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froggystyle
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 49
0 miles · London

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Quote by Kaznkev
lol
But how about from the couples perspective.
Discretion assured.........i am married.
Facepics unavailable........i am married.
Sorry i don't give out my mobile number.....i am married.
i am discovering my bi side.....i;m straight but really fancy the woman.(more common than you might think.)
Openminded.......runs a mile when you get the strap on out ! lol
And generally the easiest way to avoid "male to male "stuff is point meet straight couples!

biggrin very true!
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After 6 years of playing as a single guy in the life-style, I’ve learnt a few things from my experiences and will like to share with other single guys.
Questions that couples ask and what they really mean…………
1. How open-minded are you?
It means they are into some type of role-play stuff, cuckolding, BDSM or male to male stuff.
If you indicate that you are very open-minded, do not be surprised if the hubby plays with your ass or tries to suck your cock in the middle of the act. Find out exactly what they are into and establish your comfort level before getting into bed with them.
2. How tall are you?
It means they don’t like short people, if you are only 3ft, stay home!
3. How big are you?
The wife loves big fat cocks and your little 4” cock just won’t do it.
4. Can you host?
It means the deed will be done in your house or in a hotel. Be prepared to pay for the hotel room.
5. Have you ever been with a couple?
They want an experienced guy who is not shy and can get it up on cue.
6. Can my hubby lick my pussy while you fuck me?
Most likely, he wants to suck your cock too!
7. Do you always use condoms?
That is a tricky one, they are either a bareback couple or condoms only couple, find out before you meet them!
8. Are you shaved down there?
Just shave your hairy gorilla ass before you meet them!
9. Are you camera-shy?
You will be starring in their private porn movie. Dress like a Ninja or pray and hope that the clips don’t end up on xtube.
10. How old are you?
Couples look for younger guys, older guys or guys their age. Be truthful.
Play safe!
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I moved from Kent to Boston a few years ago and have been out of touch.
Imagine my surprise when i picked up the New York Times this morning and saw this story.....

I've been grinning all day.
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I moved to Boston a couple of years ago and i had to learn not to say...
car park (it's parking lot)
lorry (truck)
biscuit (cookie)
bin (trash)
fizzy drink (soda)
Oh well!
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I remember watching Carmen Electra on CBS riding the sybian on the Howard Stern show.....
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Clubs in US are mainly for couples and single fems but Casbar in Brooklyn admits single guys on friday nights, you might have to give them a ring first...

...and if you fancy coming to Boston(where i live), send a pm for some club links.
froggystyle
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Quote by PoloLady

It was just my view that since this guy's wife did have unprotected oral sex with the prostitute then they should get checked out before meeting people on here.

There were 3 different rooms open relating to 'bareback' in the chatrooms the other day... one room having 70 people in it.
There are members on this and many other swinging sites who are also sex-workers. In the main they are here for the same reason as most other people - to enjoy recreational sex (though some do try touting until they are caught).
There are people on here who fuck more men in one session than some sex-workers do in a week/month.
Who is to say whether that girl you 'know' so well hasn't been for a test and in the two week period waiting for the results to come through didn't drop her pants for one of the guys from the bareback sex room?
So... may be people should just have regular check-ups regardless of where the last casual shag came from.
Well said PoloLady :thumbup:
I've seen 'bareback' sex in swingers clubs and parties many times and i've also been asked a few times to take my condom off in the middle of the act. IMHO having unprotected sex with a swinger is just as risky as having it with a prostitute.
froggy
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I went on a very cold winter night (on a saturday) and had loads of fun so good luck!. :thumbup:
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Harry,
I've only been to this place once but i'm sure you'll find what you're looking for there......
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/reviews-195.html#reviews
Hope this helps.
froggy
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Quote by suzyneeds
Right Scorpiolady1 n Suzyneeds are in London for 1 night only and are lookin for some hot black guys to entertain them! So make us an offer and we'll consider them all very carefully before we choose the best one ! So we wanna know venue, statistics, entertainment on offer and any other detail you think we need to know >>>> so fire away !!
Oh yes it would help if you know the date lol Friday December 1st

Sent you a pm with details earlier but this is just a follow up on your request to post here. Very interested in meeting both of you.
Venue - suggested a club
entertainment on offer- can you handle it? cool
lol
froggy
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Quote by tyracer
crazy place this.
A lady wants a guy,she's prepared to meet up on her own and fuck.
Now why dont i live in london mad
Whats the video for? biggrin

some of us just hit the pm button and reply privately. I'm sure she 's got more replies than what is showing in the thread here.
cheers
froggy
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Dear Brigsey,
On June 24th 2005, you wrote:
Essex Fun
Quote by brigsey
Hi everyone.
Im a guy, who is sometimes part of a couple that like to swing.
We live in Essex, but sometimes I swing alone, sometimes we are together.
Im looking for advice please. Since moving to Essex, we are struggling to find places to go, primarily to watch and occassionally be watched.
We find most of the usual places weve heard of, are full of gay males, who tend to be pushy and intimidating, effecively scaring off genuine lady particiants like my lady friend, which makes most of the places we have gone to a place full of testosterone fuelled men.
Can anyone help suggest where we can go, for genuine fun, in and around Essex?
As said above, sometimes we play together, but sometimes on our own.
Your help would be appreciated.
cheers

Questions:
1. are you a swinging virgin then?
2. why do you say you are a single guy when you are part of a couple?
3. why would you expect anyone to take you seriously?
froggystyle
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Quote by HarryJones
Get better soon Harry kiss

Thanks Alidar, I'm soo not looking forward to another sleepless night. :cry: Oh and the next available doctors appointment is about 7th November - I might be dead by then :!: lol
Regards
Harry Jones
My mate Harry,
I know how you're feeling because i've had the same symptoms since monday night.....shivers, sore throat, headache and sleepless nights. I took Beechams cold and flu hot lemon and now i'm feeling much better.
get well soon!
froggystyle
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Well i suppose it works both ways. There are ladies who stop playing once they cum. confused
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Quite eccentric, but she wanted your attention Harry. I know because i was there. wink
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Hi Marc,
I sent you a pm earlier. I would love to attend your party if its o.k.
Many thanks.
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Many thanks to berrnie and bassman for a very lovely and enjoyable night. Wish you all the best on your charity trek to Peru.
Mike C, you're the man!. it was nice to meet Corriefem, Mistress Sassy, dumbaster, Sarah and everyone else i spoke to.
xxx
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
What a bunch of lovely people!!. It was my very first munch and i have to say thanks to Dreamerhelen.
Also many thanks to the gorgeous Makingcocoa, Happy cats, Fallen Angel, NN, Darkfire and all the lovely people i met. :cheers:

hey u never did tell me how you do it froggystyle lol :lol:
Ah, i'll put that in my "to do" list. Next time we meet i'll show you biggrin
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What a bunch of lovely people!!. It was my very first munch and i have to say thanks to Dreamerhelen.
Also many thanks to the gorgeous Makingcocoa, Happy cats, Fallen Angel, NN, Darkfire and all the lovely people i met. :cheers:
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Quote by debbiewebs
eeekkkkkk i no i have been off line a while and i have had to change me name
but does any one out there no me......... dunno
errrrrrr something to do with spiders lol

Nice to see you back Debs!!
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Quote by Debbiewebs
wink but not only that................. i will at 11 pm to mo .........will be putting my own dec in................... i am not here in any way shape or form to piss the new owners off.............. just to show them that how all of us here are as one that means family and not as just a community ........... and to come and join us...............like Mark did! he was as one with us!......right from the very begining!............we us oldies miss him very much....and i no its going to be difficult for you to take his place.i will not expect that at all just come in and join us!................

well said Debs!, glad to see you back on line kiss
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I .......Froggystyle.... solemnly declare that.......errrr....Debbiewebs is sooo sweet and sexy and i will always remember the dance floor thingy. kiss I will continue to take the piss . . . keep my humour.... hold my head up high..... and fight on the seas and oceans to defend our swinging heaven what ever the challenge maybe........ I shall never surrender!
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Quote by naughtynymphos1
I don't think anyone thinks all big women are beatiful, just as all slim women are not beatiful, i think as i have said b4 BBW is a term used by guys who think big IS beatiful not that all big women ARE beatiful, and as so many woman have said its a tearm they use to let other know that they are over weight, they are not saying...hey look at me arn't i a stunner!!
I could be wrong thats just how i see it bolt

You are right :thumbup:
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Quote by well_busty_babe

You "larger" ladies may have an issue with your size.... some men find that attractive.
So, it takes all types........

err no..............................
we have settled on the word FAT now!
dont let the side down!
IMHO, the term BBW is a politically correct description of fat women within the subculture of fat admirers to emphasize their confidence, sexiness and attractiveness. The attraction and beauty is defined by their pleasant appearance, charisma and charm. Personally, I do not see anything wrong with the BBW label. :smitten:
if they were confident they would not need to be told that they are beatiful BECAUSE they are big, they would believe inside that they were beatiful because they were them!!!!
so what about the fat people who are dpwnright minging? what about the ones who would look better with a bag over their heads and have no personality at all?
how can you generalise so much by saying that because people are FAT that they have a pleasant appearance charm and charisma
You have missed the point. I did say that it is the "subculture of fat admirers ( or FA's)" who describe fat women as such. This was no generalization. You may disagree with that but what a boring world it would be if we all liked the same things. Everyone has preferences. If one has a preference for blondes for example, it does not mean they like all blondes. People can prefer fat women and set their own definitions for what they find attractive and charming.