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Yes, I too would love to at least see one, but taking part would be better. Surely some sex clubs must have a greedy hot wifes night.

Most clubs do ! We have watched a couple, but never got involved.

We are going on our first cruise in May. Really hope we get to hook up with someone or a couple for fun on the ship. Nothing prearranged, just normal chatting leading to a night of debauchery !

Just go to a swingers club and a lot of the single guys, maybe some couples, with the females acting as fluffers, would help you out.

The WAAF (Susannah York) girl in Battle of Britain, in her knickers and WAAF shirt.

We have been to a couple of camping weekend swinging events. Not organised by anyone on this site though.

We have also found a naturist site which has a fair proportion of swingers there in warm weather, so we intend to use that place a lot in 2025.

We started off our swinging lifestyle as softswingers, couples only. Then we had a series of single women, then Shel discovered she liked having MFM threesomes. Which is what we are mainly looking for now, though we would still like to meet couples.

We are looking for a decent guy who would become a regular meet for us. But it is difficult to find the right guy ! Problem is that first and foremost Shel want to find the cock which suits her. Yes, she enjoys mine, but for the extra one she is still finding out what size and shape suits her.

At first it was the novelty of a new cock and she came every time a new one entered her. But then she decided she wanted to try a long one, so we found such a guy, unfortunately as she has a small, tight fanny, a long one hurt her. Then she decided she wanted to try a guy we had known for years, rather than a more or less stranger from a swingers site. He was great to be with socially, but sexwise, he didn't do it for her, his cock was just too small.

Doesn't she sound like Goldilocks in the swinging scene, some were too big, some were too small and she has yet to find the one which is just right !

So now we need to find a guy who has an average length cock, but quite wide. He also has to be average build, clean shaven and personable, we will also only meet new single guys at swingers clubs. Needle (but let it be a thick one) and haystack (yeah, if she doesn't shave it for a year) spring to mind.

We don't give a hoot if he is married or not. If he can meet at a swingers club that's good enough for us.

We had another MFM threesome just this weekend. Unlike other times (usually it is men we meet at a club who are invited to join us) we had a guy who we have known for more than 15 years. He lost his wife a couple of years ago.

Anyway, long story short, Shel did enjoy the extra cock and he got to experience his first sloppy seconds.

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Are you members of Tando?

No, don't want to join a club. Prefer naturist sites where you just turn up, pay your money and have fun.

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Hi, has anybody been to the nudist beach in , what’s it like? Thx

It was great when we went ! Loads of sex on the beach.

We are and lots of our friends are also.

We are at a different festival that weekend, but have you considered Upton Blues which is the weekend before Rock and Blues. Great music and a few swingers get there as well.

When and where is this ?

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There are a few places in Blackpool, you could try Eureka in Kent.

Thought Eureka had shut down ?

There is a hotel in Blackpool dedicated to swingers, called Avant Guarde or similar.

Or look at Xtasia swingers club in West Bromwich. As well as being a massive swingers club, it has it's own hotel rooms and a newly opened spa area.

Shel is mostly smooth with a small patch of longish hair at the top of her fanny, she likes this pulled as part of foreplay, gently not ripping it out !

Strange there are no replies in this thread from the organisers. Is this club still going ?

We are at Cap from this Sat if you wanted to meet up for a drink of an evening.

When we meet a single guy at a club we have no idea if he's married or not. Unless he brings the subject up why should we.

It's probable you will appeal to some couples / single females and not at all appeal to some couples and single females because of your status.

Going back a lot of years SH meets and munches etc were excellent. Unfortunately the "critical mass" of the active members has dissipated and faded to nothing. We still get, very rarely a meet from here.

Our problem is that we only meet new people at clubs. So many people might contact us, then we say OK, meet you at xyz club and play there....................................then.....................................tumbleweed.

So many "single" men are scared to go to a club it seems.

Xtasia has hotel rooms and is a great club. Each hotel room has a sex swing or similar in there.

Why not go to a swingers club, it will certainly happen there for you.

Get her to take off her knickers in a bar, under the table, not stand up to do it obviously.

Who on SH could prevent you having a party if you want to do so ?

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Quote by Thomas1934
Hi all
It’s been on my bucket list for an awful long time to go to a nudist beach.
Is there any advice for a single lady? I’m getting impatient looking for someone (maybe a guy friend) to go with, it’s not a necessity. Or a friend/s

 We met up with a single lady at Vritomartis, Crete last year. As a hotel it’s fine for singles to book and she quickly made friends. It’s a classy place and the staff are excellent, with organised group activities if you want them. 

Just looked at their website, looks a great place, it's now on our to do list.

J&S

If you want your first time to be excellent rather than hit and miss then plan a weekend in the West Midlands.  Stay at Xtasia, they have their own hotel rooms, have a night there, then go to Chameleons the next day, they also have their own hotel rooms.

Check them out in the club reviews on here.

Compared to a NE club those two are like going to Vegas rather than going to Blackpool. 

IN the NE you have ClubF and Shhhh.

We prefer to travel to Xtasia in West Bromwich (best club in the UK in our opinion)

We'd suggest going to clubs (when they re-open).  We find it's easier to meet the right people at a club and none of the hassle of booking hotels or having people at your house or you going to theirs.

Shel will go knickerless as often as possible

We love watching it so that we can shout at the telly "Get rid of the one in the red (or whatever), he / she is nasty".   And also predicting who the winner will be. usually 90% correct.

We are often over in the NW at clubs, let us know if you want to meet.

Is your wife not interested in playing then ?    We presume you have asked her to play or visit a club with you ?