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Wantonwench
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female, 119
UK

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Quote by pebble
If you enjoy the intimacy as well as the crazy fucking, let this be known straight up. I don't think this has anything to do with love or relationships, this has more to do about looking out for each other and making sure the people you play with also have a positive experience.

That's exactly how I wanted to say it but you've said it better - cheers
was concerned that it comes across as wanting "more" from the encounter than just sex - which I guess in a threesome I do - I want respect,care and consideration as well as the crazy fucking, sensual stroking, erotic licking etc etc - doesn't mean I want a relationship or to stroll off into the sunset with the couple though.
Thanks for that - really helpful
So been in threesome with fuck buddy previously and had a whale of a time and very keen to play again but in a mff threesome and this time with no fuckable friend .
Certainly am able to separate sex from love( or even knowing- straight dirty fucking with dogging) , But know that I have to have a connection/like/ get on with/fancy someone involved in the playing and that has been fb up til now .
Found that threesomes is more prolonged, relaxed and more connection involved. Also playing with a fb - develops a level of intimacy based on caring and friendship. Nothing better after a fantastic evening of playing than in lying in post coital relaxation with holding,stroking, chatting and falling asleep in someone arms. I am thinking this is an intimacy that will and should be reserved for the couple - was in our case.
Just struggling to get my head around both the practicalities of playing, having fun and then just cleaning up, getting dressed, leaving the hotel room/ house to either return alone to my own room or drive home but also possibly the emotional ramifications too .
Would welcome ideas or advice from either singles in that situation or how couples have handled the parting of the ways , so to speak
some of it is down to the angle that you're taking the cock in at. The idea is that your throat and mouth should be in as straight a line as possible.... as the cock goes deeper into the throat, breath in like a yawn and keep relaxed, I can manage three thrusts before I have to move an inch upwards grab a quick breath through my nose and go back down again.
I always go on top so I control the pace and although head holding and forcing is allowed he knows if he holds it too long it'll be over in a gag and a cough and a splutter and with tears running down my face - although I think he finds the idea of me gagging on his cock forced into my mouth, a bit of a turn on at times !!
I have tried anal and vaginal dp and have to say I looooooove having a cock up my arse and one in my pussy at the same time. When there's just the two of us often have the rabbit and his cock at the same time but I've only got short arms so it can be tiring...lol
Not long into this scene and already experienced the joys of mmf 3 some and definitely want to repeat that but with a bi bloke this time for extra fun.
Absolutely love dogging but it's been decidedly on the quiet side both times and cooooooold !!
So have had thoughts about a little ff action but am unsure how to go about this . My 1st love will always be cock I think but have fantasies about being with another woman. Am a bit worried though that the fantasy will not be the reality and then I'm faced with a situation where I'm not turned on and not knowing how the fuck to get out of the situation. Don't want to lead anyone on and waste anyone's time but as it stands I'm bi curious at the moment not bi. Thought about a 3 some with my fb so that if it comes to it, he can pick up the slack so to speak ...lol but thought the idea of a bi woman just happening to want to be with us was a bit remote . Really really love the idea of playing with other couples but don't want to set myself up as something I'm not and disappoint.
Please don't suggest friends or anything like that - I keep my two lives very separate.
So any thoughts or advice ?