I think that we have to accept that there are many people on this site who get pleasure from the idea of meeting, talking openly, fantasising but not actually taking any action. They have no intention of actually pursuing their fantasies. the reasoning behind this are as varied as any individual may be. I haven't met anyone for a long time but do enjoy chatting and socialising with folks. It doesn't mean I am lazy it just means personally its not likely to as long as folks are honest initially there's no problem with this, but that's the crux I think , many aren't honest and therefore it does become a problem for people looking to actively meet. In edit am not a guy but this applies to both sexes lol
As far as a fetish goes...one persons preference may be different from another's but that doesn't mean its anything out of the ordinary. Its all shades of grey as they say nothing is black and white , who defines the norm ?. Swinging , is that out of the norm...possibly but then again if your single and choose to have several one night stands is that swinging, Many single people would say its normal. If you enjoy a particular type of sex or enjoy a particular activity is that a fetish. Its probably just less explored that another type. I hate labels, sex apart from procreation (back to Darwin) is about pleasure and apart from the stuff that has been defines#d as illegal all I can say is if u manage to meet another who derives pleasure from the same things that you do, well its gotta be a bonus.
I gush, squirt, whichever terminology suits. Like the poster above , yes I know when its about to happen and its pleasurable but for me its no where near as good as an orgasm. I guess its all about the individual and it would be better for me if it was as intense as an orgasm because I gush more frequently than I orgasm.
Kinda cheeky to ask ................but does anyone have a room share going, no stings as they say. Worth mentioning that I do snore.
Having a little road trip south soon , are there any swingers in Chertsey
Proper blankets on your bed
Dads donkey jacket on top of the blankets in the winter
Radio Rentals
Regular strikes by utility providers
Collecting sea coal from the beach for the fire
Visiting the whimpy bar was a treat
Having a take away meant fish n chips
Foreign food was a vesta meal
Your parents friends where always know as aunties and uncles
Saturday picture club
One of the things that I have observed is that whilst swingers often highly associate BDSM with sex, someone in the BDSM scene doesn't necessarily hold that view but that doesn't mean that both cannot share areas of commonality.
Hi folks Its bin a long time since I visited this venue and its about time I paid another visit, anyone local to me (that's stockon) going this weekend and available to give me a no strings lift am happy to contribute to fuel
Joy xx
Could I put my name down as provisional please an could you forward a hotel list
Thanks Joy xx
Why assume its foul mouthed , what do you base this on. Its a word for gods sake nothing more or less.
Why would anyone fuck someone if they weren't attracted to them on some level, physically or mentally either suffices but if there's none of that surely your better off wanking at least your own company is good.
I really don't get the offensive , no manners , shock tactics stuff....is it just me ?
As a society we apparently need offensive adjectives as much as we desire labels, all changeable as someone mentioned in the past its been used extensively I have no problem using the word during sex as I have no problem using other words , all I can conclude is that its up to an individual if they find it offensive or in any context.
Hell perhaps I should hang up my swinging boots, get out the hot chocolate and just generally admit that life should consist of only meals for one and being kind to animals and small children. Surely not ............
Anyone looking for a room share for this event, normal swinging rules apply .......totally non committal share costs yada yada. Ohh worth mentioning I snore (alledgedly)
ohhh look at that a merged subject how clever
I posted a very similar subject about 5 mins ago and its disappeared ....strange stuff or what .....guess thats my subscription gone on renewal date
I have been a member of sh for some 5 yrs but have noticed a massive change, is it a branding issue, do less ppl swing ........no idea but i have a poll and perhaps depending on the demograph of voters the owners make take note ggrrrrs dunno how to do the poll thing .......comments it is then
Is it too late too pop my name on the reserve list
Joy xx
I work in the public sector and will be working on the 30th November, not because I agree with the changes in pensions but because I don't beleive that striking will make one little bit of difference to the outcome. The time to make changes is on election day and even then it seems we are damned if we do and damned if we don't.
Myself I like a nice torso picture possibly with lots of flesh or if a little more teasing is required just an open shirt is fine. I deffo aint into cock shots.
I haven't read all the replys to this post but my first impression is one of "can you fookin believe the cheek of that" its a bit like saying yes I will meet you in my own home I can accommodate but by the way I need a contribution towards my rent, heating, lighting, council tax for the time that you are in my home whilst we are hopefully experiencing mutual pleasure.
The ability to "deep throat" relies on the ability to control your gag reflex, I doubt that this method would actually work, I have had the up the nose anaesthetic myself and its rank to say the least. Plus part of the pleasure of giving a bj that way is your control of the said reflex in the first place and the pleasure it can give.
Time for an update methinks , I am at the point now of either making the most of this humorously or sitting in the corner playing with my hair and sucking my thumb.........full team = 11 number of team in work today = 3 ohhh and on monday if no one comes back we will be a minority of two as someone is off to pastures new. I think the most amusing part is when the manager says "its my job to worry about the situation" which I agree it is but it doesn't take away the feeling of doom from the pit of my stomach..........So on that note has anyone any humorous work related stories that they can share to cheer me up after my 10 hr shift today.
Its a customer service role .......you know how it goes 70% pissed off ppl for one reason or another , that dont mean 70% are dissatisfied just those that are happy don't call back kinda thing.
Currently 50% of my team at work are off with stress related illnesses, now in no way am I belittling anyone who suffers from stress , have bin there got the t-shirt kinda thing but I do wonder does it reflect on the management of the situation..............comments welcome
Could I be squeezed in as a northern bird alongside Earthy n Tan please
I have reached a point in my life , some of us get them some of us don't when the option to take some risks arises. I have just applied for a job miles away from where I currently live ,about 3 hrs by car My kids have their own lives and are happy, I have no ties as such. On saying that I am 47 years old or young depending on your outlook. Could you or more importantly would you start afresh in a different region, job permitting etc.
Hope you have a fab time polly , they are very welcoming and relaxed
