I haven't been to any Radlett parties...but having been to several clubs and a few house-parties I would say that as long as you have your boundaries set (ie: what you both will and won't do with other people) then you will be just fine...
In the meantime join in the Forums and maybe even get to a Munch or Social where you'll meet other Swingers in a safe no-play environment...
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DreamerHelen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 47
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Wow, talk about a thread from wayaaaaay back!!! 
I still haven't had full anal sex...just lots of playing about....
I kind of feel like I want to do it witha good friend, I wouldn't feel right doing it with someone I've only met a few hours before...
But I DO love the idea of doing it...and yes, that really full feeling sounds good...
I still haven't had full anal sex...just lots of playing about....
I kind of feel like I want to do it witha good friend, I wouldn't feel right doing it with someone I've only met a few hours before...
But I DO love the idea of doing it...and yes, that really full feeling sounds good...
I used to work at the Dorchester Hotel in London and saw the following:
Nicholas Cage
George Clooney
Alicia Silverstone
Arnold Swarcheneggar (spelling)
Nelson Mandela
I have also seen Tom Jones walking down the street surrounded by Bodyguards and bejewelled women..LoL...and have also seen Christopher Lambert, but I was young and didnt know who he was.
Also went (was in the crowd) for Phantom Menace and saw Ewan McGregor and Samuel L Jackson and Jonathan Ross...
But actually, the person I remember the most fondly and really enjoyed speaking with was Roy Castle, I went to a Church Service where he was playing the Trumpet and I asked him for his autograph, I was shaking....LoL...but he was sooooo nice...
Nicholas Cage
George Clooney
Alicia Silverstone
Arnold Swarcheneggar (spelling)
Nelson Mandela
I have also seen Tom Jones walking down the street surrounded by Bodyguards and bejewelled women..LoL...and have also seen Christopher Lambert, but I was young and didnt know who he was.
Also went (was in the crowd) for Phantom Menace and saw Ewan McGregor and Samuel L Jackson and Jonathan Ross...
But actually, the person I remember the most fondly and really enjoyed speaking with was Roy Castle, I went to a Church Service where he was playing the Trumpet and I asked him for his autograph, I was shaking....LoL...but he was sooooo nice...
For me it is about the person not the size that they are...although admittedly I DO prefer a larger man, but I think that's cause I'm large myself...but I have played with slim men and larger men and its just about their personality and whether I click with them or not...
Just be yourself, people will like you for YOU regardless of what size you are. I used to think that nobody would ever fancy me cause of my size, and although I'm trying to lose weight I'm not doing it to get a man...I'm doing it cause it's healthier for me...but anyway, just join in the forums and chat and get to know us and let people get to know you...
Just be yourself, people will like you for YOU regardless of what size you are. I used to think that nobody would ever fancy me cause of my size, and although I'm trying to lose weight I'm not doing it to get a man...I'm doing it cause it's healthier for me...but anyway, just join in the forums and chat and get to know us and let people get to know you...
I personally would not swing with someone that was pissed as a fart....but would with someone that was slightly merry....
I personally DO get very horny when drunk.....but I'm not sure I would be any good at shagging while really pissed....although I DO rather like being touched or stroked as my skin feels more sensitive and I feel more sensual....
I personally DO get very horny when drunk.....but I'm not sure I would be any good at shagging while really pissed....although I DO rather like being touched or stroked as my skin feels more sensitive and I feel more sensual....
I quite like the idea of a specialist Socials.....I mean, why not? I think as long as people aren't too strict on who they see there.....that means everyone is theoretically welcome but there would be an overwhelming majority of *Inset Specialist People here*.....
Maybe I should go and look at the BBW Social again :rascal:
Maybe I should go and look at the BBW Social again :rascal:
Got home at just after 6pm.....the Journey home was fine, so after all my moaning it wasn't that bad!! LoL
Thanks Kaz (and all the helpers) for a wonderful Munch....it was amazing....sooooo many people there I couldn't believe it....
I enjoyed judging the best-dressed....it was a very close run thing between the females...!! But congrats to HLB and MikeC....
Special thanks goes to my roomie for putting up with my snoring....
(I don't really snore!! Honest I don't!! LoL)....
Can't wait till the next one...
Thanks Kaz (and all the helpers) for a wonderful Munch....it was amazing....sooooo many people there I couldn't believe it....
I enjoyed judging the best-dressed....it was a very close run thing between the females...!! But congrats to HLB and MikeC....
Special thanks goes to my roomie for putting up with my snoring....
(I don't really snore!! Honest I don't!! LoL)....Can't wait till the next one...
I just love Munches.....have been to loads now but I still get really nervous before I get there....
Until I get there and see everyone and get loads of hugs from people.....
And the actual Munch itself is great fun....especially if there is Karaoke there and I can listen to Stuart doing his usual!!
And then there are After-Munch Parties....where we all just sit around and chat for hours while people disappear off for a little while and come back...LoL
And the morning after is great fun, especially cause I hardly ever drink, so I can watch people with dark sunglasses on trying to eat breakfast...LoL...
The only thing I don't like is the Post Munch Blues.....I always get really down after a Munch.....a bit like overload.....
Until I get there and see everyone and get loads of hugs from people.....
And the actual Munch itself is great fun....especially if there is Karaoke there and I can listen to Stuart doing his usual!!
And then there are After-Munch Parties....where we all just sit around and chat for hours while people disappear off for a little while and come back...LoL
And the morning after is great fun, especially cause I hardly ever drink, so I can watch people with dark sunglasses on trying to eat breakfast...LoL...
The only thing I don't like is the Post Munch Blues.....I always get really down after a Munch.....a bit like overload.....
The first time I properly snogged a woman was really horny.....I wanted to do more than that, but didn't quite know whether I could and whether I would please her or not....
I think if you want to go for it then go for it, but just tell the woman that you have never done it before....and that you want to go slowly.....and just find out what you like and what you don't like....
I think if you want to go for it then go for it, but just tell the woman that you have never done it before....and that you want to go slowly.....and just find out what you like and what you don't like....
Yeah, stop worrying so much!! Size really isn't an issue, at least not for me, I would much prefer an average sized cock with a guy that knows exactly what he is doing as opposed to a huge big cock with a guy that thinks it's acceptable to shove it in, do a few thrusts and then cum all over my tits!! 
Quote by jaymar
We had a meet last year which was great, we were all nervous and went for drinks first. Even the drinks didn't really get rid of the nerves. Back at this couple's house, they got out a board game of the naughty kind
What you need to remember is that if you are feeling nervous, you can bet your bottom dollar the other couple are also.
I think that's brilliant advice!! :thumbup:
The best thing to do is just have a drink at the local pub....just chat about normal sort of things.....get easy with each other and then maybe suggest that he comes back to yours....
When you get back to yours you can either suggest going straight upstairs (although that might be a little scary for him) or get a bottle of wine out and some nibbles and start by kissing and light stuff before you go for the heavy stuff....
When you get back to yours you can either suggest going straight upstairs (although that might be a little scary for him) or get a bottle of wine out and some nibbles and start by kissing and light stuff before you go for the heavy stuff....
