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Jpsauce
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 46
Bi-curious Male, 51
0 miles · Lancashire
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speaking from both sides of the 'reception' counter here folkes.
As we both work in Hotels we know what goes on behind closed doors, you'd be foolish to think that the room was just used for sleeping only!
Most Hotels offer an express checkout where by you leave your credit card details with them and they do the rest in the morning.
As above, book a family room, or if staying at most Holiday Inn's (no we don't work for them), book a twin room as they have 2 double beds in them - perfect for 'entertaining'.
Returning to your room late in the evening (or very early morning) with company is never a good move as the Hotels night staff have a fairly strict policy on who is and who isn't allowed in - the old addage of 'if your names not on the list your not coming in' routine definately applies to the majority of Hotels.
ALso - if you are paying for an Hotel and are only wanting it for a few hours, use a travelodge or something similar as the people that stop there tend to be very transient, leaving after a few hours won't raise any suspicions. It is always a shame to book and pay for a good Hotel room though and not stay overnight!
As we both work in Hotels we know what goes on behind closed doors, you'd be foolish to think that the room was just used for sleeping only!
Most Hotels offer an express checkout where by you leave your credit card details with them and they do the rest in the morning.
As above, book a family room, or if staying at most Holiday Inn's (no we don't work for them), book a twin room as they have 2 double beds in them - perfect for 'entertaining'.
Returning to your room late in the evening (or very early morning) with company is never a good move as the Hotels night staff have a fairly strict policy on who is and who isn't allowed in - the old addage of 'if your names not on the list your not coming in' routine definately applies to the majority of Hotels.
ALso - if you are paying for an Hotel and are only wanting it for a few hours, use a travelodge or something similar as the people that stop there tend to be very transient, leaving after a few hours won't raise any suspicions. It is always a shame to book and pay for a good Hotel room though and not stay overnight!
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Did i do something wrong...I can't believe nobody is taking up the offer of a night in a hotel?:( :( :( :( :(
Whilst it may be a swingers site, it doesn't mean that everytime you ask someone will be around within hours to service your fantasies (not without you parting with cash at least!).
It's hard enough meeting single girls as part of a couple let alone for just a male/female situation.
Try someplace like for single meets.
Only you can decide which way you should run your relationship and what to do in and out of it.
From our perspective though, IF we decided we wanted a single guy to join us we'd look for a single guy and want to know there is no other halves involved. If there is then we'd want to speak with them to make sure everyone was happy.
Discretion and assurances of the same are the order of the day.
From our perspective though, IF we decided we wanted a single guy to join us we'd look for a single guy and want to know there is no other halves involved. If there is then we'd want to speak with them to make sure everyone was happy.
Discretion and assurances of the same are the order of the day.
we get really excited, usually shouting to who ever isn't at the computer to quickly come up and read.....
....although that isn't that often
Not quite worked out which is the best route yet, the Ad's, getting chatting inthe chatrooms, or making hundreds of posts in here??? Oh the pains of being a newbie!
....although that isn't that often
Not quite worked out which is the best route yet, the Ad's, getting chatting inthe chatrooms, or making hundreds of posts in here??? Oh the pains of being a newbie!
hmmm, it's a no no for Jude but I quite like it both receiving and performing 
We use loads of lube and a good quality one as well. We find that the Durex Play is good and lasts unlike some whichwear off after a bit.
Also take it very slow and have lots of foreplay, not just concentrating on the bottom but everywhere, work up to it, once inserted (finger) leave it for a little bit for her to get used to it then gently work deeper. Don't pull out and plunge back in again like on the porn films, that takes years of practice :lol:
We use loads of lube and a good quality one as well. We find that the Durex Play is good and lasts unlike some whichwear off after a bit.
Also take it very slow and have lots of foreplay, not just concentrating on the bottom but everywhere, work up to it, once inserted (finger) leave it for a little bit for her to get used to it then gently work deeper. Don't pull out and plunge back in again like on the porn films, that takes years of practice :lol:
just got in and Jude told me about it, am absolutely gobsmacked to say the least. he was a living legend in the rallying scene and one of the most raw telented drivers the sport has seen in decades.
Feel very very sorry for his Wife Alison and their daughter at this moment, really hope Alistair or Jimmy wasn't in the copter with them as well
Makes you realise just how fragile life is - enjoy every moment while you can.
Feel very very sorry for his Wife Alison and their daughter at this moment, really hope Alistair or Jimmy wasn't in the copter with them as well
Makes you realise just how fragile life is - enjoy every moment while you can.
We got one earlier this year, just like a normal strap on but it has a bit for me as well and believe me when we're using it I get as much pleasure from it as my guy does.
Got it from Pabo (crap service, took 2 months to deliver and they tried charging our card many times). Am sure you'll be able to find one similar someplace.
Got it from Pabo (crap service, took 2 months to deliver and they tried charging our card many times). Am sure you'll be able to find one similar someplace.
hmm I could have sworn i'd replied to this thread already! Oh well here goes again....
We prefer to read a profile and get to learn a bit about who were potentially going to reply to, it means that there are more mutual things / box's ticked metaphorically speaking.
Also, isn't it better to receive one or two really good replies than a whole postbag full of replies that aren't what your looking for???
We prefer to read a profile and get to learn a bit about who were potentially going to reply to, it means that there are more mutual things / box's ticked metaphorically speaking.
Also, isn't it better to receive one or two really good replies than a whole postbag full of replies that aren't what your looking for???
You need people whom are close to you to understand fully how you feel and that it's not just a case of the blues that day. Then they can be supportive and keep your own spirits high.
Stay off the drugs - they never work sorry, you can only pull yourself out of depression but with the sustained helpa nd support of loved ones and those close to you.
It will be hard on them though and they have to realise this from the outset that you may have real down days and they may feel tired or at the end of their teather but that they've got to be permanently positive for you to begin to feel positive again.
Hope this helps - there's no quick fix sorry, but give it a few months and am sure with everyones support and help you'll be feeling positive and alive again.
Stay off the drugs - they never work sorry, you can only pull yourself out of depression but with the sustained helpa nd support of loved ones and those close to you.
It will be hard on them though and they have to realise this from the outset that you may have real down days and they may feel tired or at the end of their teather but that they've got to be permanently positive for you to begin to feel positive again.
Hope this helps - there's no quick fix sorry, but give it a few months and am sure with everyones support and help you'll be feeling positive and alive again.
