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hi harry0,
no offence taken, far from it, going back to your points,
1. yes granted, being married is a turn off for MOST couples and single females, but not all.
2. how am i cheating on my wife when all i am wanting to do is watch?
as i said earlier in the thread, none of my ads say " lets get down to some serious sex sessions"
3. as above, i am not expecting to leap into bed with anyone, to quote yourself "some people simply want to meet others with a similar lifestyle, to form friendships where they can discuss their mutual interests".
4. multiple ads, the ads are on <MEN SEEKING COUPLES> i would like to watch couples having sex <MEN SEEKING WOMEN> i woul like to watch women masturbate in front of me while i do the same <DOGGING> see the above catagories. these are not a sign of desperation, but a variation of the same theme surely? what clogs up the system is people putting ads in the wrong catagories.
5. okay, maybe a facial ( no pun intended )...lol, maybe the answer, as, if my neighbour or boss did come in then maybe i could meet up with them!!!!!
6. heathers tips column, as sound advice as it is, doesn't affect me, as they are tips on answering ads, not posting them.
7. we are, in fact, discussing the possibillity of WATCHING other people, but this will take time, as i would never bully her into doing anything she didn't want to do.
8. i am a married guy who has got bored, not with marriage, and not with my wife, i can have as much sex with my wife as i want, but as with lots of things in life, we try different things, and these are some of the things i would like to try, and maybe, someday, my wife may want to try something totally different.
9. i would rather you be honest with me, isn't that one of the criteria of this kind of thing, being honest with everyone, as they say, "patience is a virtue".
well that passed away a little time, on a dank and dismall day.
hope you will be lucky and safe.
paul
no offence taken, far from it, going back to your points,
1. yes granted, being married is a turn off for MOST couples and single females, but not all.
2. how am i cheating on my wife when all i am wanting to do is watch?
as i said earlier in the thread, none of my ads say " lets get down to some serious sex sessions"
3. as above, i am not expecting to leap into bed with anyone, to quote yourself "some people simply want to meet others with a similar lifestyle, to form friendships where they can discuss their mutual interests".
4. multiple ads, the ads are on <MEN SEEKING COUPLES> i would like to watch couples having sex <MEN SEEKING WOMEN> i woul like to watch women masturbate in front of me while i do the same <DOGGING> see the above catagories. these are not a sign of desperation, but a variation of the same theme surely? what clogs up the system is people putting ads in the wrong catagories.
5. okay, maybe a facial ( no pun intended )...lol, maybe the answer, as, if my neighbour or boss did come in then maybe i could meet up with them!!!!!
6. heathers tips column, as sound advice as it is, doesn't affect me, as they are tips on answering ads, not posting them.
7. we are, in fact, discussing the possibillity of WATCHING other people, but this will take time, as i would never bully her into doing anything she didn't want to do.
8. i am a married guy who has got bored, not with marriage, and not with my wife, i can have as much sex with my wife as i want, but as with lots of things in life, we try different things, and these are some of the things i would like to try, and maybe, someday, my wife may want to try something totally different.
9. i would rather you be honest with me, isn't that one of the criteria of this kind of thing, being honest with everyone, as they say, "patience is a virtue".
well that passed away a little time, on a dank and dismall day.
hope you will be lucky and safe.
paul
i haven't said i wanted to have sex with anyone in my ads, none of them have said that, does watching couples having sex constitute cheating? if so the majority of the world who watch porn films are then cheating?
if so then your points could well be correct.
as i said earlier, i am looking for an honest opinion of my ads.
all replies are gratefully received
if so then your points could well be correct.
as i said earlier, i am looking for an honest opinion of my ads.
all replies are gratefully received
THIS IS NOT A MOAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this is not a moan, all i want is an honest opinion of my ads, to see if i am doing anything wrong, or to have someone guide me as to how i word my ads, any critisism will not be taken the wrong way, i know it could be that im not in a high activity area, the resrictions i have may be the main factor for not yet having a meet, although i have had a few timewasters,
i just want to learn.
hope some of you more experienced and luckier guys can help.
look forward to hearing from you.
thanx.
paul.
my ad numbers are :- 16494, 14124, 9025
this is not a moan, all i want is an honest opinion of my ads, to see if i am doing anything wrong, or to have someone guide me as to how i word my ads, any critisism will not be taken the wrong way, i know it could be that im not in a high activity area, the resrictions i have may be the main factor for not yet having a meet, although i have had a few timewasters,
i just want to learn.
hope some of you more experienced and luckier guys can help.
look forward to hearing from you.
thanx.
paul.
my ad numbers are :- 16494, 14124, 9025
hi guys, hope everyone is well?
i too have had the same experiences with contacts, where the other party has contacted me through my ads, (but no meets as yet :cry
why can't people who initiate contact either through email or phone just make one more contact just to say no, doesn't cost anything for an email, and maybe 25p for a text!
i have had conversations by phone with three or four possables, they have then said i will call the next day to arrange something, then nothing!
i understand people look for a certain type of person they would like to play with, but if you're not that person then why not say so! as it keeps being mentioned, we are adults, we should be able to take knockbacks, personally i would like to know what it is about me they don't like, there must be something about my ads, that catches their eye, otherwise why call.
i don't mean this to sound like it's a moan, it isn't, but i find it difficult to explain thing in type, i would rather talk 1-1.
this all may be off subject, and for that i do appologise, but today i thought do something with your time, seeing as though no-one is available........lol, but i will carry on, but because of my personal restrictions, i know it will take time, but please people don't waste it!!!! :)
be happy
be lucky
be carefull
paul xxxxxxx
p.s if anyone would like to look at my ads and tell me were i am going wrong, i would welcome any comments and/or recommendations, my ad numbers are :- 16494
14124
9025
hope to hear what you think!
i too have had the same experiences with contacts, where the other party has contacted me through my ads, (but no meets as yet :cry
why can't people who initiate contact either through email or phone just make one more contact just to say no, doesn't cost anything for an email, and maybe 25p for a text! i have had conversations by phone with three or four possables, they have then said i will call the next day to arrange something, then nothing!
i understand people look for a certain type of person they would like to play with, but if you're not that person then why not say so! as it keeps being mentioned, we are adults, we should be able to take knockbacks, personally i would like to know what it is about me they don't like, there must be something about my ads, that catches their eye, otherwise why call.
i don't mean this to sound like it's a moan, it isn't, but i find it difficult to explain thing in type, i would rather talk 1-1.
this all may be off subject, and for that i do appologise, but today i thought do something with your time, seeing as though no-one is available........lol, but i will carry on, but because of my personal restrictions, i know it will take time, but please people don't waste it!!!! :)
be happy
be lucky
be carefull
paul xxxxxxx
p.s if anyone would like to look at my ads and tell me were i am going wrong, i would welcome any comments and/or recommendations, my ad numbers are :- 16494
14124
9025
hope to hear what you think!
hi mark,
by no means do i take your comments personally, as i hate it when people put ads in the wrong catagories myself, and i understand you see many, many ads, so you can't remember all of them, don't get me wrong, this is not a gripe, just a query, as i said in another thread, it has happened before, my original ones are still running.
one question though, would ads in each of the following catagories be allowed to run, if they are put in the correct catagories?
MEN LOOKING FOR WOMEN
MEN LOOKING FOR COUPLES
DOGGING
i did have an ad in the dogging section, but again, this was deleted.
i do apologise if this sounds like a moan, far from it, it's just a query.
thanx for your response.
paul.
by no means do i take your comments personally, as i hate it when people put ads in the wrong catagories myself, and i understand you see many, many ads, so you can't remember all of them, don't get me wrong, this is not a gripe, just a query, as i said in another thread, it has happened before, my original ones are still running.
one question though, would ads in each of the following catagories be allowed to run, if they are put in the correct catagories?
MEN LOOKING FOR WOMEN
MEN LOOKING FOR COUPLES
DOGGING
i did have an ad in the dogging section, but again, this was deleted.
i do apologise if this sounds like a moan, far from it, it's just a query.
thanx for your response.
paul.
hi heather,
no, i have updated it a few times, it was for a couple who contacted me the other day, they sent me an email with a pic, but when i replied, it was returned, unable to deliver!!!
thought i would post an ad asking them to get in touch again, but no luck,as mentioned in another thread "pisses one off".
thanx heather anyway
no, i have updated it a few times, it was for a couple who contacted me the other day, they sent me an email with a pic, but when i replied, it was returned, unable to deliver!!!
thought i would post an ad asking them to get in touch again, but no luck,as mentioned in another thread "pisses one off".
thanx heather anyway
glad you were able to find someone, sounds like a goodtime was had by all , can't wait to see pics, providing you are going to post them!!
steve you lucky b'stad, if you ever come to plymouth for a holiday anytime mark&linda, i would love to have the chance to play with you :twisted: .
yours (hoping you have a break in devon!!!!)
paul
, can't wait to see pics, providing you are going to post them!!steve you lucky b'stad, if you ever come to plymouth for a holiday anytime mark&linda, i would love to have the chance to play with you :twisted: .
yours (hoping you have a break in devon!!!!)
paul
hi rob,
no your not on your own, but in my case they have replied to my ad, but when i have replied to the address they give, it gets returned, i have had pics sent with the email, so i thought they were gen.
but when someone sends an email, it automatically has the senders address doesn't it? if that is the case, how can it be returned??
i have posted an ad to try and find them, but it seems i am looking for a very small needle in a very big haystack!!
i totally agree, a truely excellent site, long may it reign.
paul
no your not on your own, but in my case they have replied to my ad, but when i have replied to the address they give, it gets returned, i have had pics sent with the email, so i thought they were gen.
but when someone sends an email, it automatically has the senders address doesn't it? if that is the case, how can it be returned??
i have posted an ad to try and find them, but it seems i am looking for a very small needle in a very big haystack!!
i totally agree, a truely excellent site, long may it reign.
paul
hi you two,
hope you are doing (everything/everyone) well?
i am so pleased to see you haven't left forever, will you be having your page available again soon? hope so, used to look forward to seeing the pics.
unfortunatley i am unable to even contemplate chancing my arm at a possible meet with you both, but if no red blooded male, even takes you up on your unbelievable offer, then they shouldn't even be on this site!
good luck, hope you find that 'special' someone.
paul
hope you are doing (everything/everyone) well?
i am so pleased to see you haven't left forever, will you be having your page available again soon? hope so, used to look forward to seeing the pics.
unfortunatley i am unable to even contemplate chancing my arm at a possible meet with you both, but if no red blooded male, even takes you up on your unbelievable offer, then they shouldn't even be on this site!
good luck, hope you find that 'special' someone.
paul
but who's profile do i click on? clicked on mine but no gallery.hi, are there any randy couples in the doncaster area who would like to have a possible meet sometime during the next couple of days? i am in the area only 'till thursday morning, so maybe weds evening could be good for you.
i will only be contactable by moby while i'm in donny, so if you are interested, give me a bell, we could have a chat and maybe sort something out.
hope to hear soon.
TTFN
i will only be contactable by moby while i'm in donny, so if you are interested, give me a bell, we could have a chat and maybe sort something out.
hope to hear soon.
TTFN
