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berksbex
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
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His name was Richard and we were both 14. He had long dark eyelashes and dark wavy hair and a Liverpudlian accent! He was so 'exotic' to a southerner like me lol I had a complete crush on him for about 6 months! One evening he walked me home from youth club, it was raining and we were both wet by the time we got to the alley way next to my house. He pulled me over and kissed me....a big wet kiss as we were soaked! lol
Afterwards, he said he had wanted to do that for ages but didn't have the nerve but as he was going back to Liverpool the next day he said he had to kiss me before he went....I was heart broken for a few months. Ah Richard from Liverpool, I wonder what you are doing now smile
As for celebrity crushes, I had two. Marc Bolan and Donny Osmond....yep quite a contrast but I like variety ;)
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Checked out your profile biggrin at 2011 you are slightly out of our age range, never mind its not the end of the world lol First post since 2007, welcome back and enjoy your stay :mrgreen:

Oops! I have no idea how that happened! :D Profile is probably way out of date anyway.
And thanks, I'll try! :twisted: I have been back here between 2007 and now, but not on the forum. A few names about I recognise.
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And Steve has been out to buy the matching curtains and everything.
Dave_Notts

I thought so, they are a bit chintzy.
Have fun Harry. I have fingers crossed for good weather. If not could be a few goose pimples or disappearing bits! :shock:
You meet up with someone for an agreed no strings (hopefully wonderful) shag. You have shag (well a few shags). And then he says ‘give all this up and be my girlfriend’ confused What do you say? :P
Some people will try any angle for a shag wont they? lol
That one hasn’t happened to me. But I have lost count of the amount of guys that have asked me to try and ‘get another woman’ for a FMF threesome. I start to feel like worm bait on a hook! Obviously a very popular fantasy.
Honesty works better.
I’m always having erotic dreams. But, they are always with someone totally inappropriate (next door neighbours totally unfanciable husband being the last example of that, hard to face him the next day! :shock: ). Also, these dreams always leave me high and dry. I have yet to wake up satisfied, something always gets in the way and I end up really frustrated. confused
Anyone got any tips of how to stop that? :P
p.s. about Justin T. I once shagged a 24 year old who was the spit of him, right down to that curlyish hair. Very nice it was too :twisted:
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I've suffered with insomnia for years and have tried all of the above a million times over with varying degrees of success.
When all else fails, I just get back out of bed and go and do something. Fighting it makes it worse - go with it.

I agree, if you lay there trying to sleep it makes it worse. I have had bouts of insomnia for as long as I can remember. I would go to bed and lie awake for 2 hours before falling asleep and wake up a few hours later. That was until I just took a relaxed view on sleep and realised that I just don’t sleep the ‘normal’ 7-8 hours a night like most people. I now know that 5 hours most nights and 6 hour some nights is fine (though about once a week I will sleep 3-4 hours). I suppose everyone is different.
If I masturbate I become more lively, then can’t sleep for ages! But most men I sleep with seem to zonk out straight afterwards so maybe a gender thing (or just a bex thing lol)
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berksbex, im sorry youve had to go through that and i do have a very good idea of what its like.
i think you may have misunderstood my point. i wasnt saying that using heroin isnt bad for your health. i was mainly talking about long term physical damage done by the actual drug compared to alcohol, not the associated lifestyle.
im well aware of how heroin use can destroy lives and families. i have sat with people in agony from withdrawals and i have had people ive worked with for a long time die from polydrug overdose. (i can say the all of same for alcohol users although its not my specialist field.)
a couple of things i have to pick up on....you say you can spot a heroin user? im sorry but the stereotype you talk about is not what every heroin user looks like, as splendid said earlier. and as for stealing everything in sight to fund a habit? i have many clients who have full time jobs. the service i work in has a hardcore of 100 users who commit crime. it has 500 who do not.
im not disagreeing with everything you say, just giving a balanced perspective as someone who works in the area. i understand your experiences are very personal with it being a member of your family and it sounds like you have been a great support to this family member despite the hard times and im sorry if i offended you. :thumbup:

I'm not offended. smile I didn’t misunderstand any points because I wasn’t actually objecting to any one person’s point in this thread, so my reply wasn’t aimed at you exactly. It was just general because I had just seen a few too many posts suggesting that heroin was innocuous and I know it’s not.
I’m not using stereotypes, I try very hard not to do that. I’m just explaining what I have seen and what I am seeing daily with my own eyes. Maybe the heroin users you have met look after themselves better or are older? The ones I know are all under 20 years old. These heroin addicts that have come to my house to visit this member of my family and who live nearby all look like that. Male/female doesn’t make any difference.
No offence but living with someone addicted like this is a million miles away from working with them.
Love being tied up :twisted: .
Ohh good question, a ‘to do’ list. Done a bit, would like to do more of the same but just thinking about things I would like to do that I haven’t tried yet.....will have a think.
If it was a 'who to do' list, that might be easier :P
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I have a sort of fascination with the whole furry/plushy thing.
It intrigues me although I just can't see what the attraction is.
May be I need to go to a plushy party this year and find out...

Interesting. I once knew TV who was also into dressing up as animals. He used to buy outfits at costume shops. He had a cat and rabbit costume and wanted to meet up with a woman who would dress up as a cat too. The idea was to playact as cats, get all hot and sweaty before sex. I didn’t take him up on his offer because I get too hot really easily and the fur would have played havoc with my asthma and I'm also more of a dog person :P but it could have been fun I suppose.
Having watched a young member of my own family slowly disintegrate (literally) in front of my eyes through heroin abuse, I object when I hear people say that it isn’t that bad for your health.
Try sitting all night with someone in agony who constantly throws up, has hallucinations and shakes because they haven’t had their fix. When they are taking the drug they lose weight because it reduces the appetite and gives you diarrhoea. I can spot a heroin user a mile off due to their awful spotty skin, dark circles under their eyes and weight loss.
They also steel everything not nailed down to fund their habit and they don’t care who they are steeling from or who they hurt in order to get their fix. Heroin addicts are single minded in their pursuit of the drug.
I could go into details about how much the addicts drag themselves and their families into a world of crime and violence (I have witnessed) and how I have discovered how many very young children are addicted in my area, but this is all very raw to me still.
However, I do think that alcohol in excess is also detrimental to health and society.
Don't know of any Asian clubs but surely it's not the clubs who decide the race of someone? Maybe there aren't many Asian people at clubs because not many Asian people swing?
LOL @ this thread lol
I can't work out if you are after free shags or some extra cash Father Sercher :P
I have nothing to confess this month, but if I get lucky I will be sure to let you know Father wink
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come on then!!!
Spill!
lp

Backdoor Man-The Doors ;)
mind boggles!
Ok chappies...
a little obscure... so later I may be offering clues...
You shall have to have a couple of good stabs first though... you'll certainly have to wrack your brains... and please, no asking Jeeves...ok?...I'llknow for sure...
here goes,pay attention and read the brief snippet of lyric carefully, the clues are all there
we are Devo,
D-e-v-o
we are Devo
D-e-v-o

good luck,and don't be afraid with your guesses, there's no shame in being wrong,it's only a game after all
lp
I suppose it would be too easy if this was a song by Devo? lol But I have no idea. All I remember about them is that they were sort of kraftwerk-ish and dressed in PVC and did robot dances in their videos.....or am I thinking of someone else? :P
thats pretty much it, one of their most known hits is a song called 'Whip it'
lol seriously? Well, just showing my age again obviously! I couldn't even begin to hum one of their tunes it's just that the name rang a bell. I have this vision of a band in black and red PVC dancing. Is it sort of synth music like Kraftwerk then?
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come on then!!!
Spill!
lp

Backdoor Man-The Doors ;)
mind boggles!
Ok chappies...
a little obscure... so later I may be offering clues...
You shall have to have a couple of good stabs first though... you'll certainly have to wrack your brains... and please, no asking Jeeves...ok?...I'llknow for sure...
here goes,pay attention and read the brief snippet of lyric carefully, the clues are all there
we are Devo,
D-e-v-o
we are Devo
D-e-v-o

good luck,and don't be afraid with your guesses, there's no shame in being wrong,it's only a game after all
lp
I suppose it would be too easy if this was a song by Devo? lol But I have no idea. All I remember about them is that they were sort of kraftwerk-ish and dressed in PVC and did robot dances in their videos.....or am I thinking of someone else? :P
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Oh sit there, oh count those raindrops
Oh, feel 'em falling down, oh honey all around you.
Honey don't you know it's time,
I feel it's time,
Somebody told you 'cause you got to know
That all you ever gonna have to count on
Or gonna wanna lean on
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Ohh I know this one. Love it! Janis Joplin little girl blue.... count your little fingers....great song smile
Have no idea about the others though :P
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Into the distance, a Ribbon of Black
Streched to the point of no turning back
a flight of fancy on a windswept field
Standing alone my senses reeled dunno... sorry
( it's also pink Floyd, later than wall (hint over)
SparkY)

ah, ah... the one with a medal on the albumn cover...?
was it a medal?.. a predominantly black albumn cover, with some thing on it, maybe a medal...errrm
and as for the track title... dunno... hehe. Not much good at this am I?
lp
Not sure about medal? I can't think of one off-hand. But they do have some weird covers! lol But these lyrics are from learning to fly on a momentary lapse of reason though I like the live recording on Pulse.
I have loved reading these memories. biggrin
Darkfire, There have been a few very memorable nights I like to think about (yum) but I know what you mean about ‘moments’ and I know what you mean about not remembering how you got there or went happened afterwards. As I have an awful memory my life is full of just bits and moments lol
One was before I even knew what swinging was, when I was about 17. Actually I think this may have been a clue for things to come and what I like! :P I have this image in my head of being perched on a chest freezer in the rear of KFC with the lights on. The shop itself was closed. I was being fucked by a horny KFC guy still mostly in uniform though I was naked. From what I remember the sex was good but what sticks in my mind the most was the thrill of discovering that we were being watched through the main shop window. cool Though, these days I would probably invite them in! :twisted:
But, one of my most erotic memories comes from just a kiss. Makes me wet just thinking about it. I had fancied this guy as soon as I saw him. He was visiting some friends of mine (he was from Liverpool) and he had the most gorgeous dark eyes and wavy hair (sigh). I used to go weak at the knees if he said hello to me. Just before he had to go back, we went to a pub and I can remember all night we just kept looking at each other. We all walked back from the pub and it started raining. As the others walked ahead, he pulled me into an alley and just kissed me. This kiss went right through me and seemed to last for ages. We were both soaking wet and I can remember water dripping down his face into my mouth. I don’t know how long we were there for (probably only about half hour) but the others came back looking for us and we had to go. sad I never saw him again, but I often wonder....
And I still get really turned on when I hear a Liverpudlian accent! So, if your name is Richard and you come from Liverpool (and like snogging women in wet alleys) gimmy a call.:twisted:
:P
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Wow, my first forum post, lol.
Glad I popped in here, I've been having problems tonight to sign in. Glad it's not just me.

Welcome Huni smile
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I am a normal (he says biggrin) guy aged 36 and my mates think its strange that I find women in their 50's and 60's attractive. Most of them like young women in their 20's but I find myself looking at much older women.
I often wonder what would happen if I chatted up a woman of this age as I only admire from afar. I have read stories about men with much older women but don't know how true they are.

Keep it up naughty boy (that phrase sounds familiar lol ;)) in a few years I will be hitting 50 and will need a warm young man to keep me busy :P
wave hey meaty smile How's you?
Well, I sort of try and get here when I can but that means not much! Though I have never been that prolific (as a poster ;) ) just busy with work/study/life etc.
MSN doesn't like me tonight sad
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Don't know if anyone has said it but the golden rule is....
DO NOT transfer the dick from anus to vagina without a thorough wash (thats why condoms are essential) to protect you both from infections!!

Yes I agree.
Wow this is an old thread! lol
I’m still giggling about the foo foo comment by Manolishi earlier in the thread. Cute phrase. :P
I like anal but only for a certain length of time and then I’m ‘Oi! There is more to me you know’ and lots of lube is essential.
It’s even better when done as DP though. :twisted: can't beat that feeling!
They could have been coming to the ad section for ages. I have met some people through the ads who don't even know there is a forum here. Probably because they come here just to meet people and not for chat etc smile
I have aol too, no problems either. I had huge problems with BT though. I suppose it just depends.
I heard that ntl is good value, but we can't get that here.
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Ahhhh - come to Newcastle and we'll f**k all of that Bud and bitternes out of you.... if you're a really good boy we'll spit roast you until you squeel like a piggy... then you can come back and so how much you're getting :twisted:

Ohhh can I watch?? :twisted: