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Sexlightened
Quote by Marya_Northeast
the recpetionists ..... grrrrr
"what is it for?" - like i'm gonna tell you, you glorified pen-pusher .....
This is totally how it should be. But you know as soon as you've left, the bloody receptionist fishes your records out of the filing pile and has a good look just on principle. Cow. :x
Sexlightened
Quote by Marya_Northeast
the recpetionists ..... grrrrr
"what is it for?" - like i'm gonna tell you, you glorified pen-pusher .....
In an ideal world.... but you know as soon as you've left, the bloody receptionist fishes your records out of the filing pile and has a good look just on principle. Cow. :x
Sexlightened
I think that, as someone mentioned earlier in the thread, a lot of it is down to attitude.
If a single swinger went on to become involved in a relationship in which they were unwilling to continue swinging, this would maybe suggest that they were just swinging as a means to get a shag.
Just a thought
If a single swinger went on to become involved in a relationship in which they were unwilling to continue swinging, this would maybe suggest that they were just swinging as a means to get a shag.
Just a thought
Sexlightened
If you're both up for MFF then that's cool, however, introducing an Ex, especially where one of you feels uncomfortable, doesn't sound like a great idea. (it may be an easy option for Mr, but is the ex as uncomfortable as you are for instance?)
Maybe it would be better to decide what you want from a 3rd person and head for that as a fresh perspective, with none of the emotional baggage attached to past relationships.
It may work with an ex, and those that have done so may be able to offer more sage advice, but on the surface, with the information given, if you are at all unhappy with something, then don't do it!!
Hope that helps...
Mr Hugs
xx
Maybe it would be better to decide what you want from a 3rd person and head for that as a fresh perspective, with none of the emotional baggage attached to past relationships.
It may work with an ex, and those that have done so may be able to offer more sage advice, but on the surface, with the information given, if you are at all unhappy with something, then don't do it!!
Hope that helps...
Mr Hugs
xx
Sexlightened
Having been quiet for some time, due to impending babydom, it's our privilege to start this thread and come back to the forums after a long hiatus...
Firstly, Thanks to Sarah for organising a great night at a cool venue.
Nextly, thanks to Darkfire and Dambuster for welcoming us back into the fold, so to speak, and to Jas and Earthchild for chatting with us for most of our evening, nice to meet some new peeps and good to catch up with some we haven't seen for a while!
Lastly, thanks to Vix, for surprising Mr Hugs, and hopefully we''ll see y'all again when when baby H has arrived in around 8 weeks!
See ya soon,
Mr & Mrs Hugs
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Firstly, Thanks to Sarah for organising a great night at a cool venue.
Nextly, thanks to Darkfire and Dambuster for welcoming us back into the fold, so to speak, and to Jas and Earthchild for chatting with us for most of our evening, nice to meet some new peeps and good to catch up with some we haven't seen for a while!
Lastly, thanks to Vix, for surprising Mr Hugs, and hopefully we''ll see y'all again when when baby H has arrived in around 8 weeks!
See ya soon,
Mr & Mrs Hugs
xxxxxxxxx
Sexlightened
Hi all...
to those who've met & know us (and those who don't!):
Our presence on SH recently has been a little sporadic & flaky, so to those we kmow, sorry for that, we've been a bit crap at staying in touch!!
The reason for this is that Mrs Hugs is now officially known as: PREGGERSFACE!!!
:shock: :twisted: hehe
Now at 20 weeks, we've got the 2nd scan next week, where we find out what flavour it's gonna be and Mother & baby are doing fine! :mrgreen:
I guess SH hasn't been a priority for us since we foud out, but we did meet some cracking people while we were here and going to socials etc, so although we might not be around much, we will be around and in touch...
That's all I guess, we've taken our pics and ad down for the meantime, but we'd still like to stay in touch with folks, cos you're all lovely! ( I know ya shouldn't make sweeping generalisations, but the glass is half full at the minute!!)
Take Care,
Mr & Mrs Hugs
xxxx
:shock: 8-) :evil:
to those who've met & know us (and those who don't!):
Our presence on SH recently has been a little sporadic & flaky, so to those we kmow, sorry for that, we've been a bit crap at staying in touch!!
The reason for this is that Mrs Hugs is now officially known as: PREGGERSFACE!!!
:shock: :twisted: heheNow at 20 weeks, we've got the 2nd scan next week, where we find out what flavour it's gonna be and Mother & baby are doing fine! :mrgreen:
I guess SH hasn't been a priority for us since we foud out, but we did meet some cracking people while we were here and going to socials etc, so although we might not be around much, we will be around and in touch...
That's all I guess, we've taken our pics and ad down for the meantime, but we'd still like to stay in touch with folks, cos you're all lovely! ( I know ya shouldn't make sweeping generalisations, but the glass is half full at the minute!!)
Take Care,
Mr & Mrs Hugs
xxxx
:shock: 8-) :evil: Sexlightened
Quote by naughtynymphos1
Naaah, I vote we all just live off burgers and beer for the duration! :giggle:
i tried doing that last year wasnt a good idea
good, though we was going to stuck woth just them for the night then lol :shock:
I'll PM phone number nearer time so we can arrange something :thumbup:
If that means what I think it means..... (hard to tell with the appalling english).......
Oi! :2fingers: You can go off people you know....... :giggle:
Sexlightened
Quote by goose35
Got a reply of admin who said much as naughty said
In order to switch to the annual subscription, you would firstly need to cancel the monthly subscription which debits your account on a monthly basis.
Therefore once your account membership runs out for that last month that you paid, you can then upgrade to the year subscription and also the extras. However as these are two separate upgrades, two transactions would be required.
Ok cool, thanks for finding that out Goose :thumbup: :thumbup:
Just gotta work out when to cancel so i've got enough left for a full year's, idiot that I am been paying monthly for 4 months!! :doh:
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Sexlightened
Quote by john60
Since joining late 2005 I expected to be inundated with masses of people wanting sex with me..Woh ..How wrong I apperently dont work that way ...
indeed how wrong you were....
1) I found out very quickly that SW is very much an exhibitionist site in which you view and enjoy.
for starters, maybe, but there's so much more...
2) Not much actual "swinging" take place -most of the site is chit caht
How do you actually swing via t'interweb? Apart from the "exhibitionist" cams, and chatting and getting to know folks, you cannot physically swing via WWW....
3) Chat rooms are fun but are really like the old guys CB ( citizens banb radio) ie where are u ,how old are u etc exept with the twist of show uz ur jugs / conna cum now type carp
You may enjoy it is not exactly direct people contact
No, but it is what folks want from a swinging chatroom, and direct contact would be a real club, not an interweb chatroom...
2) Surely people who wish to have sex or exploit themselves on the internet must realise that other people will want to manipulate them for thier own wise there is no purpose in SWINGERS HEAVEN????
No, surely people who wish to meet other liberated folks must realise that sometimes, the people they are chatting to have NO RESPECT!!
3) It is very,repeat very easy to get "booted" by Gestapo style observers who apperently seem to choose their own style and method of policeing their is no consistency....Newcomers beware!!!!
We're relative newcomers and have had nothing but welcomes on this site from some awesome people who have helped us relax into the scene,and feel at ease
4) I get very , very p****ed off with people who want to see people wank off /f***k /and commit buggery on cam and yet they are sanctamonious enough to believe they are doing a servive by putting " NO DIRECTION" on a chatroom WHY??????
cos in some rooms ya can direct, some ya can't... seems simple enough...
5) THere is too much Non Directing in this site ------it will soon become just another chat site...IS THAT WHAT WE WANT??
So....if it was all directing, wouldn't it be another forum for peeps to be directing their own interweb porn?... the non-directing is what makes it voluntary and friendly...
But to answer your original question: Does Swingers Heaven REALLY swing...?
Yes it effing does!! :twisted: :twisted:
<deep breath>!!
Sexlightened
Please feel free to lock this, but we just wanted to know how do we go about getting membership charged once for a year after paying monthly?
We paid monthly to check the benefits, decided we liked it here and wanted to stay, but do we hafta cancel our account and start again, or is there an easier way? the Credit card payment always seems to go out just before we have the chance to pay for a year...
There doesn't seem to be an option for changing from the monthly charge to the (far more reasonable) annual fee....
Sorry if this is answered somewhere else, but it's late...
MrandMrs H
xx
We paid monthly to check the benefits, decided we liked it here and wanted to stay, but do we hafta cancel our account and start again, or is there an easier way? the Credit card payment always seems to go out just before we have the chance to pay for a year...
There doesn't seem to be an option for changing from the monthly charge to the (far more reasonable) annual fee....
Sorry if this is answered somewhere else, but it's late...
MrandMrs H
xx
Sexlightened
Quote by rampantrabbit
Anywho, back to the original question - What do you SH ladies want from the site?
Have Fun x
most are looking for Mr Hugs, but he's usually passed out somewhere after a good night with me (Mrs H), so they hafta make do with random single guys....or maybe someone who just thinks about hisposts a bit more...
:shock: 