I should add that we would only be at a club 'watching' where it was permitted and encouraged by the viewee/s.
I am just keen to coax and warm her right up to it.
Anything resembling a bad early experience will put the permanent mockers on it.
Usual scenario I imagine.. the male is pushing for some club/swinging action and the female is VERY unsure....
I am almost desperate to spice things up and venture into a club situation with my lovely wife. She likes a bit of porn but has a fear of being seen, being pushed into action that she didn't want to get into, and generally feeling uncomfortable or our of her depth.
I can completely understand this so I am looking for a way to break her into this world gently.
Therefore, what I am looking for initially is a BUSY club in the south east that is friendly and welcoming to newbies with no huge pressure to get involved.
I know some people get pissed off with people just watching but I feel this is a necesary first step with the missus. I think that if I get her through the front door then she will loosen up and find it stimulating and hopefully would then go to the club again and perhaps escalate things up one step at a time. If i rush her then it is all over.
Perhaps, I should just forget about it and deal with the fact that she will never get into that lifestyle. She would let me do it with other girls but I want to do it with her!
I think she would only feel half-comfortable in a fairly dark club where she doesn't have to dress too 'slutty', where voyeurism (initially) is acceptable. She would probably be okay in a bikini in a hot-tub, which would half-hide her and get her used to nakedness.
Any advice?
I appreciate your thoughts and time in advance.
Yeah, mates mean more, far more, than a casual nibble.
Good for the ego though. Feel flattered and move on.
If she persists then you will have to be honest with her.
Still, it's always fun to flirt. We just have to know where the line is.
