stopping yourself from cumming

4 Aug 2008

Me and wor lass were having sex this weekend... we had the house to ourselves so were making use of all available rooms :twisted:
anyhoo... after having sex we had a discussion about our current favourite position and how we 'cope'.
We like fucking each other with a strap-on and our current position is doggy style stood up bent over various furniture. When doing the fucking I do get a little over excited and when stood up it can be difficult to maintain rhythm, especially as I have to stop myself cumming. If I cum, I fall over. confused

Wor lass and I compared notes about what we think about to prevent us cumming. When we were in the living room it was easier as I was looking at the fireplace that I had recently ripped out and am in the process of renovating. In other rooms it was more tricky and everytime I returned to looking at wor lass I began to lose control again. rolleyes

Wor lass thinks of work.
My question is.. do you need to think of something else to prevent you cumming too soon.. and if so, what?
And also .. to those who use strap-on's, or even their own cock. Is this cumming and falling over, or losing rhythm a common occurrence?

4 Aug 2008

I just let myself cum, am too self indulgent to wait lol
I am sorry for giggling, but I have a picture in my mind of you cumming and starting to topple over whilst shouting “ quick, to the fireplace, I am falling!” biggrin

4 Aug 2008

I liked the 'or even their own cock' lol

I don't think of anything to stop me either - but it usually takes me a while anyway.
Ooh, and I can't ladywank or shag standing up - my knees buckle when I do cum. redface

Shagging is a bit easier because you've got someone to hold you up :lol:

4 Aug 2008

you are being very unhelpful... biggrin

so FB you too would fall over. Phew, at least we are not alone.

4 Aug 2008

Quote by Outdoor_sex
I just think about Margaret Thatcher, it works every time

Oh gosh, if I did that I would never come again. biggrin

4 Aug 2008

Quote by Outdoor_sex
I just think about Margaret Thatcher, it works every time

Whilst she was the greatest PM, she would def make me not want to cum....This guys not for turning. :lol:

4 Aug 2008

I just think of someone eating Marmite.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

4 Aug 2008

*Promptly chucks secret supply of Marmite in bin..........

Quote by bbw_lover
I just think of someone eating Marmite.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

:shock:

4 Aug 2008

I soooo wish I had this problem of STOPPING myself cumming. My problem is actually getting there in the first place and then when/if I do the last thing I want is to stop it, as if I do my foofoo goes on the turn and refuses to come at all...ever again rolleyes

4 Aug 2008

Quote by Firelizard
I soooo wish I had this problem of STOPPING myself cumming. My problem is actually getting there in the first place and then when/if I do the last thing I want is to stop it, as if I do my foofoo goes on the turn and refuses to come at all...ever again

:shock: :shock: you just sucked the words right out of my brain and into your post!!!
that is SO weird!!

4 Aug 2008

Quote by bbw_lover
I just think of someone eating Marmite.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

:shock: :shock: :shock:
I wont, I will not, ever, ever never give it up

4 Aug 2008

He really hates Marmite hunny!!!!

Quote by helnheaven
I just think of someone eating Marmite.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

:shock: :shock: :shock:
I wont, I will not, ever, ever never give it up

4 Aug 2008

Quote by Whipsnspurs
i love sex stood up and thankfully don't fall over when i cum.
now if i'm playing alone then i just stop playing for a bit if i want it to last a long time. however, with a guy i never stop it coz i can have more.
you could try thinking of paying your next fuel bill. enough to put anyone off i should think!
whips

the cumming repeatedly isn't a problem. It is the losing rhythm and then falling over issue when I am fucking wor lass and cumming that is the problem. If I am being fucked in this position then I cum numerous times (sorry fire and Bonedigger wink

)

4 Aug 2008

Quote by Misskitty_2008
He really hates Marmite hunny!!!!
I just think of someone eating Marmite.
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

:shock: :shock: :shock:
I wont, I will not, ever, ever never give it up
Well I might make an exception for you Helnheaven biggrin

… before the cat woman hits me!

4 Aug 2008

I can't see what the problem is, there is no other way for a guy to deal with it. You grit your teeth, lock yer knees and hang on for dear life.
Splendid's post had me pissing myself and conjured up the funniest imagery I've ever imagined whilst on SH.
It does go to show something I've thought for a long time, which is that when it's done right a woman can get far more out of sex than a man can. I don't think I've ever had an orgasm that made me fall over. I've had a few that made my toes tingle, but never enough to go looking for a fireplace biggrin

As for holding off the event, well I can't really give any good advice on that one. I'm not really a fan of my own orgasm anyway so my own feelings delay the event anyway.

4 Aug 2008

Quote by splendid_
i love sex stood up and thankfully don't fall over when i cum.
now if i'm playing alone then i just stop playing for a bit if i want it to last a long time. however, with a guy i never stop it coz i can have more.
you could try thinking of paying your next fuel bill. enough to put anyone off i should think!
whips

the cumming repeatedly isn't a problem. It is the losing rhythm and then falling over issue when I am fucking wor lass and cumming that is the problem. If I am being fucked in this position then I cum numerous times (sorry fire and Bonedigger wink

)
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: biggrin

4 Aug 2008

Quote by splendid_
If I cum, I fall over.
Is this cumming and falling over, or losing rhythm a common occurrence?

Quote by splendid_
... If I am being fucked in this position then I cum numerous times

I bet they just love you at A&E!
boink

4 Aug 2008

Quote by redpantherman
If I cum, I fall over.
Is this cumming and falling over, or losing rhythm a common occurrence?

Quote by splendid_
... If I am being fucked in this position then I cum numerous times

I bet they just love you at A&E!
boink

oh gosh.... you are just being silly.
I am stood up with a strap-on on. Wor lass is bent over, and supported by, furniture. She can come numerous times. If I cum once then I can't carry on and will fall over/lose rhythm so I have to think of other things to hold off my orgasm until she is 'done' and that can be any amount of orgasms for her. The same applies in reverse.
So, gritting my teeth is it and men get the same problem. (and presumably women in the same position, strap-on etc.)
ho hum.
and, I haven't been to A&E wink

4 Aug 2008

Quote by Freckledbird
Ooh, and I can't ladywank or shag standing up - my knees buckle when I do cum.

I lose balance and my knees buckle as well. I have very intense orgasms, one and I'm knackered for the rest of the evening so I'd have to delay if it was me!
Callie

4 Aug 2008

I fallover when I think.
lp

4 Aug 2008

Quote by splendid_
i love sex stood up and thankfully don't fall over when i cum.
now if i'm playing alone then i just stop playing for a bit if i want it to last a long time. however, with a guy i never stop it coz i can have more.
you could try thinking of paying your next fuel bill. enough to put anyone off i should think!
whips

the cumming repeatedly isn't a problem. It is the losing rhythm and then falling over issue when I am fucking wor lass and cumming that is the problem. If I am being fucked in this position then I cum numerous times (sorry fire and Bonedigger wink

)
*cums*

4 Aug 2008

Is this why some men prefer missionary? :lol2:
once ended up on my knees being fucked from behind in standing up position in a doorway redface

stick to all fours now or have something to lean on

4 Aug 2008

It's taken me all day to get round to this. I cracked up at the vision of Splendid going rigid with a spasm, yelling "Timbaaaaaar" and falling on her side, plank like.
I've gone again.

4 Aug 2008

Quote by winchwench
It's taken me all day to get round to this. I cracked up at the vision of Splendid going rigid with a spasm, yelling "Timbaaaaaar" and falling on her side, plank like.
I've gone again.

you are soooooo flippin' unhelpful. I come on here and bare my soul and you take the piss.... rolleyes

4 Aug 2008

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sorry Splendid .... :shock: that vision has me in stitches!
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

4 Aug 2008

Quote by winchwench
It's taken me all day to get round to this. I cracked up at the vision of Splendid going rigid with a spasm, yelling "Timbaaaaaar" and falling on her side, plank like.
I've gone again.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Sorry Splendid kiss

but it does conjude up an amusing mental image :lol2:
oh and I can't cum standing up at all......whilst I do cum quite easily, I'm not relaxed enough when I'm standing up.

4 Aug 2008

Mr F has a method that works for him to stop himself cumming to soon - it may help you, if you adapt it!
When he feels he's close to cumming he pictures himself shopping in Tescos, buying items he hates and would never buy. He starts at the fat-free yoghurts and ends up at the Linda McCartney frozen vegan sausages, via anything green on the fruit and veg aisle!
Mrs F.

4 Aug 2008

Quote by ForestFunsters
Mr F has a method that works for him to stop himself cumming to soon - it may help you, if you adapt it!
When he feels he's close to cumming he pictures himself shopping in Tescos, buying items he hates and would never buy. He starts at the fat-free yoghurts and ends up at the Linda McCartney frozen vegan sausages, via anything green on the fruit and veg aisle!
Mrs F.

thankyou Mrs F... very much.
see ??? the rest of ya are b'stards.
>flounce<
biggrin

4 Aug 2008

if im gonna cum then thinking about other things doesnt stop it! ive tried, and believe me it isnt fun when it doesnt work and you end up thinking about something revolting whilst you cum! lol
i have to pull out and stop for 10 seconds or so and/or pinch the head of my cock.
as for cumming standing up...my legs dont wobble one bit...i kind of feel abnormal for saying that after all your replies! lol

4 Aug 2008

Quote by splendid_
Mr F has a method that works for him to stop himself cumming to soon - it may help you, if you adapt it!
When he feels he's close to cumming he pictures himself shopping in Tescos, buying items he hates and would never buy. He starts at the fat-free yoghurts and ends up at the Linda McCartney frozen vegan sausages, via anything green on the fruit and veg aisle!
Mrs F.

thankyou Mrs F... very much.
see ??? the rest of ya are b'stards.
>flounce<
biggrin

:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: