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bevntony
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 51
Bi-curious Female, 52
UK

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Thanks to Mr_D and Chardonnay for organising a great night.
So many fantastic people - had a great time.
Jiggle : Thanks for the dance
Horous : A true gent
Got to be the Mach Turbo razor - the one with the little green button that makes it vibrate...
We did a "I'll shave you if you shave me" deal about a year ago and now it's standard weekly procedure. Not so much as one nick or graze in the whole time we've been doing it - much prefer the feel of soft and silky xxx
Birth of son, wedding day and watching West Ham win on Monday in Cardiff xxx smile
Sorry mine is nowhere near as touching as some of those posted here - but thanks to all for sharing them - they are lovely xxx
anothersharron wrote:
mmmm i would love to meet the man that could fill that lol
Ooooh, me too!!

Vix and Anothersharron - can you pass him on to me when you find him please... smile
You can get a passport in 48 hours and there is an office in Liverpool. All details can be found at : or
But you will have to go to the office - good luck smile
FULL NAME: Bev
WHAT COLOUR PANTS ARE YOU WEARING: Black
WHAT ARE YOU LISTENING TO RIGHT NOW: The birds outside
ARE YOUR LEGS CROSSED: No
WHAT WAS THE LAST THING YOU ATE: Toast
IF YOU WERE A CRAYON, WHAT COLOUR WOULD YOU BE: Blue
HOW IS THE WEATHER RIGHT NOW: blue sky. little breezy but not raining...
LAST PERSON YOU SPOKE TO ON THE PHONE: Tony
FIRST THING YOU NOTICE ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX: Eyes, then teeth...
HOW ARE YOU TODAY: Fab
FAVE NON-ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Coffee
FAVE ALCOHOLIC DRINK: Bud
FAVE SPORTS: football
FAVE HAIR COLOUR: Jet black
FAVE EYE COLOUR: blue
DO YOU WEAR CONTACTS: No
SIBLINGS: 3 sisters
FAVE MONTH: April
FAVE FOODS: Ice cream
LAST MOVIE YOU WATCHED: National Treasure
FAVE DAY OF YEAR: 2nd April
SATURDAY OR SUNDAY: Sat
ARE YOU TOO SHY TO ASK SOMEONE OUT: No..
DO YOU LIKE MARMITE: Yuck!!!!!
SUMMER OR WINTER: Summer
HUGS OR KISSES: Smooches
CHOCOLATE OR VANILLA ICE-CREAM: Vanilla
DO YOU WANT YOUR FRIENDS TO WRITE BACK: Yes
WHO IS MOST LIKELY TO RESPOND: Emer
WHO IS LEAST LIKELY TO RESPOND: No-one
SMOKE: Yes
WHAT BOOKS ARE YOU READING: Gangs
DID YOU WAKE UP BEFORE YOUR ALARM THIS MORNING: Never
FAVE SOAP: None
WHAT INSPIRES YOU: My son
STORMS COOL OR SCARY: Fantastic
FAVE ALBUM: U - Joshua Tree
BUTTERED, PLAIN OR SALTED POPCORN: Salted
FAVE CRISPS: Walkers plain
FAVE CAR: BMW
FAVE FLOWER: Yellow roses
HOW MANY KEYS ON YOUR KEY-RING: 3
CAN YOU JUGGLE: Only life...
FAVE DAY OF WEEK: Friday - gateway to the weekend
RED OR WHITE WINE: Red
WHAT DID YOU DO FOR YOUR LAST BIRTHDAY: Meal
DO YOU OWN A DONOR CARD: Yes
WHAT ARE YOU DOING ONCE THIS IS FINISHED: Work...
FANCY A SHAG: Not right now thanks smile
Hi & welcome - we felt exactly the same when we finally posted on SH - in fact our first thread was titled "excited or scared",,, Having gotten over the first hurdle, we are having the time of our life here - such good fun and some really cool people.
So kick back, pull up a chair and prepare to become addicted - hope you find what you're looking for.
Bev & Tony biggrin xx
Just sharing our happiness - no more work this week, family party on Saturday and off to Cardiff to watch West Ham get promotion - we hope ;-) on Monday - beers and laughter all around for the next 6 days - whoppee... biggrin
What about those costumes that self inflate? We had a overweight Ballerina and a sumo wrestler at a party last year. Great thing about them is they are battery operated so you can inflate and deflate when you want. Plus there is a little built in fan which keeps you cool - Have a good time whatever you decide to go as smile
Well there's the lusty BJ when th ecock is hard, and then there is that gentle BJ following coming from a BJ. It's a muscle, and you always should massage gently an exerted muscle....
Oh bum, that didn't make sense

Made perfect sense to me Maia. smile
isn't it a bit of a chill when we are directly reminded about the risks that are out there, and that having HIV+ people on a swinging site should make us all stop and think.

Think about what Traffic? As responsible individuals we should be aware of all kinds of stuff - being a member of a swinging site doesn't make this any more or less acute.
I'd rather someone tells you up front ( leaving no room for surprises ), than someone that lets you find out when you go for a blood test. Fair play to the lady

Agree with smokerjim on this one - not telling would be much worse..
If this is her first toy I wouldn't recommend a rabbit - they can look quite scary and put in exactly the right position are very powerful.
You can buy "sexual enhancement aids for the ladies" from a well known high st chemists which might be a good place to start.
See how she gets on and then let her choose what she wants to try next.
In the right hands - all vibes/dildo's/toys are good wink
Definition of sperm: A sperm cell, or spermatozoon (pl. spermatozoa) (in Greek: sperm = semen and zoon = alive), is the haploid cell that is the male gamete. It is carried in fluid called semen, and is capable of fertilising an egg cell to form a zygote. A zygote can grow into a new organism, such as a human. Sperm cells contain half of the genetic information needed to create life.
Definition of fish: mostly cold-blooded aquatic vertebrates usually having scales and breathing through gills
My view: I can spot the difference... wink
Doesn't float my boat - not sure why...
Of course, I reserve the right to change opinion if we ever try... wink
I know that the male version is to stop us from wetting the bed, but I had never thought of it from a female point of view before. If you don't have a similar event, what stops you girls from having wetting the bed in the morning.

possibly the fact that women's brains control them, whereas men are controlled by their dick... wink
Horny in the morning??? Oh yes - but alas no time during the week. Hangover sex at the weekends is the best... smile
Woo Hoo - we did it - finally...
Sent a PM to someone we didn't know (and being new there was a mammoth choice) and we got a reply.
Answers to the random question : New York and Brazil - not telling you the question wink
Fab idea Dawn - thanks smile
On the plus side - she did tell you. On the negative side - it was after the event...
Sounds like you both need to re-evaluate as JudyTV mentioned and ensure your boundaries and limits are agreed. This includes the groups of people you do/don't want to be involved with. Otherwise, this could lead to disaster for your relationship.
Have you considered that you might be a little bit jealous (as you know this guy?) and that's more the reason you are a tad miffed than anything else...
Don't do the crime if you don't want to do the time...
Accept your punishment and learn your lesson.
Unlucky...
Reading a tabloid paper today it seems they sent an electric keyboard to the hospital that is caring for the "unknown piano man".
This man has "apparently" stunned listeners with a fantastic display of piano playing on a grand piano and when given pen and paper drew a grand piano - not sure if an electric keyboard is quite what he was looking for.
So, got me to remembering the times when I got something I wasn't quite looking for...
17 yrs old - passed driving test - parents promised me a car - I had Escort XR3i in my mind - what did I get... A fiesta van
Not quite what I was looking for... confused :shock:
I'm sure there must be others of you out there got something you weren't quite looking for - care to tell??
Therefore our suggestion would be to sitting Adam down, explain to him why you are unsettled, explain to him that you are a swinger and that you would like to explore this side of life with him etc etc. Adam might run a mile then again he might surprise you and you could end up in a menage a trois on Friday

How refreshingly sensible... :thumbup:
Darth Vader: I know what Luke is getting for Christmas
Stormtrooper: Why Lord Vader how do you know this?
Darth Vader: I have felt his presents

biggrin :D :D :D
How can they justify £90 for the light sabre???? Outrageous - but they do look good...
Would suggest you take advice given by Mods seriously - they do have the power you know.
We haven't been treated badly by anyone - Mods included - since joining the site - in fact it's been the total opposite. Thank you all you nice people xxx
We all make mistakes - learn from it and get over it - this is a really great place to be a member of, but not if you can't behave as an adult.
Good luck smile
Its all very well , but it aint hot chips wiv vinegar on

Especially at closing time... smile