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Dan_Lexa
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 57
Bisexual Female, 55
0 miles · Tyne and Wear

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It would be good if you could filter to find those, who were part of a couple who were interested in playing with other women on their own too. Otherwise it just makes it so much harder.
Ive been looking for a regular playmate, who lives bloody close enough for spur of the moment fun, Kat and Dee evil I'm been chatting with someone who's part of a couple and this may work but I'd certainly never expect her to spend time with Dan and I and leave her own partner. Which is a shame, coz that would be fun too.
And frankly I' d never bother getting in touch with someone who had no text or pics on their profile, so that really narrows things down here.
Ho hum! Clubs and one night stands it is confused
Barbeque on a bacon sarnie, unless its in toast. Then its red all the way
There are a number of sites that offer rooms for a few hours, mainly close to airports for those who are flying. Places like dayroom. Try searching for rooms by the hour
But when she is on, ask her how she'd like to put it. It is her you're talking about after all. And if you cant honestly and openly discuss that, what hope is there?
Don't answer that, I know, probably a lot of hope biggrin
short notice but we don't get the opportunity often to have spur of the moment fun.
Anyone up for something spontaneous tonight
Some people just like to look. Often over and over again, thats maybe all they're here for.
Trust me, happens to us all.
Dont have expectations, that way you cant be disappointed biggrin
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Different... A guy (trannie or simply bi or gay) knows exactly what a guy wants from a BJ, a girl has to learn smile

I'd like to think thats part of the fun;)
Lex
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As long as it aint in my eyes i'm not really that fussed, oh and in my hair, dont like it in my hair coz i always feel like Cameron Diaz in There's Something About Mary

Oh Kat, the hair is most definitely special occasions only. Birthdays and anniversarieslol
Single profiles offering wife pic swap in chat sits a little uneasy too.
If wifes into it why you got a single profile?
Not saying there may be occasions its all up and above board, but in general hmmmm not so sure
Hate when they send those automated messages saying i really like your profile take a look at mine and tell me what you think.
You go and theres nothing on it - have been tempted a few times to really say what i think.
Thanks for making our first sh social a great one. It was lovely meeting so many wonderful people fir the first time lol
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They're just like Jason Bourne wink but sexier.

Jason Bourne, now that is pretty damned sexy it must be said
Guess everyone is here for their own reasons. And everyones are not the same thats for sure.
There no doubt are lots who just want to jack off to any intimate details you're prepared to share and the photos on our profiles, clue is they often don't have anything on their own profile but yet are still happy to ask to see your private albums.
Like in most other aspects of life too, its wading through, being patient and you'll find what you're after. Even those single guys that are annoying you will come across someone who is more than willing, who wants to give them what they're after, its why they're persistent and why they're always still around.
My suggestion is if it doesn't feel right just move on. Theres someone for everyone here, no matter what you're after, just gotta find the right ones for you.
And hence jack of spades, a white guy who also has a thing for black guys
Think this is a bit of a minefield really. And I guess a lot depends on what you're after from here. If its purely sex then your attitude may be slightly different to someone who enjoys the social side of things and building some kind of friendship/"relationship" with the people you encounter.
An uninvited message can be an interesting, funny, exciting, enticing start to something if you let it. Equally it may be very dull, or on occasion also, quite offensive. I do admit to taking everything that comes our way on its own merits, invited or otherwise, maybe thats just me.
As in life, you have to be fairly thick skinned and laid back at the same time, taking on some of the responsibility for what you do and don't want. There are facilities that are fairly good at weeding out some of the things you may not want such as; information on your profile, the ability to prevent certain groups of people being able to message you, or blocking someone from viewing and contacting you. But as in life in general its not always perfect.
I would like to add its not always only single males who are guilty of this. Our profile does state we don't accept a random friend request. Not something I do walking down the street, why would I do it here, but we get them, from couples who obviously haven't read our profile. But, if their profile sounds like they may be interesting people, I will try and engage them in chat and find out a bit more.
I guess what Im trying to say is, it does happen and you have 2 choices. Get yourself worked up and allow it to spoil what you've got going on. Or, ignore it, delete it, block them, laugh about it happening, again!, and move on to something you do want.
A fucks a fuck basically, any relationship is surely built on more than that.
If you think thats gonna make or break your relationship I'd be questioning:
is your relationship what you thought it was and why are you doing this?
And most importantly I'd be speaking to your partner about it.
Just my opinion, but I figured you wanted it, thats why you asked in the forum.
Hope turns out well :-)
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Forget cakes. Give me a Peanut Butter Kit Kat any day!! (EVERY day) lol
On a serious note... Any cake that's a chocolate one. That'll do me. Notice a theme here? smile

You'd love our dessert home delivery then, they do a Reese's chocolate cake. Whats not to love there?
Most used take away menu in our house.
Lethal after a few drinks.
"Dessert home delivery"?? What the??!! God, we dont get any of that down this way :sad: . Do they also delivery tubes of body chocolate? wink
You need to discover the pleasures. Nothing quite like that indulgence at 2 in the morning on a whim. Something simply disgustingly perfect about hot chocolate cake and ice cream arriving on your doorstep
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Forget cakes. Give me a Peanut Butter Kit Kat any day!! (EVERY day) lol
On a serious note... Any cake that's a chocolate one. That'll do me. Notice a theme here? smile

You'd love our dessert home delivery then, they do a Reese's chocolate cake. Whats not to love there?
Most used take away menu in our house.
Lethal after a few drinks.
Must admit this tour doesnt do it for me. Im still in hibernation till Paris Nice
Im much more of a spring classics girl really, looking forward to some god forsaken flandrian weather when all the hardmen come out to play lol
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not strictly a meet as such but i did have an obscene amount of sex on Christmas Day - afternoon naps are a great invention :rascal:

Squeeze it in where you can girl :twisted:
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I'll have one of each of these please :twisted:

The men or the shorts? wink
I dont care whether they come with the shorts.
Ive got teeth, i can pull them off :mrgreen:
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Or boxer briefs? wink


Useful to know, in case of a clothing removal situation....

I'll have one of each of these please :twisted:
I can see me adding to this all the time now.
Was listening to sexy boy by air on the way home, makes me feel quite flirtatious.
In fact makes me want to crawl over you, naked, except for some killer heels and a mischievous glint.
I may have to lick you too!!
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Just been browsing on lovehoney (as you do) and came across this...

surprised

Oh jesus!!!
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Gemini would be nice!
We could have a twin each.

Being Gemini I think its fairly spot on. I can be fairly changeable, 2 sided
Lex wink
Ooooooh Lexa - i had a feeling you were a Gemini kiss 69position
Yep both ends of the spectrum :wink:
Oooh love a bit portishead very sexy.
That filthy guitar at around the 2 min mark on glorybox is quite obscene. Love it