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darrenlondon
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 45
0 miles · Greater London

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i tend toward older women because i find that i have more in common with them than girls my own age. i wish i knew why!
back in east london for property investors show this weekend. anything to recommend?
thanks
while i had fun relaxing in the spa, and i did chat briefly with a few nice and interesting people, it was mainly just single guys following the few naked girls around. i saw no "action" at all, but then again i didn't expect to. i'd gone to hopefully meet some like-minded people but this obviously isn't the place for chatting and making friends, it seems very cliquey.
i found a few people (regulars?) to be incredibly rude.
i will go again, because on the whole the atmosphere was friendly, and it was a nice environment.
i thought the punchline was going to be that they wouldn't serve you either because you had no ID.
lol
i'm in the same boat! biggrin
have patience. that's the best advice i got.
basically, don't be expecting anything to happen. just get involved in chats/discussions etc. and the least that can happen is that you meet some fantastic/interesting/weird* new friends.
* delete as applicable
hard to be horny when you're sat at your desk at work. surprised
chat rooms busiest i've ever seen it. trouble getting into the main rooms.
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http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/88767.html
Darren are you about on Saturday afternoon??

Thanks Sarah, I saw that meet-up posted, but unfortunatly i'm going away this weekend. Shame. I'll keep an eye out for the next one! smile
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Coffee it is then. Meet2pleaseu joining us? Normal flirting service will resume soon...

great... well i like my coffee like i like my men...
err oh dear
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>I clearly have no idea how to flirt with men<

coffee is a good start smile
patience, and common sense.
i've lurked around here for a long time (a year!) before i started posting. i've only just started posting and contacting people. but I have chatted quite a bit in the chatrooms, and i've been getting to know a few people in the chat room, and just making friends and getting to know how things work.
i've still not had any sex, or met anyone, as i know i'm still a newbie to this scene. but for me it's more about getting to know people and seeing what happens
my time will come evenutally! lol lol
i'm going to bring along my GF to this event for the first time. i think she'll love it.
i didn't actually go to rios tonight. i was delayed at work. well - that's my excuse. i think i'm going to try and get there on wednesday now.
hopefully i don't chicken out again this time. lol
Hi,
I'm going along to Rio's for the first time tonight. It's take a while to pluck up the courage to go, but I'm looking forward to it now. I'm more of a naturist than swinger anyway so i'm hoping it's the place for me.
From what I've read i'm expecting the demographic to be a bit older than me (I'm 27 y/o). But i'm ok with that. I'm not expecting anything to happen, but I'm hoping I at least meet some like minded people.
If you are going to be there, please look out for the young guy and be friendly ! smile
thanks
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Hey,
It's started getting cold again, so as the winter aproaches, i'm thinking about next summer.
Last summer me and my girlfriend had an amazing two weeks in Croatia. We spent several days traveling up the coast, starting at Dubrovnik, and ending at Hvar - where we spent a most of the days on the Naturist island of Jerolim.
We found that there's an abundance of naturist beaches in croatia, and many other public beaches tend to be "clothing-optional" too. in fact, everywhere we stayed there was at least one part of the beach that would be nude.
From all the places I've been, croatia has been the most naturist friendly... has anyone else found the same? what are your hot tips for holiday destinations?
Now that the winter nights are drawing in... I'm looking forward to next summer, and finding another amazing destination like croatia is top of the list for next year.
thanks
thanks.
i've read tons of info here... not sure how i missed that! now to find myself a helpful mentor! lol
Hi,
I have been reading all the information on this site, and I have to say this is one of the best resources on the internet. There's so much information on the site and in the forums, that it's hard to take it all in.
I'm not sure if you can remember when you were just a newbie. It's hard to know where to start. I am thinking that, as I live in London, a trip to somewhere like Rio's would be a good start. What do you think? How intimidating is this for a first timer?
Is there a "first time" guide online anywhere?
Thanks,
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