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27 Jan 2013

Quote by Ready2roll
Do bukakes really happen or are they just a porn fantasy ?
Has anyone actually experienced one ?
Are there any girls that would enjoy this?

Yes they happen, I remember someone arranging one for her 40th Birthday at a swinging heaven social at Xtasia a while back. She never got as many as 40 guys but it did happen.

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23 Jan 2013

Quote by netgates
So tell me how can I webcam with an ipad mini? I believe it doesn't support flash....help?

I asked that question to a tech guy at an Apple store some years ago, he told me that it can be done by downloading an app. But I was asking the question for general flash and not SH chatroom use. He also told me apple see flash as a dated format and heavy on memory and not good for iPads
Sorry but can't remember what the app was called and if its still available but at least you know where to ask the question now.

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22 Jan 2013

Got a PA and love it (see pics on profile), had it 12 years now with no problem. Rachel loves it and wouldn't have it any other way and it adds to her pleasure.

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20 Jan 2013

Quote by Xtasia
Can I just point out to everyone, that its the BBB (Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar) on that day as well, which means sexy shopping from 11am, is an option for everyone on the Sunday, before we start at the club later on.
If folks would like us to arrange a meeting point and time, we'd be happy to show you all around our local monthly pervert market place,
Let us know,
Paul & Flirt

What a fantastic idea Paul/Flirt a genuine opportunity for the traveling people to make a full day of what the West Midlands has to offer. The BBB is a fantastic adult market we recommend you look at there website.

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6 Jan 2013

Quote by Ian
Over the last couple of months 2 good swinging friends have not continued there SH accounts. Is this a sign of whats to come on SH as a result of the recession or is it becoming overloaded with men?

Did they make a thread and go 'woo hoo over here, we're leaving' - if that was the case, they'll be back any day now.
If they just did a runner, then it's more likely to be a long term issue.
Ian you may have more chance of knowing about the single guy's account who has left or not renewed than we do. The other account is a couple's account being smiler to ours.
Just to clarify something here, we were talking about 2 separate accounts, One being a single guy the other a married couple, no connection between the 2 of them.

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6 Jan 2013

Quote by deancannock
Rachel that didn't stop you last time..lol......always room in tents ( especially if you smile and flash your tits at the owner ) ...and hey if you want a tent...I have loads...you can loan !!

Blimey Dean I think thats the answer Rachel was looking for lol

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5 Jan 2013

Tricky Dicky I feel the same way as you do, but let me just thank you for your well meant contributions, Happy new year!

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5 Jan 2013

Quote by Trevaunance
Paul the trouble is your opening message and you last message are two different things.
We all now that the recession is biting, would you care to show where I or anyone else has said different?
But that isn't the fault of single males. I can read between the lines many times over, but single males are not the cause of recessions, or vice versa, they are just a group to blame.
I understand your sentiment that friends of yours have suspended their accounts, but when things pick up they can resurrect them if they choose to. your right, it makes no difference to the coming year.
Lets play with some figures here. Imagine the site accommodates 50,000 registered users this month. What sort of percentage are your friends? %?
So they are not likely to be seen as the start of a mass exit given that the site membership has grown from the start of the recession 5 years ago to now.
I would also argue, once again that your friends refusing to log in has not actually changed things for symbios who continue to broadcast registrations, not active users.
Like you said it 'makes no difference to whats to happen in the coming year'. The site membership will still grow.
Out of interest why do you believe that I, or any other member, should have a more 'forward thinking response'? Were you somehow convinced that someone with the same membership as you could change things? If that is the case then maybe you should try posting in the 'suggestions and feedback' forum if you really feel you have an answer to the problem or want a debate you feel you have the answer to.
Finally can I just pick up on this point ' I don’t disagree with what has being said on this thread because to be honest you are working with the knowledge you have' Wow, That is amazing. Your recognising the fact that we don't have all the facts because you as the OP chose not to post them, then by the same token arguing with me because I questioned your first post.
Oh and for the record, if you want to have a dig at me do so, don't hide behind generalised comments that are beneath you.

I wasn't having a dig, just putting my point, using past figures and all that stuff don't really add up as other people have pointed out. But let me thank you for your posts to this thread. you are % of the site and should have your % of the say...

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5 Jan 2013

Is it, tat for tit or tit for tat lol

Ok maybe i need to take another approach here, or maybe get more to the point. I don’t know really, maybe some people are not so good reading between the lines. anyway a different approach; We have been talking to a number of people over the last week about christmas and new year's eve; about turn out at pubs etc and in general spending, the out come is bar staff being sent home early because a lack of trade. We have a son working in the pub trade, its seems to be across the board, turn out is down. You guys can throw all the figures you like but right here and now its down on the tills, simples’. So we are talking as it would be from now, no sales figures, account figures membership numbers will change that. We are seeing the recession hitting people, and for the 1st time we (Rachel & Paul) are seeing people turning away from SH. For whatever reason you want to see it as, makes no difference to whats to happen in the coming year. Maybe they feel they don’t want to waste anymore time trying to talk to people on SH, maybe they are the wise ones! and maybe we should join the exile, after all the alternative options are growing on the web. I don’t disagree with what has being said on this thread because to be honest you are working with the knowledge you have, but I had hopped for a more forward thinking response, but then this is SH after all :lol:

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4 Jan 2013

Quote by Trevaunance
Me thinks our real friends are worth more that your 1.4 M debatable accounts or is that members?

Then I'm sure they will have no problem telling you why they left the site. Assuming that they have actually left? Have they actually deleted their account? Or is it one of the debatable dormant accounts?
I personally don't think that just because two people have chosen not to use the site for a while it is a reasonable hypothesis that the recession is biting or single males are ruining it for everyone. I'm sorry that you don't agree, but they are a very small percentage of the people that use this site now or have used it at any time in the past
We have asked them, one said it was cost and a lack of meets, that account is still showing, just not useable, after all whats the point of deleting it. The other couple say its cost and all you get are men, so my question is valid as first posted. Just wish this site had more people like Elaine who contribute to what I considered to be a question poignant to the times.

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3 Jan 2013

Quote by tricky-dicky

a site with over 1.4 Million registered users

Do you actually believe there are registered users, if you do can I show you my latest guaranteed money making scheme all you need do is send me your life savings
Tricky Dicky you have more than a point
1.4 million accounts or members?!?! mmm whats the take up on that, less than % at any one time maybe on a good day. Our friends account is still showing but not active, is that in the 1.4 million count now or not. oh minus the gallery of flies on the wall and what have we got left mmmm… not that hard to work out.
Which ever the case; Me thinks our real friends are worth more that your 1.4 M debatable accounts or is that members?

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2 Jan 2013

Quote by Funlovers2009
I'm sure everyone has their own reasons for leaving just as everyone has their own reasons for staying. I suppose you won't know unless you ask them.
We've all seen lots of people come and go. It could be financial as there are free sites out there, it could be that this site isn't providing what they're looking for anymore. I suppose it depends what they're looking want from a site.
I can't say that the site is anymore overloaded with single guys than it was 3 years ago when we joined. In my opinion anyway.
Who knows??

Elaine/Lee
we've being members for pushing 10 years now and its the 1st time we have had friends not renew their membership, yes would agree with you, lots of people have come and gone in that time but we are talking about friends whom we have met, in one of the cases i'm referring to; I'm sure it is someone you also know from socials or chatrooms (can't name, it may be seen as shaming)
Your point of there being free sites is a very valid one, thats expected I guess, this site was free for all at one time.
It is becoming more noticeable however that it's mostly the male part of the couple that hangs around in the chatrooms now.

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2 Jan 2013

Quote by Trevaunance
Over the last couple of months 2 good swinging friends have not continued there SH accounts. Is this a sign of whats to come on SH as a result of the recession or is it becoming overloaded with men?

2people have left a site with over 1.4 Million registered users we have to start looking for someone to blame?
loon

I take it you don't know anybody then Trevaunance.

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2 Jan 2013

Over the last couple of months 2 good swinging friends have not continued there SH accounts. Is this a sign of whats to come on SH as a result of the recession or is it becoming overloaded with men?

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23 Dec 2012

What a fantastic night, best night we ever had at Xtasia. Foam was so much fun, you guys who missed it missed out big style..

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20 Dec 2012

I can understand the question and talking to you're SO would be the best answer anyone could give you but...
things to lookout for
1. has she stopped feeding you
2. do you get sex with her now
3. does she still do your washing
If any of the above ring bells then forget about asking her, it to late.
You'er Wife should be the 1st person you talk to not 1,500,000 cyber swingers bolt

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20 Dec 2012

While you're on the matter of fake photos, anybody got any hunk like photos not in use anywhere that can't be detected.
I would like the body of dreams please, oh and with a cock to die for :thumbup:

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20 Dec 2012

Ok I've looked it up :small-print: and it says swinging is a motion that goes back and forth, so thats it folks the bigger your boobs the more you swing lol

How come threads end up talking a load of nonsense :giveup:

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20 Dec 2012

Ok I've looked it up :small-print: and it says swinging is a motion that goes back and forth, so thats it folks the bigger your boobs the more you swing lol

How come threads end up talking a load of nonsense :giveup:

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19 Dec 2012

Quote by Xtasia
Barrier around dancefloor went up last night. Lot better than the clingfilm from the first one, :doh:
Carpets all down on the floor ready. :thumbup:
Bar fully stocked and second bar open upstairs probably.
Staff ready to be naked body painted behind bar!! :censored:
Non slip mats down in smoke area this time.
Just need you lot now......time to party!!! :color::high-smile::drinkies:
See you Friday night,
Paul & Flirt

Sounds good to us Paul & Flirt Painting barmaids Wow! i'll tip that one mate lol

Paul

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18 Dec 2012

Quote by Trevaunance
I'm trying to say that single men and men that are in a couple tend to act differently around an attractive woman.
A guy that is cheating is in my view more likely to act like a single guy would.
Maybe it's because your a woman and don't understand men

I'm a bloke and can't make any sense of what you're saying trev lol

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18 Dec 2012

if the partner doesn't know about it, how is it swinging? unless to you the definition of swinging is simply recreational sex with consenting adults...? So then, if your partner is not getting enough from you or not happy with how they're getting it, are they forgiven for going behind your back?..
It's not about judging others, for me, it's about judging myself- I do not want to KNOWINGLY play with attached people when their partners don't know about. Otherwise, what's so special about being on a swinging site? dunno

The answer to that is within the question “is a 3somes with single or married person swinging” ?!?!

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18 Dec 2012

Don’t like using the word “cheat” but our thoughts are different now, to 15 years ago when we started meeting other people to spice our sex life up. We have met all types for all reasons and each one had a different reason for swinging. Some say wife have gone off sex, some say got no wife/husband, some lie some tell the truth. In general its not up to us to judge. But the one thing that is important to us is that we don’t want to be messed around. if people have something to hide than it best keep it to themselves. We are not looking for a relationship some other people might be, never understood why that do that on this site mind. old swinging saying, “we go together and we come home together”. “no means no” and genuine swingers are looking for fun not for a crowed marriage.
Just be honest to yourselves the rest follows...

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17 Dec 2012

Why not come to the SH party night at Xtasia friday.

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7 Nov 2012

Love the naked luminous paint party Idea, maybe a painted clothes parade.
What about naked foam wrestling ring on the dance floor.
Paul & Rachel

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22 Sep 2012

Thanks Bambi
We had a fab night, the new rooms were fun, and adds much more to the club. The owners are putting a lot of effort into the club and deserve a big pat on the back. Thanks Paul & Flirt
Not meaning to put a downer on the changes it will be much better when to novelty factor had faded a bit to allow us to have more play time.
Thanks yet again to Bambi & Bear for all their organizing to make this happen, and for making us so well come.
XXX Bambi
Rachel & Paul

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16 Jul 2012

Hi Bambi
We are going to try and make this one so please put our name down
xxx
Rachel & Paul

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9 Jan 2012

could you put Rachel80 and myself down to Try please
Paul

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23 Oct 2011

Sorry to you both but Rachel has come down with a throat infection virus thing, so best we keep our germs away from you.
Really hope you have a great night
Paul & Rachel xx

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19 Oct 2011

Cuckolding has to many different meaning and variations nowadays for anyone to be right or wrong to what cuckolding actually means. What your fantasy maybe about cuckolding could be nothing like what the so called “Bull” considers cuckolding is. After having a bad experience with cuckolding I would suggest you play an active role in planning and controlling any meets. It can and does go wrong sometimes when you invite another man into your family nest.
It can be fun if you all keep it under control and to plan but the minute one of the 3 sees it any other way make sure you can put a stop to it or the “Bull” will put a stop to your happiness.

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