 Nov 2007

Quote by markz
If I wanted a wife I'd buy one......

They wont accept you're Monopoly money though Markz :roll:

8 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven

I find it quite depressing that there aren't enough people who see this site as somewhere to make lots of friends....
Awww I'll be your fwend

Thanks hun. That's TWO now, including my invisible friend. :kiss:
"Down Shep!"

:rotflmao::rotflmao:

8 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
It has happened, SH has seen a few marriages now.
Sometimes it has worked, other times it hasn't!
However it is frowned upon to actively seek relationships off the scene, esp if your not honest about your intentions. I'm sure you have prob heard some single women and men being given a wide berth for such reasons, simply cause they are actively seeking and 'sometimes' entrapping other swingers to engage a long term relationship with them.
I think some single men and women really should be on dating sites rather then on the scene, as many have no intention of swinging at all. In the midlands room we often call them SWONGERS, or if any of us feel brave, bunny boilers lol.
Saying this though, i have seen some fantastic relationships blossum on the scene. But these couples were never actively seeking each other, its simply a case of them finding something they never intented to find and taking that risk that they never intended to do. I'm very happy for them xx

I'm always puzzled by the people who do this, surely they should be on a dating site. Some even say specifiaclly in their profile that they're not looking to play but desire a more committed relationship. Why be here then?
However there have been many who have discovered their 'other halves' on here and that is really great. We have recently seen couples getting together who have been completely surprised by the turn of events, and that's been a wonderful surprise.
I love it when that happens!
biggrin

maybe its cause some are looking for a partner who swings, if you go on a dating site and find someone how do you then ask then if they want to swing? easier to find one whos already on the scene i would have though.
i personally dont see why people avoid singles, you dont have to be single to fall in love i have knows a few couples where one has run off with someone they have met thro swinging, and my hubby had met a couple of women where they have wanted him to leave me for them and one of them was married, and both of then knew he was, so its not only single people you have to watch out for.
As for Furbys question so long as your honest, which you have been by posting this thread, i can't see why you cant find what your looking for, you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince tho ;)

8 Nov 2007

Quote by markz
If I wanted a wife I'd buy one......

I've done the legwork for you!

8 Nov 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1
It has happened, SH has seen a few marriages now.
Sometimes it has worked, other times it hasn't!
However it is frowned upon to actively seek relationships off the scene, esp if your not honest about your intentions. I'm sure you have prob heard some single women and men being given a wide berth for such reasons, simply cause they are actively seeking and 'sometimes' entrapping other swingers to engage a long term relationship with them.
I think some single men and women really should be on dating sites rather then on the scene, as many have no intention of swinging at all. In the midlands room we often call them SWONGERS, or if any of us feel brave, bunny boilers lol.
Saying this though, i have seen some fantastic relationships blossum on the scene. But these couples were never actively seeking each other, its simply a case of them finding something they never intented to find and taking that risk that they never intended to do. I'm very happy for them xx

I'm always puzzled by the people who do this, surely they should be on a dating site. Some even say specifiaclly in their profile that they're not looking to play but desire a more committed relationship. Why be here then?
However there have been many who have discovered their 'other halves' on here and that is really great. We have recently seen couples getting together who have been completely surprised by the turn of events, and that's been a wonderful surprise.
I love it when that happens!
biggrin

maybe its cause some are looking for a partner who swings, if you go on a dating site and find someone how do you then ask then if they want to swing? easier to find one whos already on the scene i would have though.
i personally dont see why people avoid singles, you dont have to be single to fall in love i have knows a few couples where one has run off with someone they have met thro swinging, and my hubby had met a couple of women where they have wanted him to leave me for them and one of them was married, and both of then knew he was, so its not only single people you have to watch out for.
As for Furbys question so long as your honest, which you have been by posting this thread, i can't see why you cant find what your looking for, you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince tho ;)
Your first point is a good one actually, hadn't thought of that. Although that would assume they still want to swing, and I've seen many who have stopped swinging the moment they get 'coupled up'.
As for your second point it seems to me that it's mostly single guys who are avoided. Or maybe it's just everyone's avoiding me?

:rotflmao::rotflmao:

8 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
It has happened, SH has seen a few marriages now.
Sometimes it has worked, other times it hasn't!
However it is frowned upon to actively seek relationships off the scene, esp if your not honest about your intentions. I'm sure you have prob heard some single women and men being given a wide berth for such reasons, simply cause they are actively seeking and 'sometimes' entrapping other swingers to engage a long term relationship with them.
I think some single men and women really should be on dating sites rather then on the scene, as many have no intention of swinging at all. In the midlands room we often call them SWONGERS, or if any of us feel brave, bunny boilers lol.
Saying this though, i have seen some fantastic relationships blossum on the scene. But these couples were never actively seeking each other, its simply a case of them finding something they never intented to find and taking that risk that they never intended to do. I'm very happy for them xx

I'm always puzzled by the people who do this, surely they should be on a dating site. Some even say specifiaclly in their profile that they're not looking to play but desire a more committed relationship. Why be here then?
However there have been many who have discovered their 'other halves' on here and that is really great. We have recently seen couples getting together who have been completely surprised by the turn of events, and that's been a wonderful surprise.
I love it when that happens!
biggrin

maybe its cause some are looking for a partner who swings, if you go on a dating site and find someone how do you then ask then if they want to swing? easier to find one whos already on the scene i would have though.
i personally dont see why people avoid singles, you dont have to be single to fall in love i have knows a few couples where one has run off with someone they have met thro swinging, and my hubby had met a couple of women where they have wanted him to leave me for them and one of them was married, and both of then knew he was, so its not only single people you have to watch out for.
As for Furbys question so long as your honest, which you have been by posting this thread, i can't see why you cant find what your looking for, you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince tho ;)
Your first point is a good one actually, hadn't thought of that. Although that would assume they still want to swing, and I've seen many who have stopped swinging the moment they get 'coupled up'.
As for your second point it seems to me that it's mostly single guys who are avoided. Or maybe it's just everyone's avoiding me?

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
its you m8 lol
nah seriously i think its just the well knows fact thats theres so many single guys on here very few of them are going to get what they want out of this site, personally im happy to meet single guys just most of them want to meet you the second they talk to you and that puts me off
As for people who meet and stop swinging, as a single its easy to meet people and do what you want you have noone to keep happy but yourself, but swinging with someone you care about isnt always that easy, many couples come into swinging thinkings its going to be great and then realise that while they shagging so's the person they love and a lot can't handle that they never saw past gettting their own end away before now

8 Nov 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1
It has happened, SH has seen a few marriages now.
Sometimes it has worked, other times it hasn't!
However it is frowned upon to actively seek relationships off the scene, esp if your not honest about your intentions. I'm sure you have prob heard some single women and men being given a wide berth for such reasons, simply cause they are actively seeking and 'sometimes' entrapping other swingers to engage a long term relationship with them.
I think some single men and women really should be on dating sites rather then on the scene, as many have no intention of swinging at all. In the midlands room we often call them SWONGERS, or if any of us feel brave, bunny boilers lol.
Saying this though, i have seen some fantastic relationships blossum on the scene. But these couples were never actively seeking each other, its simply a case of them finding something they never intented to find and taking that risk that they never intended to do. I'm very happy for them xx

I'm always puzzled by the people who do this, surely they should be on a dating site. Some even say specifiaclly in their profile that they're not looking to play but desire a more committed relationship. Why be here then?
However there have been many who have discovered their 'other halves' on here and that is really great. We have recently seen couples getting together who have been completely surprised by the turn of events, and that's been a wonderful surprise.
I love it when that happens!
biggrin

maybe its cause some are looking for a partner who swings, if you go on a dating site and find someone how do you then ask then if they want to swing? easier to find one whos already on the scene i would have though.
i personally dont see why people avoid singles, you dont have to be single to fall in love i have knows a few couples where one has run off with someone they have met thro swinging, and my hubby had met a couple of women where they have wanted him to leave me for them and one of them was married, and both of then knew he was, so its not only single people you have to watch out for.
As for Furbys question so long as your honest, which you have been by posting this thread, i can't see why you cant find what your looking for, you may have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince tho ;)
Your first point is a good one actually, hadn't thought of that. Although that would assume they still want to swing, and I've seen many who have stopped swinging the moment they get 'coupled up'.
As for your second point it seems to me that it's mostly single guys who are avoided. Or maybe it's just everyone's avoiding me?

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
its you m8 lol
nah seriously i think its just the well knows fact thats theres so many single guys on here very few of them are going to get what they want out of this site, personally im happy to meet single guys just most of them want to meet you the second they talk to you and that puts me off
As for people who meet and stop swinging, as a single its easy to meet people and do what you want you have noone to keep happy but yourself, but swinging with someone you care about isnt always that easy, many couples come into swinging thinkings its going to be great and then realise that while they shagging so's the person they love and a lot can't handle that they never saw past gettting their own end away before now
Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

8 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover
Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)

8 Nov 2007

Quote by naughtynymphos1

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

8 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

8 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

Well that's the excuse they give me anyway.

:rotflmao::rotflmao:

8 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

Well that's the excuse they give me anyway.

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Well what they need is a good smackbottom

Off to change profile :giggle:

8 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

i know shocking isnt it lol

9 Nov 2007

Quote by lilacgem_vert2go
If I wanted a wife I'd buy one......

They wont accept you're Monopoly money though Markz :roll:
have you tried then...... :roll:

9 Nov 2007

Quote by FurbyHug
dont worry guys!!! im not LOOKING for anything at all im having alot of fun....... and i am a swinger ... i enjoy the experiences and love to play......but sometimes it would nice to have play buddy to share it with instead of always going alone... im not after a partner.. or a husband or anything .. but just to have a play bud..

Am not a regular forum person so apologies for joining this thread late.......agree totally with what u have said but isnt it ironic that the singles people (male/female) who have all agreed with u (incl myself) dont live anywhere near each other ....isnt that always the case...someone u like/admire and would be comfy as a playmate....but they are miles away......sods law eh....
RWL
xxx

9 Nov 2007

Quote by redwine_lover
dont worry guys!!! im not LOOKING for anything at all im having alot of fun....... and i am a swinger ... i enjoy the experiences and love to play......but sometimes it would nice to have play buddy to share it with instead of always going alone... im not after a partner.. or a husband or anything .. but just to have a play bud..

Am not a regular forum person so apologies for joining this thread late.......agree totally with what u have said but isnt it ironic that the singles people (male/female) who have all agreed with u (incl myself) dont live anywhere near each other ....isnt that always the case...someone u like/admire and would be comfy as a playmate....but they are miles away......sods law eh....
RWL
xxx
I know! It's a real bugger isn't it?
cool

8-) 8-)

9 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

Well that's the excuse they give me anyway.

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Well what they need is a good smackbottom

Thanks hunnie passionkiss

Do I get one as well? redface

:lol2:

9 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

Well that's the excuse they give me anyway.

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Well what they need is a good

Thanks hunnie passionkiss

Do I get one as well? redface

:lol2:
Only if you promise to enjoy :lol:
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

9 Nov 2007

I have a question.... Is it possible to meet someone from sh.. and have a proper relationship with them... The reason im asking.. is im fed up being single, its no fun anywmore... i want to share the experiences i have with someone instead of just on my own... Im ready after all these years not to be alone.. an now im ready what are my chances.... LOL...?

but, but, but you share the experiences with the people you swing with, not on your own? i know that's not quite what you meant, but some of the most powerful and intense experiences and personal discoveries came from sharing a particular little voyage of discovery with people on the same kind of journey? they would have been entirely different in character, or wouldn't have happened at all maybe, if i'd not been single at the time? it ain't so bad? smile

already been said, there's couples who met on here, and now have wedding rings and kids running round the house, but i think often those relationships came about to the syrprise of both parties, and weren't necessarily looked for, or hoped for? dunno

it's not a place i'd come looking if that's what i was hoping for. SH is what it is, and that's primarily about sex, fun, and friendship, though clearly the combination of the 3 quite easily leads on to other things quite often.

has anyone met off here and made it work?

for a time, yes. ((( just to head off any possible confusion / enquiries about my changed relationship status and all that. )))
neil x x x ;)

10 Nov 2007

we met on this site. we were both under different user names at the time and we were both not swinging, just here for the social side. we were not looking for partners, it just happened..talked on forums, went to pm, met at a mini social, instant attraction, met again and again socially and then ...... that was 3.5 yrs ago and we have now been married for 1yr and 2.5 months..
:inlove: :love: :inlove: :love: :inlove: :love: :inlove: :love: :inlove: :love:

10 Nov 2007

she beat me to it...
you can look for a partner here, why not, both rose and I didn't come here looking for anything really, just to natter and learn I suppose, people do use this place to seek out like minded people , personally I don't think that's a bad thing, better than other ways of dating in some respects and perhaps a little more honest too, if you choose to be honest of course, better ti find out now that one of you has swinging in the blood than five years down the line.
however thinking guys or girls here that have sex with you will want anything more is foolish and we have seen that end in tears way too often.
my advice be up front, use the site to suit your needs , don't pretend to be something you are not...
staggy
very much a lucky guy that he found rose here

10 Nov 2007

Quote by helnheaven

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

Well that's the excuse they give me anyway.

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Well what they need is a good

Thanks hunnie passionkiss

Do I get one as well? redface

:lol2:
Only if you promise to enjoy :lol:
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
I promise!
biggrin

:D :D :D :D

12 Nov 2007

Quote by bbw_lover

Wondered when someone was going to admit to this. It must be a real problem.

i'll tell you a story lol
about 3 years ago we met this couple he was dead excited about swinging and all these woman he was going to shag etc, they went to a club with us, he was unsure how she would be and she did admit she was a bit nervous, only to be expected, anyway she had a ball she was all over the place, on the other handhe was getting very naffed off at the fact everyone wanted his mrs and not him and couldnt get a errection and sat most of the night sulking, now his rules b4 they started was if we happy with it we do it, she was happy and she did, anyway it was clear he wasnt comfy, see like above all he had seen b4 was the women he was going to shag he never saw past the fact the women may not want him but want his mrs instead, anyway they left early and the next day on msn she said they wasnt meeting anyone any more as her fella couldnt handle seeing her with other people but she had a great time and if they changed their minds would look us up if that was ok.......anyway about a week later i was chatting to a single guy on another site he put his web cam on and guess what, it was the male half of this couple he'd changed his name and was posing as a single guy, he didnt realize it was me so i asked if he was married and he said i have a girlfriend we tried it once but she decided its not for her so she now lets me meet alone :shock:
i wonder how many times that happens ;)
I bet this happens a lot!
I often look at people's profiles to try and suss them out, even if it's just a reply to an email, or replying to something they've said in the forum wink

One of the things that never fails to make me laugh is the number of couples where you just get he feeling that the man is eager to get as many shags as possible, and totting up the possible number. What always seems to escape his attention is that his partner might be just as keen, so when she starts getting shags AND enjoying it, things change.
Suddenly their profiles change so that they are only seeing females and, as if by magic, the female half is suddenly 'bi-curious", which means lots of female flesh for the man. Mmmmmmmm???
confused

Well, Id never have guessed that there are such naughty people on SH lol

Well that's the excuse they give me anyway.

:rotflmao::rotflmao:
Well what they need is a good

Thanks hunnie passionkiss

Do I get one as well? redface

:lol2:
Only if you promise to enjoy :lol:
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:
I promise!
biggrin

:D :D :D :D
Drop em Blossom, your on next
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :smackbottom:

12 Nov 2007

My darling, we would gladly ask you to move in, but there's a lot at stake, we may loose to working tax credit, or worse than that, we could loose our good name as decent upstanding citizens of the community, as well as that.... i'm not sure of the laws in britain that say my husband can have a harem, and we'd have to buy a new bed, we only have a double, and you snore !!! we fart a lot, but we cant hear them above you snoring, so that would be a bonus for us as we don't follow through, so you'd never know.... in future, if we can help at all with view to finding you a chap, we will, anyroad upi.... keep the rabbit on charge at all times, we don't want to think you got to go to tesco at midnight for new batteries, with a possibility you may get your windscreen washed for free... perish the though my love that he may get his shooter out and threaten you in a kinky manner, he would be in for a surprise when it's him that gets his head blown off by you.... oooooo arfur.... you dirty bastard....... you know me so well, it a joke love, but we really ,really care about you....loads of hugs and snuggles from us both... Mr N Mrs J xxxxxx

12 Nov 2007

Quote by Juicyfruit_1
My darling, we would gladly ask you to move in, but there's a lot at stake, we may loose to working tax credit, or worse than that, we could loose our good name as decent upstanding citizens of the community, as well as that.... i'm not sure of the laws in britain that say my husband can have a harem, and we'd have to buy a new bed, we only have a double, and you snore !!! we fart a lot, but we cant hear them above you snoring, so that would be a bonus for us as we don't follow through, so you'd never know.... in future, if we can help at all with view to finding you a chap, we will, anyroad upi.... keep the rabbit on charge at all times, we don't want to think you got to go to tesco at midnight for new batteries, with a possibility you may get your windscreen washed for free... perish the though my love that he may get his shooter out and threaten you in a kinky manner, he would be in for a surprise when it's him that gets his head blown off by you.... oooooo arfur.... you dirty bastard....... you know me so well, it a joke love, but we really ,really care about you....loads of hugs and snuggles from us both... Mr N Mrs J xxxxxx

Mr and mrs Juicy ............. you are the most wicked kindest funniest wonderful couple ive ever met.. i know that one day i will have what you have and i will be ready to get when it comes because ive seen what it should be or what it should look like.. for once in my life ive seen true love.. now i know what to see when i see it.....
love you both you dirty bastards...........ooooooooo arfur.........
kisses and farts you wierdos

12 Nov 2007

Quote by FurbyHug
My darling, we would gladly ask you to move in, but there's a lot at stake, we may loose to working tax credit, or worse than that, we could loose our good name as decent upstanding citizens of the community, as well as that.... i'm not sure of the laws in britain that say my husband can have a harem, and we'd have to buy a new bed, we only have a double, and you snore !!! we fart a lot, but we cant hear them above you snoring, so that would be a bonus for us as we don't follow through, so you'd never know.... in future, if we can help at all with view to finding you a chap, we will, anyroad upi.... keep the rabbit on charge at all times, we don't want to think you got to go to tesco at midnight for new batteries, with a possibility you may get your windscreen washed for free... perish the though my love that he may get his shooter out and threaten you in a kinky manner, he would be in for a surprise when it's him that gets his head blown off by you.... oooooo arfur.... you dirty bastard....... you know me so well, it a joke love, but we really ,really care about you....loads of hugs and snuggles from us both... Mr N Mrs J xxxxxx

Mr and mrs Juicy ............. you are the most wicked kindest funniest wonderful couple ive ever met.. i know that one day i will have what you have and i will be ready to get when it comes because ive seen what it should be or what it should look like.. for once in my life ive seen true love.. now i know what to see when i see it.....
love you both you dirty bastards...........ooooooooo arfur.........
kisses and farts you wierdos
Righty ho....this is all a bit odd innit....Mr J here for this 1, and to be fair, I'm not really sure what the fucking hell is going on here at club 152.....now, as I see it, I used to have a "catch all" phrase that gets a chap out of pickles......looks to me like that for all these years I've been deluded and mislead by those of a higher intelligence and smarter disposition.....you think I'm talking bollox....well boys and girls, here's the thing....next time you've had too much to drink, follow these simple instructions.......
Look into a mirror....try and catch yourself blinking.....when you've mastered that, it's time to start and ask yourself some questions.....ask yourself......Who am I? What am I? Why am I here? What is my goal in life? What makes me happy.....what makes those around me whom I love happy? Whom do I love?....... you're getting the picture?...
Yeah, I know, it sounds like bollox, but I garrunty you this, it'll stick in your head for a while, and 1 day, you'll catch yourself doing it, and believe me, I don't want any credit for it, but just go with it..... The results might surprise you xxxxx
P.S. Furby me little old sausage of cuddliness and joy..... let us know as soon as YOU do...... we'll be dead interested to find out what you find xxxxxxxx

12 Nov 2007

Hi
I know this is a late addition but chatroom went down so browsed forums n found this thread!
Furby.. I so agree with you about being single, sometimes it sucks when you need a hug, or for the 'last dance' to feel special. But then there's the times when you hear/see couples arguing and you think TF that Im single!!! Is it really worth the grief?
I had always wondered about swinging, the idea always excited me but never had the guts to follow that.... Until I met someone who chewed me up & spat me out over 2yrs. He hurt me badly. I couldn't bare the thought of bein hurt again so decided to swing casually at clubs---go in, get fucked, leave--- it worked for a while but over a year on I too miss certain things that one special person brings. Im still excited by swinging but feel I should wait a while to see if I can find a partner 'that fits' and hopefully continue swinging with him. It'll make going home afterwards a little less lonely cos I'd have someone to re-share it with & make it a more positive experience.
And Chaotic... A singles night?... I'd certainly be up for that. Maybe I should look into organising one????

13 Nov 2007

Quote by winchwench
If I wanted a wife I'd buy one......

I've done the legwork for you!

she looks like you.......what are you trying to tell me....... :roll: