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Geoff
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 69
Bi-curious Female, 65
0 miles · Greater Manchester

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thinking of going to buddies hotel in blackpool thurs and fri next week. anyone here been. reviews are a bit mixed, if antone has any opinions would be delighted to hear them

Have posted a review which should appear shortly, but in a nutshell, we won't be going back. Staff and guests were all lovely, but the place itself leaves a lot to be desired.
Quote by just4fun4u
thinking of going to buddies hotel in blackpool thurs and fri next week. anyone here been. reviews are a bit mixed, if antone has any opinions would be delighted to hear them

We're going on Saturday, staying overnight, will post a review when we get back.
:swingingchair:
I seem to remember seeing Thursdays are gay/bi nights...
We'll be there (with another couple), staying overnight - come and say Hi if you happen to be there!
Geoff & Teri.
Quote by Zoe_steve
It is against the law in england to sell a bible on a Sunday but quite ok to sell a porn mag.
Quite ironic aint it
Z & S

I didn't think there was a difference. Have you read some of those bible stories?
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FFS coffee meets monitor moment :giggle:

Would love to have been able to join you, but Teri works weekday evenings. If you happen to be free any weekend, or weekday afternoons, we'd love to meet up for a drink/chat.
This weather's perfect for a day out up Rivvi!
I don't see why humiliation seems to be assumed, though I know that aspect exists. I don't feel the least bit humiliated...in fact I think a big turn on for me is the fact that other men find MY wife sexy.
It's made an incredible difference to our sex life since we started exploring that side of things.
In fact, she's been out all afternoon/evening with another guy, while I've been out for a drink with my mates, and I can't wait for her to get home and tell me all the details of what she's been up to!
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Geoff you do have a couples account. Try again today....system was playing up a little bit last night. (well was for me lol)

Cheers, Anais, yep it's a couple's account, but when I try to fill her details in the right hand box they don't appear on my profile..
dunno
Not ready to start paying for an upgrade just yet, we'll see how things go IRL...

Edit: It seems to have worked now! biggrin
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perhaps getting you profile changed to a couple and adding some info will get more responses for what you are looking for

I've tried to add my wife's details to my profile, but it doesn't change them after I submit it...?
My wife's recently started taking other lovers, with my full approval, though I haven't watched or joined in (yet!), and it really turns me on when she comes home and tells me what she's been doing!
Our sex life has needed "spicing up" for years, and this has really done the trick - we're now looking to be more adventurous!
Hi there!
Been a member for ages, but for various reasons not been on much recently, and things have changed!
We (Geoff & Teri) are a straight(ish) couple, married for 20+ years (I'm 54, she's 49). Sex life dwindled almost to non-existence over the years, till we (Teri really) realised we needed to spice things up. She's been taking lovers, with my full knowledge, for a while, and then telling me about her bedroom exploits later, which is an amazing turn-on for me, and leads to us having fantastic sex again!
Now looking to expand our horizons even more, either with me watching her with another guy, and maybe joining in, or better still with another couple.
Naah - my morals would get in the way. being a reporter is only one small step up from being a politician!
Hi Blue - yeah, spotted it after I'd posted, thanks. And thanks for lesson 2 too! Interesting, and certainly plausible.
Good stuff, this, innit? Evolutionary psychology and history on a swinging site at this time of night.
I'm an historian, amongst many other things, not just sexual history, but it's impossible to learn (or, as I do, teach) about any society without knowing something about it's sexual and religious customs, which were usually interconnected. Ishtar is one of my favourites though - later "copies" include Astarte in Phoenicia, Aphrodite in Greece and Venus in the Roman Empire. You (and Jags, and Heather) will no doubt be glad to hear that Mesopotamia, the earliest known civilisation, was originally a matriarchy! And quite right too - it's been all downhill since the men took over!
You sound very knowledgebale about the history of sex, will that be your specialised subject for Master Mind then

Did get on Mastermind once, ages ago - came third in one of the qualifying heats. My specialist subject was Lord of the Rings - now not allowed because so many people have chosen it! That was back in the days when my brain still worked.
Thanks Bluexxx - I asked for this in another thread before reading this one!
Where do I get an application form for "Dogging Outreach Co-ordinator"?
I could do that for £25k.
Mark, I think you should complain - no mention of swingingheaven!
Geoff
Hi Beckers
5% sounds about right, I'd say - but that means a 1 in 20 "success rate". How long will it take to reply to 20 ads? Compare that with the time spent on other (perhaps more conventional) methods of finding a partner. Yes, there are timewasters, just as there are girls who'll let you buy them drinks all night, then split. All part of the fun, and in my opinion that makes it all the more exciting when you finally do succeed.
Geoff
Cor! Pop out for a few hours and miss all the fun! Typical!
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Geoff - do you KNOW what Mark is doing these days??

Yes indeedy - trying to type with a beautiful little girl held in his arms! And coping extremely well, may I say.
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I sometimes choose to give up my superior position to enhance my pleasure

Yes mistress.
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Cold and white for me tonight
That would be a vote for ice cream, then?
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BTW Has anyone seen The Sun today? - there was a brill cartoon in it about dogging

Missed that - any chance you could scan and post it for us?
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So, any historians or an -ologist that can explain WHY homo erectus suddenly decided that sex in public was a bad thing?

Longer ago than you might think - sexual privacy has been the norm for all of recorded history (about 4500 years), though of course there have been societies less prudish than most. Mesopotamia (in particular the followers of the goddess Ishtar) has the oldest written records (found so far) and even then sex was normally private. Prostitution was common though, which is why it's often called the "oldest profession"
OK the bell's gone - off you go to your next lesson!
david4 wrote lots of stuff that I didn't bother to read all the way through, and he's been answered effectively already, so I won't add to that part.
Geoff
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I may end up doing a morning radio show live phone in on Monday morning

How about taping it and putting it on the site as an mp3 (in your spare time...?) wink
Geoff
Hmmm...never watched Dallas (unless you mean Brett Dallas {wigan RL player}) - can't stand all the plastic & silicone Barbie Dolls!
I suppose a bit of existentialism to go with the economics is ok...so who's to say life isn't all a dream, and we die when we wake up?
Meanwhile back in the asylum
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Geoff - down boy

Yes mistress, sorry, I'm all overcome with your pulchritude...
Geoff
(off to find a tissue)
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A man at my feet AND doing as he's told???? Nah.. it's just a dream!!
smile :)

Yes mistress.
May I suggest, then, that you don't wake up?
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...and the best way to a man's heart is through his rib cage....

Anatomically correct, though I suspect it's more effective to aim a bit lower... wink
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Best place for a man is at my feet!!

and yet again I find myself wishing I lived in the North East!
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Further sexualising women's lifestyles is disempowering them

Not in any swinging situation I've ever been in! The female is almost invariably the one with the final say, and we poor males (whinge, whinge, :wink: ) just do as we're told...
Geoff
Interestingly, and perhaps surprisingly, attendances there have dropped off since the "advert"; at least whenever I've been. Used to be guaranteed a show on a Friday or Saturday night - maybe the article has scared everybody off in case the cops have learned how to read? Still, I'll be along there tonight if the rain stops...
Apropos the complaints - it's never ever been a daylight spot, precisely for the reasons mentioned in the article, and as
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What are they doing letting their children loose in a park after dark anyway?

Geoff
Hi Blue, yes it was a great holiday - which is why I remember it so well after nearly 20 years!
Been away for a few days - details must, I regret, remain confidential to protect the (not so) innocent! Had a good time though wink
Mark tells me that the dogging press article will be on the site soon - something distracted him.... biggrin
Geoff
Finally found time to write chapter 2 - comments, as always, gratefully received!
Geoff
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A gang bang to me is more like a crowd, so the more people who are hanging around wanking and waiting the more gang bangish it appears.

My thoughts too, which is why I asked why less than 6. Only ever participated in one (so far) and there were 12 guys there (for 1 lady).
might depend on how many guys are participating at the same time - some ladies like having more than one "simultaneous entry"
If we take, say, 5 guys actively ...errr.... performing, another 5 waiting to recover for their "replay", plus three reserves for anyone lasting less than (say) half an hour, there's your rugby team!
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Ah, Mal, well I count a rugby team as 13 (not including subs) - but I'm league and I assume you are union!

indeedy! Want me to ask Andy Farrell and the lads if they're busy after the Hull game tomorrow?
geoff
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...and have decided that a gang bang is >2 men and <6 men to 1 woman.

Why <6 ?? surprised
Geoff
I'm sorely (oops) tempted to whinge just for the promised reward!
wink
Geoff
"time after time" Cyndi Lauper (yeah, I wish...) lol
*caught up in circles, confusion is nothing new!*
"total eclipse of the heart" Bonnie Tyler
*Every now and then I get a little bit restless and I dream of something wild*
"blanket on the ground" Billie jo Spears
*Just because we are married, don't mean we can't sleep around*
wink
Geoff
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Oh course, someone could take it upon themselves to organise something for the midlands too. We could have northern, southern and midland gang bang divisions. Then people from Scotland, Wales and Ireland would have to get in on the act too - blimey, the whole of Britain will be gang banging crazy soon :shock: - I wish wink

Hmmm...with promotion, relegation, and maybe even a county championship! Sky Sports, are you watching??? How much shall we charge for the TV rights? TVs are you watching?
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Did you seriously expect a null response???
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Never happen, mate, not with us lot in here!
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Keep up the good work, Mark!