Hi Pink & Blue,
Thanks for a great party last night - it was great to meet up with people and make some new friends. Lets us know if your organising more events.
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DeeDan
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 47
Gay Male, 47
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'....an annual Olympic-style schools sport event'
These surely already happen - they certainly do in Athletics and other major sports, just not in one competition. I am really into sports, however, I don't think its a good idea to have a PE lesson everyday - its way more important that we have scientists/engineers than top quality sports people.
However, going back to the topic of school playing fields - the high school I went to had huge fields, still does. However, when i was a kid these were open for anyone to use out of school hours. Now they are all fenced in and nobody can use them. Moronic really.
These surely already happen - they certainly do in Athletics and other major sports, just not in one competition. I am really into sports, however, I don't think its a good idea to have a PE lesson everyday - its way more important that we have scientists/engineers than top quality sports people.
However, going back to the topic of school playing fields - the high school I went to had huge fields, still does. However, when i was a kid these were open for anyone to use out of school hours. Now they are all fenced in and nobody can use them. Moronic really.
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I do agree with the above - the story of 'missed chance' is always heartbreaking, The Cavendish/Wiggins story for example. I feel more sorry for Cav than I am happy for the Wiggo win. Personally, I have loved the Gymnastics today. I was lucky enough to go to the Women's Team Final yesterday. Truly amazing
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the thing is that foreign players of the same standard as home grown players are far cheaper - for example, English player than show a bit of promise get signed up to huge deals - players like Andy Carroll and Jordan Henderson. Clubs are just businesses and will do what's best for their business - hence the go for best value.
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thanks LB1 for the advice on going to socials/clubs, though I think my rabbit caught in the headlights look will be a turn off for most :shock: seriously though, I am intimidated by the prospect of going and trying to be cool and sexy when I'm nervous as hell. Guess I'm just ignorant cos don't know where to go to or what to expect either. I thought I had to get invited to stuff via the site to go to socials, is that right? 'How do I get involved?' is the short question.
You wonder if, when I fuck a woman, I'll hate it? I know I like kissing women and I like the female body, frankly its been doing my nut in thinking about it. I don't want to dump a load of psychological baggage onto someone when I meet them, but if I am getting on with someone, I want them to understand I'm experimenting and broadening my horizons, how do you say something like that?
Ughhhh
Thanks x
You wonder if, when I fuck a woman, I'll hate it? I know I like kissing women and I like the female body, frankly its been doing my nut in thinking about it. I don't want to dump a load of psychological baggage onto someone when I meet them, but if I am getting on with someone, I want them to understand I'm experimenting and broadening my horizons, how do you say something like that?
Ughhhh
Thanks x
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OK so this isn't exactly the same as your situation, but similar...
This year, after 9 years of monogamy, I had to have a conversation with my hubby. Basically, we had let our sex life go a little stale, and we both realized it was important enough to us both to not neglect it any more. It was very hard to start the conversation, and I'm sure this is the one common experience to people using this site. I just said that I needed a better sex life, that I love him and that us getting along was the most important thing, as it was obviously putting a strain on the relationship. After that we talked about our fantasies without judging each other, actually it was rather fun and that's where the whole bi thing cropped up. Being in a gay relationship is different obviously, I didnt have to worry about issues like stigma or children, but I think what would be the same is the determination to give your partner the benefit of the doubt.
I hope that gave you some perspective, good luck whatever you do.
This year, after 9 years of monogamy, I had to have a conversation with my hubby. Basically, we had let our sex life go a little stale, and we both realized it was important enough to us both to not neglect it any more. It was very hard to start the conversation, and I'm sure this is the one common experience to people using this site. I just said that I needed a better sex life, that I love him and that us getting along was the most important thing, as it was obviously putting a strain on the relationship. After that we talked about our fantasies without judging each other, actually it was rather fun and that's where the whole bi thing cropped up. Being in a gay relationship is different obviously, I didnt have to worry about issues like stigma or children, but I think what would be the same is the determination to give your partner the benefit of the doubt.
I hope that gave you some perspective, good luck whatever you do.
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Ok more 'technical questions' and if there are relevant posts about this I do apologize, but here goes. So as per above I've got these interests/fantasies and Dee (my husband) has others, so how would we address this in our activities and looking for sections of our profile? So I want to find fems and Dee doesn't so do we say we are looking for fems or not? Am I just a complete idiot? Guess I'm still teething with using the site.
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Nobody should ever need that much Ham! Still hate Tesco though. I bet Tesco (and other supermarkets) use the defense that 'they don't want to be sued by people who take food out of bins that then makes then ill.' Therefore, like you say, the sign saying 'contents taken at your own risk' would work well.
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Most Federations, Governemnts, Religious Organisatins and Corporations are corrupt. People always want power etc etc.
I love football, but am often turned off by it as it could be made so much better.
Restrospectivly banning players that dive, and immediate yellow cards to shouting at a ref. But the FIFA, FA, UEFA etc all are gutless to introduce such measures.
Just my two sense.
I love football, but am often turned off by it as it could be made so much better.
Restrospectivly banning players that dive, and immediate yellow cards to shouting at a ref. But the FIFA, FA, UEFA etc all are gutless to introduce such measures.
Just my two sense.
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I have tried, but doesn't the mm couple thing scare people off? it is early days, I suppose. Its just how do i explain its just me looking and that he's not interested, without a convoluted advert. how do I point out which one in the pics i am? I have never been with girls or couples and haven't a clue what to say or do.
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I think that makes total sense. Once something is on the street - anyone should be able to look and take what they want. Why not?
It does amaze me that supoermarkets don't make a deal out of donating the food to local farms or homeless people. The PR they would get would be great.
It does amaze me that supoermarkets don't make a deal out of donating the food to local farms or homeless people. The PR they would get would be great.
