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1 Aug 2006

Quote by da69ve
While there at it....why don't they go ahead and pull down the entire playground...in fact all playgrounds across the country.....wonder why i have no sympathy for these idiots...who ruin it for others.

who is most stupid?
people in power, with good educations, that believe that getting ride of roundabouts will prevent the problem
or
teenagers who probably missed out on allot of schooling.
I say the people in power, so instead point your dislike to them.

1 Aug 2006

Quote by Steve_Mids
Park rangers are being briefed and some authorities are toying with the idea or removing roundabouts in a bit to stop this practise..

What is wrong with people...removing the roundabout will not solve the problem. This mentality really gets me angry. Nobody talks about removing cares because people die in car crashes. Instead they make shore that people are qualified to drive.
We are no longer children that blame the object for our failures, we are adults that should know better than to place the blame in a dead object.

1 Aug 2006

Quote by Freckledbird
I shall give my verdict when I have seen the new guy in action.
Shaun Connery is the ultimate Bond with out a doubt, how many men get away with slapping women on cinema and still is admired by all.
I've been a Bond fan since I was 7 or 8, however the two last Bonds have bean a pile of Hollywood wish wash... But Pierce Brosnan was a good Bond never the less

SEAN Connery!
Ah... thank you for pointing that out redface

redface

1 Aug 2006

I shall give my verdict when I have seen the new guy in action.
Shaun Connery is the ultimate Bond with out a doubt, how many men get away with slapping women on cinema and still is admired by all.
I've been a Bond fan since I was 7 or 8, however the two last Bonds have bean a pile of Hollywood wish wash... But Pierce Brosnan was a good Bond never the less

1 Aug 2006

Quote by stevestoo
mine has got to be the one with kim bassinger and micky orouke ,hell i forgot the name of it now ........

Nine 1/2 Weeks?

1 Aug 2006

Sounds like this really aggravates you ruislip32... I can understand that, since being a man on here is hard work, but that is how it is. It is not equal... girls get swamped with mails the moment they get on here, and I recon even more so if they put pictures up, and that might be one reason they don't.
my advice is, just let it brush over you...

Quote by ruislip32
Is it just me, or is anyone else pissed off with these people?
They post an advert, absolutely DEMANDING a facial pic, cock pic etc, and saying they will NEVER reply to someone that doesn't post. Yet they won't post any of their own!!!!
I have to be careful about my pics cos of the job, so I find it hard work putting my pic in the private "invite only" section, and then inviting each and every advertiser. But if I can manage it, why can't they?
Bloody time wasting buggers!
I'd appreciate your views!
Andrew.

1 Aug 2006

so... does anyone like going to the dentist, maybe even get turned on by it...

1 Aug 2006

Interesting... points piercedJon
However I totally disagree, but before I start, this is an age old discussion of what is art and what is kitsch.
Personally I think it is an elitist thing, art is normally made with the backing of theory and signs which the art critic can reed from the work or reed in to it. Kitsch is for the masses it is not initially made to stimulate any thought beyond pure visual pleasure. This sounds easy enough... but the problem is that people have varying opinions on what is kitsch, some people read more in to â€˜visual work' some read less.
And the same can be said about erotica and porn. Normally more effort has gone in to making erotica, it is not as intermediate and it plays more on the fantasy whilst porn is more a mater of getting the camera out and getting that shoot of the dick going in to the pusy.
It might seam that I'm agreeing with your statement:

Quote by piercedJon
As far as I can see its "art/erotica" if its done by someone taught in the right schools... and porn if done by everyone else or they have already got a name in the mainstream

But there is one minute difference those people taught at the right schools are putting thought in to their work, whilst everyone else probably is not. This is not to say that an â€˜uneducated personâ€™ can not make art or erotica, it is just saying for him to succeed he most think further then his dick.
Yes the older porn has changed in value and people look at it differently. But it's significantse has more to do with what role it had in history, then the artistic quality
If this did not bore you, then have a look at
If you are really interested in this topic then look up what has to say on â€˜Eroticaâ€™, â€˜Pornâ€™ and â€˜artâ€™
Initially I did not want this to turn in to this discussionâ€¦ al I wanted was to get a list of good erotic filmsâ€¦ but I could not keep my mouth closed.

Quote by piercedJon
I have a spanner and I'm going to throw it in the works!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A lot of the older "porn" now has reached "art/erotica/cult" status, such as the films with mary-millington, debbie does xxxxx, confessions of xxxxxx, et. al.
At the time they were considered "porn" but are now not.... Even the Ben-dover films now hold status as being the groundbreaking "gonzo" movies even though "home/self shot" pornos had been on the market since VHS and cheap(ish) cams became publically available in the late 80's which opened up a huge cheap "swappers" market.
"rubenesqe" paintings were the porn of the day..... so were a lot of other nude paintings, now they sell for thousands.
The only difference between porn and art/erotica is that when its initially sold.... porn costs a few pounds, art/erotica costs more!
(orginally I would have said... art costs Â£399+ a print, porn costs a mag, but that no longer holds true)
Art/erotica/porn all have one underlying point...... to get someone turned on!
I dont think its possible to classify what should go into each category anymore (unless you take a simple aproach, if its in BnW then its art if colour its porn) as the likes of Tony Ward and Helmut Newton basically have done "porn" and managed to pass it off as "art," Madonna (singer) sold "soft porn" of her self as art with her book "sex" in the 80's
As far as I can see its "art/erotica" if its done by someone taught in the right schools... and porn if done by everyone else or they have already got a name in the mainstream.

1 Aug 2006

Yea I'm not that over keen about the dentist my self, but I don't fear is as bad as Tony or Steve_Mids
I recently had two wisdom teeth removed, and to my great relief they knocked me out totally. Apparently I could still walk and talk, but I did not remember anything until three hours after the operation.
and that is how the dentist should be, you should remember nothing of it...

31 Jul 2006

How long ago was it that those singles came out?

Quote by SymonOUna
I'm an unsigned act too. I've even had a couple of singles out and frequently perform around London.
Now, ask me how long ago those singles came out...
(Sigh)

31 Jul 2006

To bad she could not owe up to her mistake... but I guess the alcohol is to blame for everything...
So the moral of to days lesson was:
Donâ€™t let someone get away with your embarrassing moments on videoâ€¦

31 Jul 2006

Hm... I mostly lisen to music on my Mac and Ipod...
at the moment it is Opeth's Ghost Reveries that is geting most played

31 Jul 2006

â€˜Number 1â€™ pointed me in this direction, after my post on erotic films.
I must say that this was mind blowing, since I have a preference for big nipples...
I have bean meaning to see a Pedro Almodavar film for some wile now... and now I know with what one I shall start...

31 Jul 2006

Quote by H-x
Like water for chocolate, no idea who it was by or who was in it.
H.x

Apparently it was by Alfonso Arau

I shall keep an aye out for that one

31 Jul 2006

Interesting... I shall look forward to seeing the results of this venture...

31 Jul 2006

Hi all, I thought I should try posting my first topic.
I would like to try and make a top 20 list (or a bigger list if people have loads of suggestions) of good erotic films, or films that have turned you on, that are not porn.
My nominees are:
Secretary by Steven Shainberg
Just because it is so incredibly beautifully made, with great characters.
Tierra by Julo Medem
Maybe more of a love story than an erotic film.
Sex and Lucia by Julio Medem
Pure beautyâ€¦
Preaching to the Perverted by Stuart Urban
I love this film for taking up some important isuses and for having loads of latex smile

smile

Sex, Lies, and Videotape by Steven Soderbergh
I saw it around 13 years ago, but it is stuck to my brainâ€¦
Urotsukidoji, Legend of the Overfiend by Hideki Takayama
Highly disturbing, but I love it
Hellraiser by Clive Barker
You herd right, I donâ€™t know why but most of these films have a certain effect, I think I have a thing for evil Demon Women.
Please tell us your favourites?

31 Jul 2006

hm... I'm not too convinced... but maybe it's just my taste...
They sound like they might better live
by the way they have the same name as a Norwegian black metal festival

31 Jul 2006

Just got back from London, had to pick up a picture
and now I'm delaying house work... but I shall soon, very soon start cleaning, washing and dustingâ€¦

30 Jul 2006

I'm new here to... but that's no excuse to say welcome is it... so welcome :cheers:
Why I'm her:
I've met nice girls in the real world, but they al seem to be too nice and 'boring', or we have had similar interests but not the right spark. Hence I'm extending my search to SH to hopefully bump in to that special someone...
Love should come accidentallyâ€¦ but it doesnâ€™t hurt encouraging the accident.

30 Jul 2006

Quote by Tania
After talking to a fellow member online, I realised I have a geek/nerd fetish. I am attracted to guys with glasses (round, metal rimmed ones) who seem a bit awkward or uneasy but have a very loving and giving nature. Ever since I was a little girl, I would cut off pics of male models in glasses and put them in my album. Has anyone else got the same fetish?

three of my female friends (not sexual) have admitted to this fetish

30 Jul 2006

I think it is a great idea...
I wonder how long it would take?

30 Jul 2006

Quote by firelizard
The big question is, canâ€™t or wonâ€™t
If you think your partner canâ€™t have sex, the result say of an accident or severe illness, itâ€™s so much easier to accept a loss of part of a relationship.
If however, one partner has the suspicion, well founded or not, that the other wonâ€™t have sex, then the whole thing becomes much harder to live with.
Stormwalker

A verry good point

30 Jul 2006

Hm....
as partners one needs to be compatible... one hopefully gets together because of this, + love obviously, but I think compatibility and love come hand in hand.
and then one is suppose to grow together, because love changes as the relationship gets older. However some partners find that they grow away from each other... which results in a brake...
Here comes my point, what does it mean to grow away from each other... it can be a hole number of things, such as interests, life values and sex
so... yes if the sex is not working then the chances for a brake is higher, and higher still if other aspects of the relation ship is not working.
I have bean in two relationships where it has ended because the sex has started not to work... but there were additional factors that became decisive
A film to watch is Breaking the Waves
It is very thought provoking and is about this subject

30 Jul 2006

Quote by firelizard
I rather like the Ride of the Valkiries by Wagner

Accompanied by the sound of Huey blades, and the smell of napalm? wink

wink

Stormwalker Surfs up dude!
or accompanied by the Ku Klux Klan on horse back riding to save innocent virgins from "evil" black slaves, a scene from The Birth of a Nation from 1915 which besides its controversial content is a very important film in terms of film history, it was one of the films that defined how we edit films to day.
This was the first film where Ride of the Valkiries was used, and to what Coppola was probably referring when he used it in Apocalypse Now.
I'm going on about this because I believe my first post on this, was censored from the forum... something I personally find bizarre when one is aloud to laugh at stupid chaves killing them selves (we donâ€™t know that for shore from the linked film clip, but it is highly possible one of the girls broke her neck), see the topic 'Chavs get served' http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/84469.html
Iâ€™m no big fan of Chaves, but they are still peopleâ€¦
Iâ€™m not advertising racismâ€¦ Iâ€™m quoting history.

30 Jul 2006

Hm... I should have pointed out that it was female gimps in latex body suits

Quote by de_sade
Yea aliens are good... but I also have a thing for demons (have you seen the women in Hell Raiser?), elves, gimps, fairies, witches, vampires, and zombies.

Are you sure that what you wrote is what you meant? blink

blink

De_sade

30 Jul 2006

Seven of Nine as Borg or as a human?
I presume you mean the human version, however I personally would go for Seven of Nine as a Borg with the Borg Queen and a couple of the little Borg soldiers joining in...

29 Jul 2006

Quote by helnheaven
Confidence comes in lots of different forms. It can be subtle and also something that only comes accross when you know somebody well. You don;t have to be the life and soul of the party to be comfortable in your own skin.
:helnheaven

a good point...
Something to consider: Extraverts are often mistaken for having confidence because of their outward nature... however that is not necessarily a sign of confidence...
oh and I donâ€™t think that everyone is confident 24/7... I think a confident person is someone who constantly fights to rise above self doubt... and wins more often the not

29 Jul 2006

ah but you have only got 30 winks at your disposal... if you are going to argue with your self through the night... then you must economize...

Quote by Valton
I also sent a wink yesterday :shock: to my self and clean forgot I had and then got all excited when a half hour later the auto responder PM'd me back ops:

Can you send to yourself :shock:
May try just to say i had one :lol:
i did giggle the day i wondered if you could pm yourself, and found it worked :giggle:
Now I really am impressed, I can spend all night arguimg with and winking at myself!
Trouble is, no one will know the difference from a usual Sat night.

29 Jul 2006

You could give her something you have made
or
something kinky
or
what about expensive stockings... they are always in demand?

29 Jul 2006

Yea aliens are good... but I also have a thing for demons (have you seen the women in Hell Raiser?), elves, gimps, fairies, witches, vampires, and zombies.
I wonder if zombie sex would be considered necrophilia?
On a more serious note
Dressing up is a big fetish of min (maybe youâ€™ve already gathered that)