My Mum probably knows since I have had a couple of people here to stay and she knows that one of them was married with his wife's consent...LoL...so I think it's fairly certain that she probably knows...but I wouldn't just come out and say "I'm a Swinger Mum"....that would be weird.
My Uncle actually does know....and I have started to talk to him a bit...although obviously not giving him any detail....just my feelings and stuff....
My Dad and Grandparents would go mad if they knew....and my Dad especially doesn't like to hear the remotest hint that I have a sex life...
My Brother and Sister-in-law keep saying things like "are you going to one of your dirty parties again" when I tell them I'm going away for the weekend...LoL
But all in all I prefer to keep it private....
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DreamerHelen
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 47
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Well as you can see from my Avatar, I just love being tied up....I find it extremely horny and erotic....
But so far, there is only one person that I have tried it with....and it was soooo horny because I totally trusted him and knew that he wouldn't go beyond my boundaries.....it certainly opened my eyes to some of the things that I like....I also enjoyed being thoroughly and completed whipped!!
I would say, that if you have it your mind to do it then do it, but make sure it is with someone that you trust completely and know where your boundaries lie...
But so far, there is only one person that I have tried it with....and it was soooo horny because I totally trusted him and knew that he wouldn't go beyond my boundaries.....it certainly opened my eyes to some of the things that I like....I also enjoyed being thoroughly and completed whipped!!
I would say, that if you have it your mind to do it then do it, but make sure it is with someone that you trust completely and know where your boundaries lie...
I love going to Social's and Munches as well.....
And I have to say that it is refreshing to be with people where I can have a snog and a grope (over clothes obviously!!) of someone's arse and it not be construed as I want to shag them.....if you see what I mean....it just means I like them and feel comfortable to flirt with them...
Social's and Munches are also great for getting to know people and just generally having a good laugh....
If you haven't been on one then I highly recommend that you try it!!
And I have to say that it is refreshing to be with people where I can have a snog and a grope (over clothes obviously!!) of someone's arse and it not be construed as I want to shag them.....if you see what I mean....it just means I like them and feel comfortable to flirt with them...
Social's and Munches are also great for getting to know people and just generally having a good laugh....
If you haven't been on one then I highly recommend that you try it!!
Quote by jesster
One serious word of warning!!
If you are feeling a little windy the morning after a night on the beer and a hot curry to finish off.
DO NOT under any circumstances try to let even a little one go! There is a serious possibility of following through :shock:
So ive been told :lol:
Ewwwww Jesster!!!! LoL :lol:
I'm not sitting next to you in the Jacuzzi then!!! LoL
LoLI realise I haven't been that regular on here but hopefully that will change soon....but I'm sure there are some people who still remember me and can vouch for me....
So, having said that, can I come to this please? Pretty please?
I most likely won't stay over though.....as I don't live far away.....but it sounds like a really good shindig...
So, having said that, can I come to this please? Pretty please?
I most likely won't stay over though.....as I don't live far away.....but it sounds like a really good shindig...
Great post Dammie hun!!
I don't know if I can answer this or not.....but I will just give my opinion...
For me, Monogamy is quite easy....I am happy to be with just one person if I am totally in love with that person....but I agree with HLB that it is knowing that I can have sex with someone else if I want to.....that keeps things current and exciting for me....
I am single, so the issue is not there at the moment but I can't imagine being told that I wasn't allowed to sleep with other men......any man who I got together with would have to understand me better than that...or there would be no point....
I don't know if that makes sense or not....it's just my insane ramblings LoL
I don't know if I can answer this or not.....but I will just give my opinion...
For me, Monogamy is quite easy....I am happy to be with just one person if I am totally in love with that person....but I agree with HLB that it is knowing that I can have sex with someone else if I want to.....that keeps things current and exciting for me....
I am single, so the issue is not there at the moment but I can't imagine being told that I wasn't allowed to sleep with other men......any man who I got together with would have to understand me better than that...or there would be no point....
I don't know if that makes sense or not....it's just my insane ramblings LoL
Unfortunately, and I'm NOT tarring ALL single males with the same brush, but there are quite a few single males that don't bother reading the Ad's and just PM everybody with the hope of getting a shag.....
My Advice would be to get involved in the Forum's and get to know people here on a Social basis first and then maybe you will find someone you want to have some fun with....
But also, the great thing about this Site is that you CAN just ignore people if they PM you....or just delete them straight away without giving them another thought
My Advice would be to get involved in the Forum's and get to know people here on a Social basis first and then maybe you will find someone you want to have some fun with....
But also, the great thing about this Site is that you CAN just ignore people if they PM you....or just delete them straight away without giving them another thought
I agree that Swinging is portrayed as "the male pressuring the female into whatever HE wants to do" when in fact it is nothing like that if Swinging is done properly...
In my mind, Swinging is about complete open-ness, so BOTH parts of the couple tell each other everything and set boundaries as to what they will and won't do...
In Life Begins...they had obviously set the boundary that sex was fine at Parties..and now the guy wants to cross that line by meeting up with someone outside of a Party situation.....the Wife just pretty much sits there in silence when what she should have done was tell him that it was not acceptable as far as she was concerned...
In my mind, Swinging is about complete open-ness, so BOTH parts of the couple tell each other everything and set boundaries as to what they will and won't do...
In Life Begins...they had obviously set the boundary that sex was fine at Parties..and now the guy wants to cross that line by meeting up with someone outside of a Party situation.....the Wife just pretty much sits there in silence when what she should have done was tell him that it was not acceptable as far as she was concerned...
I think Steve Irwin was an amazing guy....yes I thought he was a bit of an arse but one who deserved respect for what he did for the environment and for animals....
I also felt that the fact that his wife heard about her husband's death on the Radio (or so I heard) is terrible....
RIP to a great guy and one that shall be remembered here with me....
I also felt that the fact that his wife heard about her husband's death on the Radio (or so I heard) is terrible....
RIP to a great guy and one that shall be remembered here with me....
