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SpiritedAway
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 61
0 miles · Flintshire

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Hi All,
After a break of three years I've found myself magnetically drawn back to SH - funny how that happens ;)
Anyway, just to bring this thread back to the original subject (ahem, sorry, not meaning to be rude to anyone smile), I see girls I fancy regularly, but then, as has been mentioned by a few people things change after talking to them or getting to know them a bit - the required 'connection' really does involve a whole lot more than the physical.
Having said that, I'm totally rubbish at being able to tell if anyone is interested in me!!!
I mean, how can you tell?
SA
We had snow yesterday evening and it froze overnight. Then more again this morning - its so pretty, very exciting to see and the kids love it :-)
My eldest who's 10 said the snow was the best bit of Christmas this year biggrin .
We were out in it this afternoon, built a snowman and then got down to some serious eating and drinking. I've already got a hangover from lunchtime's booze - better go and have some more now to get rid of it ;-)
Best wishes to everyone :D
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Quote by sheffieldfun4two
Should I be pissed off or just admire his nerve?

I think it depends on his motivation, was it a joke? Did he genuinely think the gift is something she (and possibly you) might enjoy? Or was there some intent that could be construed as harrassment?
In my view, if M is upset then you are justified to be too.
smile
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:therethere: passionkiss To Alex and all who feel down at this time of year. Like many of you I've lost more than one member of my family at Christmas time - it almost seems like a trdition in its own right sometimes.
However, despite the commercialism, the gluttony and the family feuding (yes we still have that here in the Borders) I think that people do, in general, have a bit more goodwill than the rest of the year.
I'll spend my time cooking, looking after everyone and trying my best to make my children's Christmas as much like the happy, joyful ones I remember - that way they will be able to do the same for their children and so on through the generations; hopefully there will always remain a kernel of the true Christmas/Yuletide/Solstice spirit.
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Hmmm, thats a hard one.
Suck or chew?
Longer lasting sensation or instant gratification?
To see or imagine?
Travel or arrive?
Dunno!!! "They're both great choices - whatever floats your boat"
:idea: How about an animated gif showing first one then the other? biggrin
Wow, I'm not usually so indecisive as that......... or am I?
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Quote by zootle
I had 4 replies.

Wow Zootle, thats a fantastic conversion rate, whats your secret? Is it your cyber-pheremone spray that you lace every e-mail with? wink
I agree with Neil, but the ads situation does seem strange to many guys I imagine.
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There's a plan for a congestion charge to be introduced in Edinburgh soon.
Now wouldn't it be a great way of earning extra revenue for local government to do loads of work on all the non chargeable roads thereby forcing people to go through the centre of the city. Better still, make sure that public transport remains under funded and under developed so theres no real alternative to driving in town.
Hmmm, where's the incentive to improve the transport infrastructure just gone? wink
What me? Cynical? Never!!!
lol
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Quote by redstilletto
have to borrow your big wolly jumper
even chitty chitty bang bang makes me cry :twisted:

I'll happily remove as many items of clothing for you as you like, hun wink and you don't need the excuse of a film
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Quote by redstilletto
i love curling up on the sofa watching a sad film with a big box of tissues and a nice man to snuggle up to wink

Thats such a good idea, I can just imagine it; cuddled up, lights down low, emotions running high and the firelight flickering. And outside hearing the snow and wind howling, but it can't get in to spoil the cosy reverie. biggrin
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The English Patient was quite heart wrenching for me, but the one I could never, ever watch again is Seven.
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I only answered this as an excuse to get underneath RedStiletto's very sexy legs :twisted:
I don't label myself, maybe other people do - I don't mind that really so long as they don't then stick me on a shelf wink
I'm very much attracted to women, but there are men I find myself attracted to and I do want to touch them, but then I'm a very touchy feely, tactile person. I don't feel the urge to kiss these guys or have sexual contact with them. I don't know what that means and it doesn't worry me one way or another.
I'm probably quite androgynous in my mind but male in my sexuality - so to use and extend the nomenclature that Marya (I think it was) adopted, I'm emotionally Straight, mentally Bi and sexually Straight (so far).
Maybe I'm both confused and inexperienced
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Teppic,
If it really does something for you don't be afraid or embarrassed about it, just enjoy it.
And if you can share it with someone who enjoys you doing it then all the better biggrin
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2004 has been about the most year difficult of my life.
There've been some very low lows (which is really unlike me) - leaving home and saying goodbye to my children, even though I knew I was going to see them again in a few days - yes, I cried at that one. Business really being bad while the software developers I was paying faffed around not delivering critical software (they did eventually 1 year late on a 3 month project) and my company looking like it wasn't going to survive. Getting dumped - again. - that kind of stuff.
But there've been some wonderful highs too - despite the dumping that came later, the falling in love that preceded it was fantastically unmissable. Turning my company's fortunes around - I refused to give up and be beaten - we're now on the cusp of major success.
So what I'm planning to do in 2005 is stay on the rollercoaster and savour every moment of it biggrin
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Quote by Vix
But I ain't Dee Dee, hun!

You sure ain't Rosie either, hun, at least not in size wink
:-D
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I've got two comments to add to this thread:
The first most painful experience was when I was 17 and my girlfriend was giving me a very nice BJ and managed to slice through my frenulum with her teeth. It was quite painful at the time but was worse later cos after that it was agony every time I got an erection for a few days after that - it happened a lot.
The second thing is about sleeping - I've never fallen asleep on the job, but I did once wake up in the middle of a wild session. Apparently I'd initiated it too. I've never sleepwalked as far as I know but I'm particularly proud to have been the only sleepshagger I've ever heard of biggrin . Has this ever happened to anyone else?
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Quote by Vix
He looks more kinda Dexter to me wink

I'm too fat to be Dee Dee. :cry:
I've seen your pictures Vix, you're definitely not fat.
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Quote by zootle
Is it just me or does Reese look a bit sinister in that picture?! :shock:

He looks more kinda Dexter to me wink
But seriously, I think you look great with a trim, Reese.
smile
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Reese,
I reckon that it depends on a couple of things:
1 Will it adversely affect your friendship?
2 Do you and Vix fancy him?
If the answer to 1 is yes then its probably best to be careful, and if its 2 then its likely to happen despite 1.
If he's likeminded then my prediction is that you'll all have loads of fun and remain friends.
But your plan to not say anything to begin with is probably wise, wait to see how you and Vix feel first and then introduce it if you both want to.
I guess the term 'feel your way' is appropriate smile
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Quote by Debbiewebs
Hi Derf,
This might give you a better idea:

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oooo you are just taking the piss now rotflmao
I'll take any bodily fluid you'd like me to have, Debs
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Quote by zootle
New Labour to ban Sex

Well, they've already banned brains, or is that only within the party itself?
I think thats only a small cell working independently in secret wink
Horny SA
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Quote by xxdevil69
scheme to stop people feeling horny lol

I recently changed my name by Deed Poll to 'Horny' in an attempt to get more experience of being 'felt', I'd heard so many individuals saying they were 'feeling horny' I thought this would be a good way to get a bit more action wink
Trust the Government to ruin my fun just as I started my new life :shock:
SA Horny
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Hi Rainbows,
Sorry I'm a bit late on this one (I haven't visited SH for a little while) but I thought I'd just add a little to the list.
I run a well known e-commerce company, I also do a fair bit of consultancy work in e-business internationally and contribute to government and industry policy.
OK, so I know I'm blowing my own trumpet here BUT I've gained a lot of experience in this area, firstly, people don't read things properly on the internet, they only scan so make sure you have these terms in big and obvious type for the future. Its such a pain dealing with it afterwards and ends up costing you more in time than you make in cash. Secondly, don't back down, your policy is there for a reason - you've been stung before so you know from experience not to. Even if you take credit cards you as the vendor take the risk, the consumer is protected by the Distance Selling Regulations, the banks (who seem to run something of a cartel) look after themselves and leave you to deal with bounced cheques, chargebacks and difficult customers who claim the goods you sold aren't up to standard.
There's every chance that your customer may cancel the cheque, but better that than sending out the goods on trust and not getting the cash later.
I was recently asked a similar question by a Scottish Giftware retailer who had received an order from an African company, it was a $1000 order and the transaction cleared through WorldPay but with a caution. I advised them not to fulfil the order, the credit card turned out to be cloned, but the vendor was very upset that he had to pay £30 in charges to WorldPay, I said better £30 than $1000 lost.
So the old maxim may have been Caveat Emptor but in the world of e-commerce its very definitely the seller who needs to be more careful.
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I voted for thongs too, but its the woman in the thong or knickers that make them sexy.
You look very sexy in your knickers lil miz which just proves my point
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Quote by lil_miz_naughty_0204
Yeah we miss you too sun bunny xx

And definitely looking forward to your return, or do I mean home-coming
And revelations of what kept you so busy :twisted:
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I could give you a good buff up after you've both had your polish
And Flirty could give you a slice of something hot too wink
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Quote by lil_miz_naughty_0204
whats the other part :twisted:

Thats the nutcake part wink
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Quote by lil_miz_naughty_0204
HIJACKER duel
lol

I'm certainly a 'jacker' although probably of the 'low' variety wink
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