I reckon that heading will draw the attention you are looking for no problem.
Another locked forum in the making I do believe.
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it's like footballers wife's without the footballers
And without the wife's by the sound of it!
I have to be honest, we have met a few single guys over the last couple of years but we are not interested in the slightest in a guy that says his wife is cool but doesn't want to get involved. Honesty is the way forward when playing as far as I am concerned.
And without the wife's by the sound of it!
I have to be honest, we have met a few single guys over the last couple of years but we are not interested in the slightest in a guy that says his wife is cool but doesn't want to get involved. Honesty is the way forward when playing as far as I am concerned.
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Written by a loving married guy, who has a single profile, with a loving wife that insists he swings alone. Man you so have it sorted don’t you. :?
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I wouldn't know she has a tree over her face.. that was a hint btw 
But it's a nice tree - Invite sent
But it's a nice tree - Invite sent
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Quote by nostringsluton
How else is a guy about to get married answer this.... My beautiful fiancée of course!
My naughty mind without a doubt!
That'll be me in the good books for a day or 2.
pass me the bucket
Hey come on that just isn't called for! She isn't that bad.... is she?
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How else is a guy about to get married answer this.... My beautiful fiancée of course!
My naughty mind without a doubt!
That'll be me in the good books for a day or 2.
My naughty mind without a doubt!
That'll be me in the good books for a day or 2.
Sexlightened
Now how fab does all that sound! Being the spotter I am that sounds like the type of place I would enjoying photographing anyway.
I have been to a few places I have seen on those sites Nola but they have all been used to shelter sheep. Sheep shit filled barns just doesn’t quite do it! :eek: I also went to an old mine with the intension of doing some bondage shots but it was in the same condition.
I will keep looking though something "sheep free" will turn up.
I have been to a few places I have seen on those sites Nola but they have all been used to shelter sheep. Sheep shit filled barns just doesn’t quite do it! :eek: I also went to an old mine with the intension of doing some bondage shots but it was in the same condition.
I will keep looking though something "sheep free" will turn up.
Sexlightened
Right! Looks like I have to get my balls in my hand and go and ask a local farmer...
Sexlightened
Quote by Trevaunance
We (Mainly mr T to be fair, Mrs T is blonde) have often thought out what we want to write to help people in this and other forums only to find that we have been ignored.
Perhaps it is because people skim from the first post to the last, and I don't doubt some of it is clique, but on the whole most sensible threads here are answered sensibly, although they usually fall into a pile of mush after.
You have a very valid point there Trev but when there is only one reply then that is definitely laziness.
Great photos by the way.
Sexlightened
Can I do you while you do her... in exchange for barn intelligence? ;)
Everyone's a winner (me twice)!
Everyone's a winner (me twice)!
Sexlightened
Or maybe bring her around here I am will do it for you. 
and only 24.... this guy is definitely going to enjoy a swinging life!
and only 24.... this guy is definitely going to enjoy a swinging life!
Sexlightened
Erotic chat in bed, take it gentle and see what turns her on. You never know you might discover things you both didn't know you like.
Slow is the key though and take note of her every reaction, swinging is fun but not as valuable as a good relationship.
Slow is the key though and take note of her every reaction, swinging is fun but not as valuable as a good relationship.
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I am looking for a suitable barn to do some naked photography, does anyone have any contacts that may let me use it?
I want to get a generator in there so I can set up proper lighting etc so it needs to be with the owner’s consent. It goes withought saying they will be able to hang around to watch if they so wish.
Failing that I am going to have to grow some balls and go and knock on a few doors.
I want to get a generator in there so I can set up proper lighting etc so it needs to be with the owner’s consent. It goes withought saying they will be able to hang around to watch if they so wish.
Failing that I am going to have to grow some balls and go and knock on a few doors.
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Quote by bIoke
I would say just keep banging away, dont take any disagreement or silences personally, and be as true to yourself as you possibly can.
:doh:
Where did you pop up from you handsome luton bastard?! ;)
I know you're straight... but that's just a starting point for negotiations as far as this place is concerned. Nola told me! :rascal:
2_of_a_kind - good to see you posting again. I think you're referring to the advice you gave in Let's Meet Up and didn't even receive a 'thank you'.
I thought it was rude also but I guess the Forum is just a representation of life and there's people there I find rude too
Perhaps we should shag mr luton handsome man as a distraction... you guys take the front and I'll take the back
That is so funny and I can just see you saying that. I have to admit Mrs 2 did make comment with regards to him last night and I was going to say but didn't want to appear a creep!
Good to make contact with you we have been off the scene for a while.
Sexlightened
Morning all and how nice to wake to such a valid response. Most people though seem to focus on me feeling ignored which actually doesn’t concern me. My point really is just how rude (I feel) people are getting today.
Example:-
Thread - we are going to stay in Weymouth on the 9th to 11th of September we are looking for a bed and breakfast would be good if it was for swingers and we would also like to meet some swingers down there also maybe if there is we would also like to go to a club so any info would be great
My response - The only swinging club in Dorset is
We went there once and vowed not to go again but you never know I guess. We were the only couple and about 15 single guys that followed our every move. Studland nudist beach is always worth a visit but of course that all depends on the weather.
We always found this site pretty good and lots of genuine people around. I seem to remember a few b&b’s being in the area but have no details so you will have to google it. Again I am sure these were towards Bournemouth though and there definitely isn’t any in Weymouth.
No further threads apart from a guy wanting to meet them and no response from them...
Nothing drastic just a little (all to common) rude.
Example:-
Thread - we are going to stay in Weymouth on the 9th to 11th of September we are looking for a bed and breakfast would be good if it was for swingers and we would also like to meet some swingers down there also maybe if there is we would also like to go to a club so any info would be great
My response - The only swinging club in Dorset is
We went there once and vowed not to go again but you never know I guess. We were the only couple and about 15 single guys that followed our every move. Studland nudist beach is always worth a visit but of course that all depends on the weather.
We always found this site pretty good and lots of genuine people around. I seem to remember a few b&b’s being in the area but have no details so you will have to google it. Again I am sure these were towards Bournemouth though and there definitely isn’t any in Weymouth.
No further threads apart from a guy wanting to meet them and no response from them...
Nothing drastic just a little (all to common) rude.
Sexlightened
Nice chatting but time for my bed.
27 Sept Birmingham v Leeds it's been a while looking forward to it!
27 Sept Birmingham v Leeds it's been a while looking forward to it!
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If you're asking me...the (once) Mighty Leeds
Your very right they were.
I have never been into Leeds football but used to be an avid visitor of the Rhinos.
Your very right they were.
I have never been into Leeds football but used to be an avid visitor of the Rhinos.
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Quote by nostringsluton
our first game called off
I like this subject thanks 2 of a kind for posting this in the forum
My pleasure mate.
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Quote by nostringsluton
our first game called off
I like this subject thanks 2 of a kind for posting this in the forum
My pleasure pal
Sexlightened
Quote by nostringsluton
oh dear
That is a great result without a doubt. I support Birmingham but keep that quiet because we had an awful season and quite deservingly went down.
Still above Luton though so don't push it!
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well they win most weekends so i guess the point is not a valid one
Hey good news pal that's what we love to hear on here.
Hey good news pal that's what we love to hear on here.
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I agree with all of that max and I can be most certainly guilty o miss reading someone’s humour. Therefore tend to play with it a little to see which way it goes.
Good or bad? - Not too sure but be assured nice people always rise to the top. This week’s rioting is a typical example - an idiot in the press one day and gone the next.
The focus in the local communities will soon belong to those that put it right.
Good or bad? - Not too sure but be assured nice people always rise to the top. This week’s rioting is a typical example - an idiot in the press one day and gone the next.
The focus in the local communities will soon belong to those that put it right.
Sexlightened
does that mean for the other 30 odd Saturdays they will be crap?
A very valid and probable point :wink:
A very valid and probable point :wink:
Sexlightened
Now of course different threads require different responses.
QUITE OFTEN I think there tends to be a pattern. If someone is asking a sensible question that requires specific information then they tend to get one from someone that "appears" to be rather knowledgeable. Very often they then ignore the response.
Whereas when someone throws out a pretty open bit of drivel such as this thread it attracts 2 kinds of response. That of the wiser person that has been around a little and that of the "let’s see who I can wind up because I am incapable of saying anything of any use".
Personally I love people and are very interested in reading people’s behaviour so I love them all.
QUITE OFTEN I think there tends to be a pattern. If someone is asking a sensible question that requires specific information then they tend to get one from someone that "appears" to be rather knowledgeable. Very often they then ignore the response.
Whereas when someone throws out a pretty open bit of drivel such as this thread it attracts 2 kinds of response. That of the wiser person that has been around a little and that of the "let’s see who I can wind up because I am incapable of saying anything of any use".
Personally I love people and are very interested in reading people’s behaviour so I love them all.
Sexlightened
Hey Nola I don't take it personally at all it is merely an observation. I just think if you are telling people what they want to know then a little acknowledgement wouldn’t go a miss.
To everyone else, just so I can’t be called a hypocrite thank you so much for your valid response and particularly for informing me that Luton have a football team that could be really useful one day.
To everyone else, just so I can’t be called a hypocrite thank you so much for your valid response and particularly for informing me that Luton have a football team that could be really useful one day.
Sexlightened
Just wondering.... Do you find it a little rude if you give a detailed response to someone’s thread and they don't even bother to acknowledge it.
Maybe I am just expect too much from people?
Maybe I am just expect too much from people?
Sexlightened
My alarm clock every morning..... Ggrrraaa.... wake up hot and horny on a daily basis!!! :twisted:
