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jivedancer
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 53
0 miles · West Sussex

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hehehe Indeed the plan B ( which for those lacking in vitamin humour ) was never the opening line. I do think it funny though that you see it so often and its just not friendly. It seems to happen in Chat rooms quite a bit. though I dont understand how its believed to be efficient. Oh well!
Chatting in the room is always a balance between presence and politeness but wow some comments I see when I walk in make me give up all hope for my side of the Gender race !
Thanks for chipping in though Missy but I think I will take your advice and hope people can keep the opening post in context.
I mean I dont mind a poking but usually I like to be relaxed and ready for it !
What a smart conversation and an good question to ask.
No your not straight laced its your point of view.
Since respecting each others limits and desires is an important part of swinging understanding that some areas are turn offs or off limits is also important.
Personally I dont find either term derogatory however that doesnt mean I am wrong or right or that another individual is wrong or right , in that view its just a position to be taken in context to the definition.
its often interesting that its the external observer who places value judgements on the recipients and creators and then creates their own noise levels to jusitfy their views and remove the rights and privileges of others to express them.
Use of a word, any word, with a lover a partner or a friend would have context and can infer as much respect and honour without degrading the individual but those are measures valued within context of that relationship and cant be judged externally.
Using a word without context with a individual who is not familiar with myself or my partners and friends will lead to conflict and upset so I would be careful how to employ it.
Im probably not explaining it well so I better be prepared to be flamed.
Thanks for asking the question though its a smart one.
Thank you , wow what a warm welcome its like walking into bar to discover that if you buy the right drink and observe a little decorum then just possibly you can open up some.... dialog.
I am so glad I didnt go with the other opening line then
"hi guy in sussex looking for fun anyone around"
I mean it seems the most popular opening line but I didnt think it reflected my intentions well enough !
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Hmm a completely PANTS conversation ! I love it.
For me I have bought ( this is probably quite dull ) Black Boxer Trunks exclusively.
I tend ( to the annoyance of my wife ) to wear a fresh pair every day or swap into a fresh pair on really sweaty days.
Since I only wear black boxer trunks I find I can spot when some of them are turning grey and needing the bin.
Its about the only metrosexual act you can catch me doing. I think.
well from one new member to another let me say hello and welcome and how are you. It always seems hard to break into old conversations so catching new people as they arrive and forming new conversations might be easier. At least thats what I am doing!
Hmm Naughy but Nice.
Well I have restrained my self from having that last bottle of Ale until I had completed a few basic tasks.
I completed them today so for my treat I will be opening the Beer ( ohh the belly requires work ! ) and enjoying a little pleasure for that last week of pain.
Thank you Missy and Lost. Yep its time to keep pumping away at some content in order to enlarge the awareness of my presence. Certainly I would hope to get all that I would wish otherwise why do we all come here eh !
Its tricky to know where to bust into a conversation sice you hate to be a new voice among a crowd of people familiar with each others rythms.
Ill keep watching for that moment to jump in eh.
Good evening and thanks for reading. Im Nick a long term lurker and ( probably ) first time poster ( well that I can recall ).
Like so many I have been around the sites and even visited couple of clubs and Id have to say that this site has remained the most consistent in the level of quality people and discussions I have seen. No, im not creeping here .. i mean it.
So please do check out my profile. I hope it makes it clear I am married and playing with consent. Ideally we are hoping I can make new girl friend here that can in time become part of our friendship at home as well. Weve had some great friends but over time everyone moves on.
Life in sussex is to say the least not the most hedonistic with most of the good clubs closed and the closest being a good hours plus drive away so id hate to make a trip that wasnt going to be anything less than entertaining and fun ( hey Im human right ? )
So there we go , thats me , thats my introduction. Feel free to critique my profiles if theres anything unclear I will try to correct it.
Thanks for stopping by.
and I promise to save the Toffees when I bring the Roses.
Thanks Whygirl
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