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What makes for great sex?

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I was just sitting here pondering and thought I would ask the ones that know: lol
I have my views on this subject but I want to ask you lot.
I will give mine at a later stage.
What makes for great sex?
What gives sex the wow factor?
What ignites your light? lol
What pushes the right buttons?
I do
lp
errm, thats not a serious answer, ok?
Compatibility.
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Compatibility.

Yep as W said.., and
respect
mutual attraction and above all.....
trust
for me anyway
"What makes for great sex?"
Havent a clue, Iv joined a convent I may find out here lol
seriously hot passion....
u know that feeling when u look at someone and you just have to rip their clothes off as you kiss each other in a frenzied way, leaving a trail of clothes behind you as you stagger, lips still locked, limbs still entwined, sweat beading your bodies, to wherever you can manage to get to before feeling the overwhelming desire to explore each others bodies more thoroughly and for a very VERY long time.......:twisted:
redfacesurprisedops: :oops:
A hamster and a roll of duct tape? :twisted:
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A hamster and a roll of duct tape? :twisted:

Ah but which hamster I heard they are too busy to get tied down!
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to feel as though the other person really needs you right then and there. there is a look that gets me everytime, can't discribe it but it makes my stomach flip everytime.

passion
whips

Oh I know the one you mean :twisted:
Just the 'click' - has to be there for good sex.
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A hamster and a roll of duct tape? :twisted:

Ah but which hamster I heard they are too busy to get tied down!
Well I can always stand in for them if you were doing the tying silly
PS: Be careful with the duct tape, I do have some hairy bits!
When its as much at an emotional level as a physical one -- then it becomes the most important thing in the world to please her in all the ways you can -- and she feels the same about you -- then WOW
I totally agree about the look... I get that look a lot when we're out for the day in London when I can't do a damn thing about it... cool
For me, also it's the trust thing, understanding what each other's wants are, and having a connection...
I have found all these, and more with my other half.. and am having the best sex ever... I have never had "aftershocks" with anyone else.. or multiple "o"s
Thank you for opening my eyes hunie!!! wink
For me it's when I know the lady is enjoying it (I like to please). And for her to be able to take control.
I also think that good sex is strongly based on mental interactions between one another. Oh and physical as well smile (in case you didn't know that) cool
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I also think that good sex is strongly based on mental interactions between one another.

Yep!
The best Sarnie and cuppa tea afterwards! lol
Lots of things -
Knowing each other well enough to know the likes and dislikes without them actually being said.
That look.
Compatibility.
Finding each other physically and mentally attractive.
A little ooh when the other walks into a room.
Being open enough to share your most crazy and wanted fantasies and knowing the other will do their best to make them happen.
Being comfortable and relaxed around each other.
Trust.
And still getting that look or an ooh after years of being together
well.I think its all in the head... its not so much what you seeing or doing..its more what your mind is thinking you seeing and doing !!
You can have sex with same person and one time is WOW..and next time average.... you have to be up to the job mentally as wel as physically !
so anyone want to explore my mind !!!
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seriously hot passion....
u know that feeling when u look at someone and you just have to rip their clothes off as you kiss each other in a frenzied way, leaving a trail of clothes behind you as you stagger, lips still locked, limbs still entwined, sweat beading your bodies, to wherever you can manage to get to before feeling the overwhelming desire to explore each others bodies more thoroughly and for a very VERY long time.......:twisted:
redfacesurprisedops: :oops:

You've just made me fall off the settee.
:silly: :silly: :silly:
LOL nice to know i can still do that after all this time babe xxx
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LOL nice to know i can still do that after all this time babe xxx

Of course you can hun. Why did you ever doubt it?
kiss
Quote by Bonedigger
seriously hot passion....
u know that feeling when u look at someone and you just have to rip their clothes off as you kiss each other in a frenzied way, leaving a trail of clothes behind you as you stagger, lips still locked, limbs still entwined, sweat beading your bodies, to wherever you can manage to get to before feeling the overwhelming desire to explore each others bodies more thoroughly and for a very VERY long time.......:twisted:
redfacesurprisedops: :oops:

Ooooh.... yes! wink
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to feel as though the other person really needs you right then and there. there is a look that gets me everytime, can't discribe it but it makes my stomach flip everytime.
passion
whips

...and that too!! wink
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I totally agree about the look... I get that look a lot when we're out for the day in London when I can't do a damn thing about it... cool

Whaddya mean you can't do anything about it?!
I was once forced to duck into one of those time limited tardis-like toilets on Oxford Street by one of those self same looks.... :twisted:
Where there's a will, there's a way! wink
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Being open enough to share your most crazy and wanted fantasies and knowing the other will do their best to make them happen.

Yep. Totally. Oh yes.
Got caught in one of those, and the door opened suddenly one day while I was in the middle of my ahem lady stuff.. and its put me off going in them ever since... we usually have to wait till Thursday as we are too knackered by the time we get back from London!
(doesn't know whats hit him then... he he)
If you know of any other places though mind....
ps I do the same to him... specially when he's wearing thin trousers.. he he !!!!!
Quote by noladreams30
I totally agree about the look... I get that look a lot when we're out for the day in London when I can't do a damn thing about it... cool

Whaddya mean you can't do anything about it?!
I was once forced to duck into one of those time limited tardis-like toilets on Oxford Street by one of those self same looks.... :twisted:
Where there's a will, there's a way! wink :shock: